My husband and I have been swingers with an open relationship for over twenty years so no I dont have to cheat. He set me up for my first black man when I was 29 and I have been heavy into this lifestyle ever since. He knows about everything I do including a few gangbangs and fuck parties I did when he was not able to attend. Right now I have several fuck buddies that I meet with on a regular and he knows about and approves of.....

thats very true.youll feel things you thought you never would, in places you didnt know you had.
although im not a cheater and never was,i can understand why someone would cheat on a husband if he didnt satisfy you,though.once you do have that wonderful black experience,youll ask yourself,why did i wait so long?

Yes I do cheat
 

I travel a lot for my job, and I regularly meet and fuck black guys in my hotels. Been married 5 years, love my hubby but he has no clue and never will. Always pack black nylons and a garter belt in my back with some other sexy lingerie!

Im married with two kids...but my husband works and never has time for me... So i decided to get some black dick on the side...

I do.....
 

I find it more exciting to be cheating on hubby. Not sure why, I guess it makes it even "badder" than just the fact that I step outside our marital bond for sex. Eventually, I admit my affair to him (he's not dumb, he knows I cheat) and we then have fun with it together...….but initially almost ALL of them are behind his back and cheating.

J (the wife)

Yes I do
 

Every chance I get since hubby has decided that WE are no longer in the lifestyle and I get lots of chances.... Becky:p

yes i do
 

When you have an older husband with a small cock, who doesn't know what turns me on or how to fuck me properly then cheating on him didn't feel so bad the first few times. Now I actively go out knowing I will be unfaithful to him, and it turns me on more.;):)

My wife has never had to cheat on me. I encourage her to spread her legs for as many men as possible. And thats exactly what she does. Rarely does a week go by that 3 to 5 other men don't get to fuck her. If I had my way, she would have a different cock pumping in her every day of the year.

I have and regretted some, mostly the men who were, or pretended to be my friend and somehow became sexual and yet still wanted to be a friend, (I know, it seems fucked up but it's happened like that to me a few times and each time it went too far).

I enjoyed some, mostly the one night stands. Someone new and without any ties, I was mostly curious as to what I might experience. Some disappointments, some memorable sex.

A few that were, "WOW, I want more of this!" but usually for some reason or another I was kept from further pleasures and getting myself in too deep, (probably for the best).

Hi J, I haven't been on this site for several months and because of changes in my lifestyle (which I'll talk about another time) I just came back to it. You two were always my favorite people here because you didn't mind sharing your stories with me. Unfortunately, I don't have any personal experiences to share here so I must engage in the BBC lifestyle vicariously though others.

In fact, the only unorthodox sexual experiences I had personally were many, many years ago with my first wife when we were still in our late teens and early 20s. None of the actual experiences involved black men or women but we did engage in one sexual fantasy during sex that brought her to orgasm. That fantasy involved taking away her b/c pills and having her fuck a black man and getting pregnant. This was the only fantasy capable of bringing her to orgasm and as she came she would scream: "I want a black baby!" to me.

In real life, she never had sex with a black man (that I know of) but she did fuck several white men. She always told me about those encounter afterwards and while we were having sex she would tell me about them in great detail, which excited me very much. On time she fucked two men in one evening and after she came come she rode on top of me and while she was riding on me their cum dripped out of her onto me. That was probably the most exciting thing we ever did.

Anyway, I just wanted to tell you that I always enjoy hearing about your experiences, J.

W. (My first initial, the Begennative refers to Bergen County , NJ.)

I haven’t cheated yet. I tease my husband about his small cock and up until now I’ve masturbated many times without him around thinking about hot hunk black men but I’m still scared of getting caught out by someone I know and them seeing me with someone who isn’t my husband.

Sounds a lot like the early years of my first marriage. First she cheated, then she told me, then I asked her to tell me all the details while we were having sex because it excited me.

Absolutely
 

When your married & EXTREMELY unsatisfied sexually, there is no other option. I find it extremely exhilarating being slutty & worshipping BBC, being sent home satisfied, used, filled, & stretched Seems fitting & makes me smile considering the fact that hubby is racist!

Don't have to
 

My wife and I have always had an open relationship...life is to short not to. I have two very good female friends she has a few good male friends of all races, goes away on weekends with with them and dates where she does get fucked. It keeps her happy and it comes back to the saying of "happy wife happy life." And it keeps her healthy and her skin smooth and hair shiny...lol

I'm just starting out in the lifestyle. Are there any experienced wives that can lend some advice.
Thank you
T.

