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the kissing rule
I think it's dump when I couple says sex is ok but kissing while playing isn't. One of my swinger couples said one of there friends doesn't allow kissing yet its ok to do anal with her. How weird is that?
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Wtf? Yeah weird. But honestly many people find that kissing is far more intimate than any other sexual act. It's a way to prevent either party from catching feelings...
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Kissing, to me, stimulates arousal between the partners and can heat-up the passion and desire for each other. I love kissing and a man that will kiss me will find me more receptive to his own desires.
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So true.
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Couldn't have said it better myself... but then again I don't do casual meet, greets, fcks. I gotta know the person. |
Kissing has to be ok! I couldn't have sex with a man without being able to kiss him! :confused:
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On a fck basis only.
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No kissing... Keeps the feelings away. Then there's the couples/women who believe that y'all are not worthy to kiss the wife. Fck only. Kissing shows a personal level and some (sad to say) think of y'all only as fck machines, y'all aren't suppose to be capable of having feelings, since they don't see y'all as an equal. :( NO FEELINGS ALLOWED.. Shit like that. :mad: |
It's understood
Some couples in the lifestyle simply want to reserve something for just between them, and kissing is often that. For us, i would only be an issue because of herpes risk. Again, once trust and safety is established, that's not a big concern. Kissing is important for arousal, since hormones are exchanged in saliva.
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But
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Do you allow that same mouth/man to go down on you? (Kissing/licking your cat?) or Kissing the rest of your body? Same risk. Do however understand that some couples want to keep something's between them. |
I prefer to have my dick sucked than to be kiss, dont kiss me suck my dick:cool:
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Lol. Now you know that I
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Kiss both, lips and turtzilla 💋 |
I love kissing. Intimate nibbling, kissing, etc. NO whole tongue fucking my mouth .. can't stand that .. so, keep it simple guys.
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I wanna "Kiss" !!!!
If I don't " Kiss" ya ..it means I don't like ya !
Everybody can't get a ticket to ride this "Ferris Wheel" example: women who refer to themselves as "Cum Dump or Dumpster" , " Black Breeder " or " Filthy Whore" (That doesn't even sound attractive) & lemme break it down..I like "Whores" as I was told by lady that it means a "Woman " with the morals of a "Man" I can "Respect" that & I also throw "Slut" in that category as well, but I ain't fucking a "Filthy" one.. "Hell" I don't even like "Cheap" hookers or "Escorts" or the new term for "Hooker" & "Escort" in Vegas or Metropolitan cities & that is "Atmospheric Models" . Anyhoo, point being ..Sex is supposed to look good & taste better & If I'm involved in the act any way..then cheap andrew dice clay imitation: " Baby you just signed up for the Bonus Plan!! " That's why it pays to talk ..( The Ol' fashioned way & some men & women on this site do ,so if ever there was an event that they just might meet up & it helps more than it hurts) And maybe it's just me but If our "Minds" click & our "Scents" click..then when the stars & moons align & she gives me the nod... Then I want "All" of it & I'm cumming to get it.. from your "Lips" to your "fingertips" & your " Toes" to all open holes.. We'll find out what you don't like as a "Team!! " And if you want me on your team then you gotta be a "Free Spirit " & if your that then you'll want these lips on "All" of your lips! ;) |
You go mustang with your bad ass!!
Wise words indeed!! "I don't do greets,meets and fcks " or however you put it. I have a couple of homies who slide their Dick in ANY chick they meet. I tell them they're just like my dog Bear he'll nail anything he don't care as long as it has four legs and barks. The immortal philosopher Snoop Dog said it best "Ain't no Pussy good enough to get burnt while I'm up in it " you should have some precautions. Anyways with that being said I don't know how you could miss an opportunity (that you have some assurances for safe sex) to not tonque down a wife, who has NEVER felt a big stiff Dick. I mean you give her some good Dick action in unison with some good tonque action......Man please she would cream 15 or 20 times all over your Dick!
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Glitch trying to keep Tay man down.
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It's a glitch. Check your inbox, I'll let you know how to get around that glitch. *wink* But first you gotta share that " midget"thread. Lol |
💋 Smooches
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Oh I play oh so careful!!! Very picky!! 😊 Very few are allowed in "club Mustang" :p lol. |
Really?
We can suck you anywhere but not kiss?
