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[jimbrowski]

So I have this white female that'ts married that I've been fucking around with for about a year.
She works on my job (BIG MISTAKE), and has introduced me to her husband (will make another post about it). The very first night that I met her she told me that she was attracted to "black" men, and how one of her longing aspirations was to have a mixed child. Now, she claims her husband, who is white, knows all of this.
I do know first hand, and off hand, quite a few of other white females in similar positions over the last 20 years or so.
Now, if I marry a black women, and one day she states to me that she's attracted to white men, and wants to have a child by a white man, the next day we would be getting a divorce! Fucking around with someone that's attracted to, and wants to have a child with someone else is a much different animal than being "married" to them.
Now, if the husband isn't aware of his wife's intention as it relates to this situation, then obviously the onus of maliciousness, and deceit would be on the wife; but what kind of man would enter into a marriage knowing his wife wants to have a child by other men of another race?
For the women; why not just marry the type of men that you're attracted to and want to have children by, rather than drag someone through a marriage???

WHERE'S THE LOGIC???

[shaft101]

WOMEN & LOGIC come on now

[Mandingo the Barbie Lover]

Man you lucked up. You gotta be real careful messing with chicks on the job black or white. The coast has got to be absolutely clear.

[Canadian Black Breeder]

Damn, finding a lady who desires to be black bred is all good, BUT, finding one where you work is a VERY BAD idea, that is the #1 Cardinal Rule: Don't Date, Fuck Women From The Work Place, but with that being said, maybe you should just A) Let her find another home boy who she isn't working with, and keep it moving, or B) get her swollen, and let her husband find out from his wife

[jimbrowski]

Originally Posted by Mandingo the Barbie Lover

Man you lucked up. You gotta be real careful messing with chicks on the job black or white. The coast has got to be absolutely clear.

Man, I tried, I really did for almost an entire year, but she was very persistent because often times me and her work alone in a hospital at night, and its anyrhing goes. Theres quite a few females where I work that are very persistent about sex, and just about all of them are married.

[jimbrowski]

Originally Posted by Canadian Black Breeder

Damn, finding a lady who desires to be black bred is all good, BUT, finding one where you work is a VERY BAD idea, that is the #1 Cardinal Rule: Don't Date, Fuck Women From The Work Place, but with that being said, maybe you should just A) Let her find another home boy who she isn't working with, and keep it moving, or B) get her swollen, and let her husband find out from his wife

I dont wanna ever impregnate her, and I know she fucks around with other dudes.
Shes not even a girl I would normally talk to on the streets. She was literally begging for for to smash, and after about year I caved. And yeah I know I should've never gotten involved on the job

[jimbrowski]

Originally Posted by shaft101

WOMEN & LOGIC come on now

LLOL...I guess I'm expecting more.

[jimbrowski]

Well, I agree to a certain degree.
it has to be more than just racism. When I'm out and about black, hispanic, white, etc., women hit on and flirt with me. It just depends on the atmosphere.
The black women that are on my job wouldnt approach me on the streets either; they don't even let me know that they want sex directly, it has to come from other people.
To this date there have been 3 black women, and 4 white women on my job that wanted to fuck around. I've only had sex with 2 of the white women, and I've only been attracted to 3 women on the job, and I've never had sex with either one of them.
In terms of economic and social advantages, thats subjective; theres definitely racism there, but some of that is due to lack of information, and misinformation, which I had to find out for myself.
There's nothing that a white man can do that I can't do, mentally or physically. We accept or allow them to think they run places such as america, because we don't combat the fact that this country was never founded on on judeo, or christian values; it was under native american values and their religion, which is vastly different from any european invasion.
From an economic aspect, there's a lot of destitute white people all over the world; some realize it, some don't.
I.e., the white women that I fuck around with, I own more real estate than them, and have more money in the bank than them. When I would encounter racism, I would just do more research, and or do something different. This one black women that I fuck around with owns 9 investment properties, and she still works as a nurse. I have 2 other black females that own salons, plural, and they do way better than me economically, and way-way more better than the other women that I fuck around with. From a social aspect, we're not instilling that realm into our youth, its not that they can't achieve.
What you've stated has validity, but it can't all be JUST racism. If I hated white women, I wouldn't have sex with them, if I did that would make me mentally challenged, or even deranged.
Could it be the fear of rejection, because some of these women are married? Because I can tell you first hand that I would never marry ANY of the women that I fuck around with.

