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Originally Posted by jimbrowski

I should've stated it, but I wasn't addressing you directly, just people in general, and for people that do like to stay within their box, thats cool too. I was just responding to the post. Some people (not necessarily you) dont like to do the work of "trying" to get to know someone, they just want everything to fall in their lap, or they take the "minute rice" approach in regards to their sexual life. It's like people dont want to put forth the effort of knowing someone, and finding out if they have some sort of off-ramp agenda. I can't count on my fingers and toes the women I had sex with before they actually got to know me; when they actually got to know me, they wanted to know more, and hang out more, then they wanted to be in a relationship. Then I would say no, I don't want to be in a relationship with you because you took the lazy, and backwards way of getting to know me, then I get called all kinds of names, lol.
The other thing is that this site isnt necessarily like facebook, where you can actually say hello to everyone every day, I was surprised that it didnt have a list for favorite people that you would correspond with often, because it would take a lot of time to just correspond with everyone on your list.
Your point is taken.

Agreed..facebook it's not more like dickbook...lol not that we mind looking at them, but a simple Hi, how are you I'd like to get to know you, would work real well.