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[cuckntiger]

We're new to this site but not to interracial sex. We've been getting a few friend requests. Wondering why? If you're not close to us...whats the point? Most just send a friend request without saying anything. What's the point? We're not here to win a most friends contest. Yes we'd love to make honest true friends, but if we don't even talk to each other than how can we be friends. Some people make their profile private and thats not us, but kinda understand why. There are so many fake people on sites like this it's crazy, and either of us can figure out why. If you want to be our friend then at least send us a message and tell us about yourself, have a few photo's at least, and most of all be real. Web friends are nice but we really want to meet in real life. You might also read our profile, at least what little we posted, and have an interest in the type of play we do. Thanks, Just trying to keep it real

[jbigone]

That's a good point, I was doing the same thing. So now I started sending messages

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by cuckntiger

We've been getting a few friend requests. Wondering why? If you're not close to us...whats the point?l

Because you never know who you might meet. Example~ my man doesn't live close to me, he is in DC.. If I only befriended people close to me I might not have ever met him Just because they are not close doesn't mean they can't fly in

Edit to say~ I have made some really good friends on this site and they are scattered all over the globe!!

[jimbrowski]

If you dont like traveling, or you just want to live inside your little box, then it may not be beneficial.
I like to travel, plus I just like seeing other things or just getting away from the monotony of my environment; thats why I accept and request friendship from those out of my area.
I've been to tahoe, new mexico, texas, florida, and other places. Also, you never know what could become of a friendship from out of town. You may be looking to move to their city; they may be looking to sell their house; anything can happen. I would rather be on the side of being able to turn down an opportunity, then to miss an opportunity. My mantra is; leave no stone unyurned. Some of us put limits on ourselves while others are limitless.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by jimbrowski

If you dont like traveling, or you just want to live inside your little box, then it may not be beneficial.
I like to travel, plus I just like seeing other things or just getting away from the monotony of my environment; thats why I accept and request friendship from those out of my area.
I've been to tahoe, new mexico, texas, florida, and other places. Also, you never know what could become of a friendship from out of town. You may be looking to move to their city; they may be looking to sell their house; anything can happen. I would rather be on the side of being able to turn down an opportunity, then to miss an opportunity. My mantra is; leave no stone unyurned. Some of us put limits on ourselves while others are limitless.

Beautifully said!! One just never knows what each encounter will bring!!

[WhiteguyfromEurope]

Well, for me the situation is very simple: I'm the white guy who likes watching interracial sex. Because I'm a white guy on this Interracial site (black guys, white girls mostly) - I don't get lot of the attention and it's hard to get into conversation (except in the chat room). So, by adding as much people as possible, maybe some girl will go on my profile and like what she sees... And send me a PM or comment or something... And conversation can start.

[cuckntiger]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

Because you never know who you might meet. Example~ my man doesn't live close to me, he is in DC.. If I only befriended people close to me I might not have ever met him Just because they are not close doesn't mean they can't fly in

Edit to say~ I have made some really good friends on this site and they are scattered all over the globe!!

Your point is understandable and it's not that we disagree but blank profile's no messages or comments mean what? To us if you want to be a friend then talk, introduce yourself say something other than just sending a friend request. Friends talk to each other.

[cuckntiger]

Originally Posted by jimbrowski

If you dont like traveling, or you just want to live inside your little box, then it may not be beneficial.
I like to travel, plus I just like seeing other things or just getting away from the monotony of my environment; thats why I accept and request friendship from those out of my area.
I've been to tahoe, new mexico, texas, florida, and other places. Also, you never know what could become of a friendship from out of town. You may be looking to move to their city; they may be looking to sell their house; anything can happen. I would rather be on the side of being able to turn down an opportunity, then to miss an opportunity. My mantra is; leave no stone unyurned. Some of us put limits on ourselves while others are limitless.

Well Jim he's traveled his whole life and been to every state in the U.S. many times over. Our box as you call it will be in the Tampa area. We don't see much traveling in our future. We are not looking for cyber sex or bullshit talk. Like we said to Mustang friends talk to each other. They are not a collection of profile pics where we think...oh he's got a big one or she's cute or they sound hot. They are real people who we have an interest in and have an interest in us. Who speak to us, not just some blank request. We are real people with thoughts, likes and desires. You may not like ours or we may not like yours but thats ok. All we've asked is introduce yourselves, tell us who you are an what your interests are. There are so many completely blank profiles here, no pic, no info, for all we know you're the Smith's dog dreaming of being a black stud in your next life. Also just because you have a pic or your profile states "I'm a big black stud wantin to fuck all you white women" means nothing on this site or most any site like it. Odds are you're a silly white boy playing games. You know this as well as most. This is an interracial sex site and not a cuckold/hotwife site. We happen to be a couple interested in interracial as well as cuckold/hotwife play. Again if you want to be OUR friend then talk to us.

[jimbrowski]

I should've stated it, but I wasn't addressing you directly, just people in general, and for people that do like to stay within their box, thats cool too. I was just responding to the post. Some people (not necessarily you) dont like to do the work of "trying" to get to know someone, they just want everything to fall in their lap, or they take the "minute rice" approach in regards to their sexual life. It's like people dont want to put forth the effort of knowing someone, and finding out if they have some sort of off-ramp agenda. I can't count on my fingers and toes the women I had sex with before they actually got to know me; when they actually got to know me, they wanted to know more, and hang out more, then they wanted to be in a relationship. Then I would say no, I don't want to be in a relationship with you because you took the lazy, and backwards way of getting to know me, then I get called all kinds of names, lol.
The other thing is that this site isnt necessarily like facebook, where you can actually say hello to everyone every day, I was surprised that it didnt have a list for favorite people that you would correspond with often, because it would take a lot of time to just correspond with everyone on your list.
Your point is taken.

Originally Posted by cuckntiger

Well Jim he's traveled his whole life and been to every state in the U.S. many times over. Our box as you call it will be in the Tampa area. We don't see much traveling in our future. We are not looking for cyber sex or bullshit talk. Like we said to Mustang friends talk to each other. They are not a collection of profile pics where we think...oh he's got a big one or she's cute or they sound hot. They are real people who we have an interest in and have an interest in us. Who speak to us, not just some blank request. We are real people with thoughts, likes and desires. You may not like ours or we may not like yours but thats ok. All we've asked is introduce yourselves, tell us who you are an what your interests are. There are so many completely blank profiles here, no pic, no info, for all we know you're the Smith's dog dreaming of being a black stud in your next life. Also just because you have a pic or your profile states "I'm a big black stud wantin to fuck all you white women" means nothing on this site or most any site like it. Odds are you're a silly white boy playing games. You know this as well as most. This is an interracial sex site and not a cuckold/hotwife site. We happen to be a couple interested in interracial as well as cuckold/hotwife play. Again if you want to be OUR friend then talk to us.

[Mandingo the Barbie Lover]

I know how you feel. I had some white dude send me a friends request with 3 pics of his dick out. I wish all you black dudes stop that bullshit too. Every dude here got a pic of their dick in their avatar. Its like you dudes just realized you have a dick.