I don't cheat. I kiss and tell my significant other everything! 20 years later we are still strong. I don't live this lifestyle because I want to. I do it because I have to. It is my vice.

not yet ,but looking to make some lady smile,i wants to be filthy

[QUOTE=JMNBABE1;87530]I find it more exciting to be cheating on hubby. Not sure why, I guess it makes it even "badder" than just the fact that I step outside our marital bond for sex. Eventually, I admit my affair to him (he's not dumb, he knows I cheat) and we then have fun with it together...….but initially almost ALL of them are behind his back and cheating.

J (the wife)[/Q

from the hubbys view, I fantasize about the wife cheating on me eeven though she has permission to play without me. I agree with it being badder. I want to catch her and watch but never tell her that I saw.

its even hotter because the hubby is racist

cheating?
 

Never! No need to. That's the beauty of our "rules", and the arrangement we have. Hubby knows I would never cheat on him and I'm so very glad for his "blessing" to have as much pleasurable fun as I want with very well endowed black men, so there's absolutely no reason to even think about it. I've the best of both worlds, why would I want to screw that up? He is a voyeur with a grand imagination, so it works out well for us insomuch that he gets to watch me have (or hear me tell him about later) all of the physically intense orgasms that I have the privilege to be "provided" with, so we are mutually satisfied in different ways, and still love each other very, very much!

My wife is the same way. We have had an open/cuckold relationship for the last 17 years supposedly with no secrets. Our rules were that I know anytime she hooks up with someone and to be present if at all possible otherwise know that she is doing it. I've caught her cheating three times (she is bbc exclusive as well) and each time she tried to lie when I confronted her. She once told me "Its more exciting when you don't know." She eventually broke down and admiited it when she realized that it was obvious I had figured it out. I believe she was still untruthful about everything that happened when she finally came clean (kind of downplayed it)

I always enjoy your posts, J. You two are my favorite couple on here. :)

Its Official!!
 

I am "cheating" again!! I have been chatting with a guy on here from the Bahamas, without hubby knowing, for several months. he was caught in the middle of that terrible storm recently, so have not been able to converse much since....but we have agreed to get together on a weekend trip to the Bahamas taking the ferry out of Miami once he is settled again.

I did recently let hubby in on the fact that I was chatting with a guy on here, but not the level of INTENSITY we are chatting...…….he is VERY turned on and interested in my visit being planned around my most fertile time of the month and leaving my diaphragm (all the birth control I use) at home with hubby for the weekend!!

I find it INTENSELY stimulating thinking I might take a weekend trip to the Bahamas and bring home a Bahama Baby with me!!

J (hubbys horny and terrible cheating wife!!)

My wife cheated on her first husband. She fucks men all the time when I aont around she has my blessing.

I never cheated on my husband. That's just not my thing.

I don’t tell him everything I do because I have the freedom to fuck who I want if it’s something that will turn him on and help him get off I will tell him the details. I have a steady bbc lover that is over all the time as well.

I have a few times in the past. Now I try to stay honest but I still play online sometimes just to live out my fantasies.

Cheating will destroy your self worth and meaning to life
 

Hopefully, your current partner is your life partner, and if so, treat them the same way you want to be treated. Don't focus on short term pleasures, think of your long term happiness, and theirs. Don't cheat, it just is not worth it.

Yes and no. I do cheat but it is something my husband likes knowing I do stuff behind his back.

We always know what the other is doing and if we want to try somethinh new we didcuss it

I have been in a cuckold relationship with my wife for ten years now and as such she has the freedom to date and fuck whomever she pleases. Most of the time I'm aware that she is going out and look forward to cleaning up once she gets back. So "cheating" for us is a relative thing. She has a steady lover that she has genuine feelings for and has recently told me she has been trying to get pregnant to him and really wants to have his baby. It was quite the surprise for me to hear this as it wasn't something we talked about, but I have to admit her attempting to get pregnant to him without me knowing made it hotter than hell. I told her how hot it made me, knowing now that she could and would do something like this without my knowledge. So now I wonder what else she would do. Sometimes it is better to find out after the fact!

Cheating
 

I had been faithful to my husband for 15 yrs. A coworker told me about her black boyfriend and I was curious. She invited me to go out with them. We went to a club where I met several black men and danced with a few times. I was scared,as I felt alive in their arms and felt them rub against my belly. I could feel the hardness and it excited me. I went the next week and I finally realized that i wanted to find out the truth about BBC. I went to a motel with him and he striped me and set me on the bed. Then he disrobed and I saw for the first time a black man's penis.I was shocked as it seemed to be twice my husbands size. I was afraid it would injure me if he entered me. He was gentle and eased it in me slowly and while there was some pain,the more he slowly moved inside I adjusted to the size. I think it was me who rocked my hips to accept more of him into me. At this point ,he was further in me than ANY man had gone. From then I relaxed and and we enjoyed each other . I HAVE NEVER felt so alive as he stroked fully up into me. I have been with him now for the past 5 yrs and tell my husband that I am going shopping,but really am actually enjoying BLACK COCK.