If you feared disease then you wouldn't be meeting for a start... So having put that aside, some of us get intimate before we get mechanical...if we don't kiss its hard to establish that connection....we are not just fucking, we are making love to some point... otherwise I would be out there in the sun getting the same enjoyment washing my car on a Sunday noon and grabbing some buds while looking at the clean car all afternoon!! And some girls just need to tone it down with the class thing...I don't think any of us enjoys it better than the rest with the "class" acts here... ' a rose by any other name...'...'... a fuck by any other name...' This is iLi babe....giving white ass sum black luv!!! :D :D :D |
It's a matter of how you are careful. Some go with condoms, dental dams, .... Others will be extremely selective, demand (repeated possibly) testing and then be okay with full abandon. We happen to be in between. The caution is there. The testing is expected, from us and our partners. In the interim, condoms make sense, as do limited play options. We really want friends anyway, so patience for play isn't disturbing. For those who can't wait? Nothing wrong with that; there are plenty of options all around for everyone. Once STD safety is established, it is full abandon, only tempered by pain and ass to anywhere else without washing up.
It doesn't have to be complicated at all as long as everyone is honest and up front with who they are and what they want. The drama enters in the exceptions, and the less common cases where folks didn't really understand themselves well enough. In the end, kissing is not only fine, but expected, as part of the play for us. It just takes time and understanding before we hit the mattress. |
Oh please!!!!
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That's like saying all dicks are the same.. :rolleyes: Is that how you feel? Is your dick the same as little Charlie Walker down the street? Do you handle it the same way?? :rolleyes: same "class" as the bums on skid row? *no offense to the bums* Oh and I don't care if its ili or the Library. What you get from me is who I am on the daily. Not gonna roll over and take all dicks (change my standards) just because its ili. Not sure who your general statement was about, I'm just saying. It's the Internet "Baby", I can be anyone I choose to be but I choose to be myself. ✌ |
Lol Bear..
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Maybe he should double date with your friends. . :p |
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I kiss ass, I'm mm a kiss ass.
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That's funny over there!
Hell, last week downtown they screwed some chick from Fla who later in the room pulled out her crack pipe. We work at a fortune 500 company and their asses haven't be able to concentrate all week.
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i never understood the kissing rule, to me its a natural part of sex
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Kissing In The Bedroom
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Same reasoning drives some couples to not swing in their personal bedrooms. She'll suck your dick in public/semi-public, but no hunchin' off on her in the privacy of the bedroom she shares with that special someone (husband, boyfriend, or whoever). Knew at least two couples that only wanted to swing on the hard living room floor. I say fuck that noise :mad: Personally, I think too many people been watching too many movies gettin' funny ideas about shit. Hell, if you fine I'll suck that POOT CHUTE (_*_) :p I wonder how many of you white gals here would hump a black man in your marital bed??? I know for many white couples it's a turn on to see the Mrs. black fuckin' while wearing her wedding ring. Even gettin' black cum on it LOLOLOL :D!!! |
Nobody?
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I am very oral, my husband is very oral and my favorite lovers are too.....hard to exclude the face from all the things being kissed and licked lol. A good kisser lifts my sexual desire to a whole other level. So my rule is no kissing no pussy.
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Practicing What She Preaches
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The only time I don't kiss women that I play with is when they are at swinger club and has already blown multiple guys before I got to her. That same rule applies when eating pussy.
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ALWAYS kiss it is part of the seduction
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Kiss,kiss
I don't understand a woman (or a man) reluctant to kiss. If you can have sex with a stranger, what's the point in refusing to kiss. If a woman can take a guy's cock in her mouth giving him a blowjob (most women are prepared to do this) and a guy is prepared to lick pussy (and who doesn't), then kissing abstinence doesn't make sense.
It's lovely to swap fluids while kissing and to play with the partner's tongue in your mouth. I think kissing is an integral part of fucking.:confused::confused: |
no kissing no pussy - nice!
You are right girl, kissing is integral to fucking. And as Abrie says if its not at an orgy, then its all good.
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Kissing was actually the subject of my most recent blog post on my other blog. Mainly inspired by a thread on the other site I'm on, but taking some inspiration from this thread as well. :-)
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I totally agree! Kissing is the key to my arousal.
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Blah blah blah GOAT, blah blah blah GOAT
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You sure talk about goats a lot. How many goat post does this make? Maybe you need to google farm or beasteality sites. :rolleyes: Lmao. You need pull your head out of your ass. It might be like that Where your from (across the pond) :rolleyes: but here in the states things are different. Your so stupid. Hell even some of your own post are racist. No way in hell can you tell me that all white people thinks everyone is equal. So miss me with your BS!!! Wonders if you lay awake in bed at night, searching for my post so you can bump it up to bitch and moan. Don't you just love the color purple? I hope that every time you see the color purple your ugly white British dick goes limp. Once you said "American men have small dicks" well I wouldn't have sex with you if I was starving and your dick was a ham sandwich. Wondering do all British dicks have lips, or just yours? How ya like the babble? Just like your post. Blah blah blah goat. |
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New is first class all the way. :) |
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