This has always been something I fantasized about and after 5 years of marriage I finally got the nerve to tell me wife. To my surprise she was extremely accepting..
The nuts and bolts of it I told her I want to see her with a well endowed man. I'm pretty normal at 6( a little thicker than average.)
My wife last boyfriend before me she has told me was "gifted" she says roughly 9.5 inches and 2 times thicker than mine. They dated for 5 months and had sex everyday. She told me the often did it it work. He would summon her to his office and they would have sex.
The relationship ended because she says he was a giant douche bag and not marriage material.
You can see where this story is going already. THe whole weekend we talked about what I wanted. She said she would be uncomfortable with me actually in the room but she would be willing to video tape the session and let me see it. I agreed that made it hotter for me.
She kept saying I has to be someone she felt comfortable with and would be discrete and it could not be a stranger. So I asked her in a who she would feel comfortable with? and she told me her well hung X. She asked permission to contact him(she still to this day with my knowleadge texted or facebooked with him once a week.(I have at times in the past checked her cell.
Not cool!!! If you want this to really happen then you need to learn to respect her privacy!!!
The texts where flirtatious but nothing to write home about) So she contactded him and of cource he agreed.
A few postives
-He lives 2500 miles away
Distance isn't a problem these days..
-He is in a long term realationship with a woman who he has 2 kids with and has another kid from another woman
And he is so committed in his "long term relationship" that he is willing to see and fck your wife.. 
so how his is current relationship a positive? That tells me he is scum and willing to do whatever it is to get his dick wet..
-my wife feels comfortable(almost to much)
RED flag
-he is well hung and a very gifted lover according to my wife
lol double red flag!!!
-she already fucked him so its not like its her first time with a huge cock
it was so good that she is going back to him for MORE...
My wife picked a date in April because whe is still trying to lose the baby weight. When we first started planning 2 weeks ago she was 6 foot 165 with the most amazing set of 32dd's.
Since the planning started she is a new woman...
-she lost 7 pounds her goal is to be 138.She is eating super healthy and exercising daily.
-she went from very little self confidence to super confident(many boxes have arrived with tight shirts,lingerie, 5 to 6 inch heels.
Umm okay???
-We have sex almost everyday(before we maybe did it once a month)
Good for you, thanks for posting that because we were all wondering..
-there is a "glow" about her.
-she told me that i am the perfect husband and that this fantasy and me letting her do this makes me more amazing then she could ever imagine.
-she also said she now know I would never cheat on her and she was always contantly worried I would leave her and now she know that will never happen.
All postives..
The plan is for her to fly to him and stay at a 5 star hotel and Spa.
?? lol Her best friend Jessica
lol, you sure that's the actual reason Jessica is going?? is going so I know the 4 days will not be sex with him.
But isn't that the goal of the whole trip? It was her idea to bring her friend Jessica in her words "so that things do not get out of control"
Red Flag!!!The plan is day 1 Spa day with Jessica. Day 2 he is going to call off work and spend 10am-5pm
Did yall pencil these dates and times in on a calendar? WTH?? with my wife. The rule is all sex has to be recorded we plan on have her set up 4 cameras and a additional camera for POV fiming.
"4" cams? lol you must be smoking over there!!! Why not just send a production crew along with her?!?! During that day she as agreed to send 3 teaser texts. The first text a self shot of her all dolled up for him. The next is a 15 second POV shot of her blowing him. The next is a 20 second pov shot of them fucking.
LMAO, how the hell did yall come up with those numbers? Is that your comfort zone numbers? Maybe your favorite lottery numbers?
Day 3 is back to hanging out with Jessica.
Poor third wheel Jessica, does she know about the meeting the old bf? Will she join in for a threesome? But she can go out with him at night and have sex one last time.
You are way to much of a CONTROL FREAK!!! What I want is her in a sexy black dressed bent over a sink in a bathroom with him filming them with her dress hiked up using the mirror to see it from the front.
Old saying, want in one hand and piss in the other and see which one fills up the fastest...
What I'm saying is that you have placed way to many restrictions on this whole thing.. If I was your wife I would tell you to shove those numbers, dates and times you your butt.. Hey I said butt not ass and I said it with a smile, okay evil smile 
Here is my issues Im having. 95% of the time I'm super horny and want this to happen. Then usually on a weekend night late at night I start having alot of anxiety. It all centers around my wife constantly texting back and forth. I have brought this to her attention and we communicated several times and she says he's a big dick thats all and she says she "has to keep him interested so that this happens"
Bull SHIT... if she gotta do all that to keep him wanting her then kick his ass to the curb but the truth is, your wife is more involved than she is letting on and she is blaming it on him... so thats why they text. I asked her that if for the thanksgiving holiday they "take a break" she said yes she would. But today is saturday and she has admitted to talking to him the last 3 days. I'm not sure how to handle this and we may talk tomorrow. Later next week we are supposed to sit down and map out a contract on what can and can not happen during and after.
I'm all about a contract.. Great idea but your wife needs to put some restrictions on your ass as well... Not just you pushing whats good for you on her... Ya feel me??
My actual issue is not with the texts. I have snuck a peak when she is in the shower on her cell(text,twitter and facebook) all the text center around the planning for when they meet, how much she want is cock and him sending her dirty porn pics of things he want to do.. I get very turned on from reading them.
I would so bust your ass if you were up in my phone.. Thats private, you need to keep your hands and eyes off her phone.. The more you snoop the more its going to cause problems because you are trying to grasp for things that you are not clear about.. you need to sit down and talk to her.. Oh FYI, she is more than likely deleting those text because she knows that you are sticking your nose in her phone... One rule on that contract should be that ya'll respect each others privacy.. I would never go into my husbands/mans phone or wallet... RESPECT!!! Whats uncool is I noticed she erases conversations every night. So in my mind im missing things... Which actually I have seens a whole conversation with him stating that this is all about fucking and no ooey gooey love stuff. Thats she is doing it for her husband and for him not to red anything into it other than fucking. Also that she did not want to hear about his girlfriend/kids/jobs and that its all about the fantasy.
I guess the real question is how to manage jealous,y in this situation and should I push the topic of there contact and set some ground rules? I would like to hear from both males and females. Also does anyone think there are some red flags?
For both of yalls protection you need a contract.. Make copies and each get ones to do with as they please... Stop the petty shit of going in her phone.. If you big enough to want this to happen then stop being a baby about things.. Bottom line is that you have to trust your wife and her you...
I'm not buying the whole old boyfriend thing and its just a fck.. no way no how.. What a ego boost for her EX... I bet he feels like a king, she calls him up asking if she can fly to him, stay in a "5 star hotel" he can come and go and give her a real fcking bc he fcks so great.. Plus, she bringing an extra woman with her... (LOL) Yep I'm willing to bet he thinks he is the dick god right about now!!!
My advice is find someone where there isn't any history... Draw up that Contract, Stop spying on her,. Trust your wife to make good judgments.. Talk about it, often.. Keep communication open.. STOP spying on her damn twitter and facebook or whatever else you peeking at.. Just stop it... lol... Tell her that you are very worried and want to talk about everything, face to face and not behind her back while she is in the shower...
Damn, I must have been bored... sleepless night.. 
11-24-2012, 03:33 PM
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