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[dh1213]

Im in a LTR with a woman I plan on spending the rest of my life with. We have great sexual chemistry and I'm a very capable lover. I have had this fantasy of seeing her with a hung black male for some time now and would love to make it happen. I haven't found a way to voice this to her yet and I'm not really in a rush to do so. Im here to make some friends and see what happens. Hopefully something happens. If anyone has any advice on how I could go about bringing this up to her feel free to give me some suggestions.

[Becky Luvsit]

Sweetie only you know her well enough to know how and when to approach her with your fantasy. You could try watching interracial porn with her and see how she reacts to it. Just not enough info on her to give you any advice.....

[kinky couple]

Yes, if you ever watch porn together then show her some hot interracial, ask her how she likes it and proceed from there. A pretty safe and sure way to find out her sentiments on the matter.

[dh1213]

Originally Posted by kinky couple

Yes, if you ever watch porn together then show her some hot interracial, ask her how she likes it and proceed from there. A pretty safe and sure way to find out her sentiments on the matter.

That wasn't an option simply because she doesn't like porn. We were having a discussion about sex and we were talking about how she would be into a FFM and I asked if she would be into us having another dude in the mix with me watching and while she said she thought it would be weird to be with another guy she didn't flat out say no, she seemed unsure. It at least put the thought in her head and who knows what could happen in the future.

[notact]

What about doing the FFM thing with a BF? (Let the BF "convince her" to go black. If they spend any time together the subject should come up. It's worth a try, more pussy for you too.)

Originally Posted by dh1213

That wasn't an option simply because she doesn't like porn. We were having a discussion about sex and we were talking about how she would be into a FFM and I asked if she would be into us having another dude in the mix with me watching and while she said she thought it would be weird to be with another guy she didn't flat out say no, she seemed unsure. It at least put the thought in her head and who knows what could happen in the future.

[dh1213]

Originally Posted by notact

What about doing the FFM thing with a BF? (Let the BF "convince her" to go black. If they spend any time together the subject should come up. It's worth a try, more pussy for you too.)

Thats actually not a bad idea. That is still a little ways off, but I think the FFM will happen before anything else so that could be a great time to set it in motion.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by dh1213

That wasn't an option simply because she doesn't like porn.

Try some IR pictures. Text them to her at different times during the day. Umm not during church or the PTA. Lol. (As that might backfire on you if someone else happens to be standing near. ) Email them is a way to go too. Sleepy time is always perfect. A sexy IR picture right before sleep can conjuror up some hot sexy dreams. It's all about planting those seeds and nurturing them as they grow.

[dcsmith]

If you and She had more discipline, such probllems would solve themselves. Try switch for a couple og weeks

[dh1213]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

Try some IR pictures. Text them to her at different times during the day. Umm not during church or the PTA. Lol. (As that might backfire on you if someone else happens to be standing near. ) Email them is a way to go too. Sleepy time is always perfect. A sexy IR picture right before sleep can conjuror up some hot sexy dreams. It's all about planting those seeds and nurturing them as they grow.

The problem there is that she's not very sexual in nature. She doesn't think much about sex so me sending her pics would be kind of strange. This is a pretty big barrier to all of this actually happening but were in no rush and I'm certainly not obsessive over it happening. Just something I think could be fun for us both.