[jimbrowski]

I think you're reading too much into the post. I would've liked more feedback from white females as it was more is directed to them.
I'm just trying to understand the reason why a women who's into; or attracted to; or wants to have a baby by a black man, would then go off and drag some non-black man through a marriage due to whatever reason.
You made some points, and maybe a small percentage of them are true, but it doesn't address the entire situation.
You keep mentioning the female on my job, but at this juncture we're friends, and ahes actually a good person to converse with. At the same time if she were to stop the sexual part of our thing, it wouldnt be a loss to me. I would say 70% of the time we're having sex, but the other times we're doing other things. More importantly, I
was just using her as a reference point. I've heard the same statements from other females over the years. You seem to confuse my beseeching and curiosity for anger. You're an individual posting on a public forum just as I am. So I can't get angry at your statements; they're YOUR opinions, and your opinions don't govern my life.
You also seem to be consumed with other peoples perception of you. Reality trumps perception all year long. For instance, your perception is that this female is using me for dick,but the reality is that she's using me for companionship. Again, we do have sex, but we talk, and have discussions, we hang out with her friends, I give her bubble baths; I wash her hair and massage her brain; I give her body massages; we watch movies, etc; I pretty much do the things her husband isnt there doing; not because I'm trying to out-do him; thats just what I dont mind doing.
So your perception is off ramp. Your perception is that she invites conflict, but the reality is that the black women on my job cheat just as well, I just haven't gotten around to fucking them...yet. I did ask 2 white women in the past about my posted question; one said she doesn't really know, but she should've. The other said that the black guys that she fucked around with didnt want to have a relationship with her let alone marry her, which I understand because I damn sure wouldn't have married her. Again, I'm just curios as to what goes on inside women's psyche when they make these life decisions, thats it.

Originally Posted by preloaded

Ok,

But life is really about perception...and desire..physical resources are surely a currency ,a means to obtain our desires and needs.

Historically and certainly in American culture there are perceptions of the Blackmale which still hold true for many.

And in your case I feel the overall desire here is control..She wishes to control the Male ,wether Black or White..Your both being manipulated,after all the risk of such a relationship,at work clearly suggests this person desires risk, desires conflict.

The fact that She directs this conflict to a degree is a strong element.

Your economic resources are irrelevent. I've heard factual stories of Oprah Winfrey going to top hotels and treated like crap

A TRULY SELF MADE Billionaire . I've also heard of other Black Billionaires treated similarly

Phillip Emagwali Nigerian Computer Genius someone who has contributed significantly to keeping oil as cheap as it is..the list goes on.

Why do i mention it. Because to the majority of white Americans they are all just Blacks.

Objects of ridicule ..fictional people, their not real..the term BIG BLACK COCK indicates the object orientation.


Just an aside George Lucas made this very clear in His film THX1138 . i believe its very profound,especially the social commentary.

When your looking for logic in your situation ,its their but your not meant to be included within the process,why? because to Her your just a BIG BLACK COCK.

You should'nt be angry..She does'nt deserve Your respect and your company.

I say all this with a positive understanding of Black peoples and there circumstances.The sooner black peoples trust themselves and have confidence in themselves.

Trust their own Minds..and so denying this " WHITE MANS BURDENS" EXSCUSE ,( A Phrase reflecting the true idiocy of a self created "Burden" if there ever has been one), for their behaivour the sooner white people will have to pack this excuse called racism away like the petty sick toy it is and accept ALL people on there Merits as PEOPLE. not OBJECTS.

[jimbrowski]

LOL...nah. the post isnt about the chick at my job; shes just a reference/example. The post is is asking the question to white women that fantasize, lust, and want to have children with black men, but turn around and marry a non-black male, only to put themselves and their husbands, through that kind agony. The question is why not just marry a black man from the beginning? I wanted more input from white females who have done this or witnessed it first hand.
[QUOTE=Kalflcik;41448]Crazy situation bro... people have all kinds of agendas and different ways of looking at how they live and behave. My opinion is for you to gradually stop messing with her, and finally disengage altogether. I don't think she cares if you are the father or any other black man she fucks with. I strongly feel that these type of women care nothing for black men, honestly no men in general for that matter. Unfortunately she will get what she wants in the long run weather from you or someone else. Save yourself the drama since you are an intelligent brotha who peeps game. Best wishes my dude..[/QUOTE]