break-thru conversation
 

So the wife and I had some break-thru conversation and I think I know her main hang-ups with the idea of BBC.

1. Bless her heart, she's afraid this is all about ME wanting to sleep with other women. She doesn't understand or believe that I want this 'mostly' for her pleasure. No doubt that this is MY fantasy 'watching the wife with a nice BBC.' But it would not be a fantasy-come-true unless my wife thoroughly enjoys herself as well.

2. Married people don't do that sort of thing.

Watched a few Janet Mason scenes with her tonight. While the conversation was a little tense I bluntly but nicely asked her about any black fantasies. She said that YES, she'd had those fantasies when she was younger, but not as a married women.

I browsed with her earlier, photos of some cakes she'd made. She's fond of baking cakes and cookies and such. While watching the BBC porn I pointed at the screen and told the wife... "You'd probably have to bake him a plate of cookies or something." She couldn't help but laugh a little and smile.

As she was drifting off to sleep tonight and we were saying our good nights. I told her to "Have sweet dreams honey... about all the stuff we talked about." and she smiled.

Comments?

she needs bbc, you need to make it happen.

Why are so many "Cuckold threads" in the General Forum??
And why with so many Cuckies and Wannabe-Cuckies is the Cuckold section not more active?

Agreed
 

If you are just discussing your fantasies that's fine but I wouldn't push her the choice should bring you together as a couple... a fantasy you both want to share

on another note if she is just insecure... reassure her let her know how much her getting off gets you off, she might not know this.

Sounds like she thought of the idea and has moved on since.

wife share ain't cuck is it?

My wife is no whore and I wouldn't want her to be a whore. This is not a cuck thing, it's a share thing. And it's something that developed recently in our years together. It's an idea or fantasy that's come up that I tell her about. She's sort-of down with the idea but if I really try to make it happen, it'd be entirely up to her.

I do not like my wife and the word "whore" used in the same sentence of course. I'm considering sharing MY Wife. A beautiful and kind creature who will dis-enjoy what you have "shared".

I'm not pushy, and telling her about my thoughts ALWAYS brings us closer together. The sex is great and I do love her to have fun in bed. And we do! No complaints. She's a bit apprehensive but discussion is on-going. The way she likes it... We talk about things!

I think it's pretty much on me at this point. To try to make it happen or not? And how to make it happen? Too early right now.