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This has always been something I fantasized about and after 5 years of marriage I finally got the nerve to tell me wife. To my surprise she was extremely accepting..

The nuts and bolts of it I told her I want to see her with a well endowed man. I'm pretty normal at 6( a little thicker than average.)
My wife last boyfriend before me she has told me was "gifted" she says roughly 9.5 inches and 2 times thicker than mine. They dated for 5 months and had sex everyday. She told me the often did it it work. He would summon her to his office and they would have sex.
The relationship ended because she says he was a giant douche bag and not marriage material.
You can see where this story is going already. THe whole weekend we talked about what I wanted. She said she would be uncomfortable with me actually in the room but she would be willing to video tape the session and let me see it. I agreed that made it hotter for me.
She kept saying I has to be someone she felt comfortable with and would be discrete and it could not be a stranger. So I asked her in a who she would feel comfortable with? and she told me her well hung X. She asked permission to contact him(she still to this day with my knowleadge texted or facebooked with him once a week.(I have at times in the past checked her cell. The texts where flirtatious but nothing to write home about) So she contactded him and of cource he agreed.

A few postives
-He lives 2500 miles away
-He is in a long term realationship with a woman who he has 2 kids with and has another kid from another woman
-my wife feels comfortable(almost to much)
-he is well hung and a very gifted lover according to my wife
-she already fucked him so its not like its her first time with a huge cock

My wife picked a date in April because whe is still trying to lose the baby weight. When we first started planning 2 weeks ago she was 6 foot 165 with the most amazing set of 32dd's.
Since the planning started she is a new woman...

-she lost 7 pounds her goal is to be 138.She is eating super healthy and exercising daily.
-she went from very little self confidence to super confident(many boxes have arrived with tight shirts,lingerie, 5 to 6 inch heels.
-We have sex almost everyday(before we maybe did it once a month)
-there is a "glow" about her.
-she told me that i am the perfect husband and that this fantasy and me letting her do this makes me more amazing then she could ever imagine.
-she also said she now know I would never cheat on her and she was always contantly worried I would leave her and now she know that will never happen.


All postives..
The plan is for her to fly to him and stay at a 5 star hotel and Spa. Her best friend Jessica is going so I know the 4 days will not be sex with him. It was her idea to bring her friend Jessica in her words "so that things do not get out of control" The plan is day 1 Spa day with Jessica. Day 2 he is going to call off work and spend 10am-5pm with my wife. The rule is all sex has to be recorded we plan on have her set up 4 cameras and a additional camera for POV fiming. During that day she as agreed to send 3 teaser texts. The first text a self shot of her all dolled up for him. The next is a 15 second POV shot of her blowing him. The next is a 20 second pov shot of them fucking.
Day 3 is back to hanging out with Jessica. But she can go out with him at night and have sex one last time. What I want is her in a sexy black dressed bent over a sink in a bathroom with him filming them with her dress hiked up using the mirror to see it from the front.


Here is my issues Im having. 95% of the time I'm super horny and want this to happen. Then usually on a weekend night late at night I start having alot of anxiety. It all centers around my wife constantly texting back and forth. I have brought this to her attention and we communicated several times and she says he's a big dick thats all and she says she "has to keep him interested so that this happens" so thats why they text. I asked her that if for the thanksgiving holiday they "take a break" she said yes she would. But today is saturday and she has admitted to talking to him the last 3 days. I'm not sure how to handle this and we may talk tomorrow. Later next week we are supposed to sit down and map out a contract on what can and can not happen during and after.

My actual issue is not with the texts. I have snuck a peak when she is in the shower on her cell(text,twitter and facebook) all the text center around the planning for when they meet, how much she want is cock and him sending her dirty porn pics of things he want to do.. I get very turned on from reading them. Whats uncool is I noticed she erases conversations every night. So in my mind im missing things... Which actually I have seens a whole conversation with him stating that this is all about fucking and no ooey gooey love stuff. Thats she is doing it for her husband and for him not to red anything into it other than fucking. Also that she did not want to hear about his girlfriend/kids/jobs and that its all about the fantasy.
I guess the real question is how to manage jealousy in this situation and should I push the topic of there contact and set some ground rules? I would like to hear from both males and females. Also does anyone think there are some red flags?