Similatr situation.....
 

My wife also dates whomever she pleases, and most of her affairs start out behind my back. Her current affair is 9 years long, with her Boss/Lover who also happens to be my Boss. They were involved for 2 years before she admitted the affair to me (I suspected prior), but the most intoxicating thing about it was WHY she admitted the affair to me.....

They traveled together for business all the time, even before their affair started, so there was nothing really unusual about her coming home Monday evening and telling me they were leaving on a business trip Thursday for a 4 day trip to Cancun...other than the location, they didn't usually go out of the country but she said it was "budget planning" and they did not want anyone to be able to get hold of them easily.

Story gets LONG, so will just skip ahead to her return......she showed up at home Monday several hours later than her flight landed. It was really obvious that she had been sexual recently, both in how she looked and how she was acting towards me. I asked her "what's up?" and she said "We have to talk....."

We cuddled up in bed, and I was anticipating her telling me she was now involved in an affair with her Boss/Lover but it was WAY beyond that!! She started off teasing me sexually and told me she has been having an affair with T for 2 years now, and the trip to Cancun was actually to celebrate their decision to be sexual ANYTIME versus just when they travel for business, so I need to know so she can be available more frequently, and that she plans it to be VERY frequent!!

I asked her if that had anything to do with her being home so late after their flight landed, and she pulled my hand between her legs and said "you tell me!!" Her panties were SOAKED, and when I slipped a finger in beside them it was obvious she had a LOT of sperm running out of her......I raised my eyebrows and said, "um, you DO have your diaphragm in, right?!" as that is all the birth control she uses. Her response was "I haven't had it in the entire trip, and that is what we need to talk about!!"

She went on to explain that they were VERY sexual and turned on because of the reason for this trip was their decision to be full time any time anywhere Lovers versus only when they traveled together. And they had gotten VERY drunk the first night there (REALLY shortening this up) they ended up back in their motel room (the first time they only booked ONE room) and ended up having sex WITHOUT using her diaphragm.....LOT of detail being left out.....and when they woke up in the morning and realized what they had done and how the trip was planned hastily so it was her most fertile time of the month, they got even MORE turned on about the possibility she was pregnant and spent the rest of the trip having totally unprotected sex and trying to get her pregnant!!

When she got to that part, she was stroking my cock with great enthusiasm and when she told me "not only is it possible I am pregnant by T, but to be SURE its his baby we are NOT going to be having sex until I know for sure its his baby!!" and I EXPLODED in a cum flying everywhere orgasm and she said "well, I guess that answers how YOU feel about this!!" And went on to tell me she planned to keep having sex with him the rest of the month, but I would have to settle for being jerked off until she was sure she was carrying his baby...…wasn't like I had a lot of choice.

They had had some remorseful feelings on the plane flying home and had talked it out that IF they got thru this and she wasn't pregnant, they would NEVER lose control like that again.....and while setting in his car at the airport waiting for it to warm up a bit (it was late December in Michigan) they had ended up in the back seat making SURE she was pregnant!! LOLLOL So much for control...….

The strangest, and most sensual sexy phone call I have EVER had, came about 2 weeks later when my WIFE called me from work SOBBING because her period had started and she was not pregnant by someone else!!! She was beside herself that she had wanted so badly to be pregnant by T and wasn't.....she had even taken my suggestion that she take her diaphragm with her when they got together (he is married also) and that she put it in AFTER they had sex to keep as much of his sperm inside her to increase her chances of a pregnancy. She has a condition called a "tipped uterus" that makes it very difficult for her to get pregnant....one child with me and he was WORK!!

Anyway, yes my wife "cheats" but I usually find out about it eventully.

CW

yes
 

ive secretly serviced black men when married to my last wife, she never knew, , and strangly i never felt guilty about it, it just seemed natural

no
 

hsband and i are honest about everything we do so we never consider it cheating.

According to my wife........
 

…..its not cheating until cock enters vagina!! She and Bill Clinton have a LOT in common!! LOL

CW

So by what you say I can give all the blowjobs I want to and it’s not cheating. Does that apply to bukakke as well....Becky :p

Trash whore wifes cheat thats what it mean to be a trash whore.

Trash whore
 

Since I now have to cheat to get black cock I guess that makes me a trash whore. I’ve been called worse but no problem, it just turns me on....Becky Luvsit :p

Me too.......
 

Right there with you Becky, I am a "trash whore" too!! LOL and loving every minute of it!!

J 9the wife)