
06-23-2013, 04:16 PM
|
 |
Member
|
|
Join Date: May 2013
Posts: 81
|
|
Another thing to consider....
Those of us over 40 or so have a different comfort level in going out and meeting someone from the internet. We do the local meet and greet circuit and enjoy the more semi-anonymous discussions online, some which might be directly less comfortable with a new person face to face. Our faces aren't blurred at real events, where it really matter anyway. Might do a cam show online now and then, but not to get "verified" just to have some harmless and safe naughty fun.
As for the fakes, they are more transparent than they know generally. Maybe there are some really good ones flying under the radar, but there sure are some obvious ones. They go over the top to ridiculous levels. Men pretending to be women are often pathetic. What women seriously measure men's penises? And how many really care if it is 7", 8" or 9"? (Above that gets to be crazy in reality, no?) Big and thick is very, very nice, but the differences among the bigger ones are not as important as the technique and the overall chemistry.
Most of you are not in our area and unless you are in one of the few cities to which we travel or are in the Caribbean, a planned destination for us, we aren't going to ever possibly be real time anyway. Locals? Just come out to events and meet without expectations. It's not terribly complicated and nobody needs to make this all an urgent rush. The lifestyle is about fun.
To the obvious guys on here (and elsewhere) who misrepresent your women, grow a pair and open discussion with your wife or girlfriend. You are wasting your and others' time with fantasy games. You never know; your woman might not be so down on the idea of swinging. You certainly have no business in the lifestyle if you can't manage that basic level of honest communication. It will otherwise chew you up and destroy your relationships.
|