My wife is the same way. We have had an open/cuckold relationship for the last 17 years supposedly with no secrets. Our rules were that I know anytime she hooks up with someone and to be present if at all possible otherwise know that she is doing it. I've caught her cheating three times (she is bbc exclusive as well) and each time she tried to lie when I confronted her. She once told me "Its more exciting when you don't know." She eventually broke down and admiited it when she realized that it was obvious I had figured it out. I believe she was still untruthful about everything that happened when she finally came clean (kind of downplayed it)

I always enjoy your posts, J. You two are my favorite couple on here. :)

Its Official!!
 

I am "cheating" again!! I have been chatting with a guy on here from the Bahamas, without hubby knowing, for several months. he was caught in the middle of that terrible storm recently, so have not been able to converse much since....but we have agreed to get together on a weekend trip to the Bahamas taking the ferry out of Miami once he is settled again.

I did recently let hubby in on the fact that I was chatting with a guy on here, but not the level of INTENSITY we are chatting...…….he is VERY turned on and interested in my visit being planned around my most fertile time of the month and leaving my diaphragm (all the birth control I use) at home with hubby for the weekend!!

I find it INTENSELY stimulating thinking I might take a weekend trip to the Bahamas and bring home a Bahama Baby with me!!

J (hubbys horny and terrible cheating wife!!)

My wife cheated on her first husband. She fucks men all the time when I aont around she has my blessing.

I never cheated on my husband. That's just not my thing.

I don’t tell him everything I do because I have the freedom to fuck who I want if it’s something that will turn him on and help him get off I will tell him the details. I have a steady bbc lover that is over all the time as well.

I have a few times in the past. Now I try to stay honest but I still play online sometimes just to live out my fantasies.

Cheating will destroy your self worth and meaning to life
 

Hopefully, your current partner is your life partner, and if so, treat them the same way you want to be treated. Don't focus on short term pleasures, think of your long term happiness, and theirs. Don't cheat, it just is not worth it.

Yes and no. I do cheat but it is something my husband likes knowing I do stuff behind his back.

We always know what the other is doing and if we want to try somethinh new we didcuss it