Changed my mind
 

2hereknowswhen, I was going to respond to your rant about a subject that you obviously have no knowledge about, but I changed my mind and only wondered why you are a contributor on this board. But we both know the answer to that don't we. GTR

That was hardly a rant, my friend. I just find the shit rather perplexing....but, hey, DO YOU. You like it, I love it.

I do give my husband the same freedom as he gives me. It's a completely open relationship. Whether or not he chooses to exercise that freedom is up to him, but he does have it. I wouldn't expect it to go any other way! What's good for the goose...

I salute you! That's how it's supposed to be. I've been on this site for quite some time and some of these folks talk like they've got the game fucked up. If you're off getting it in, then I'm for damn sure going to be.

I can't disagree with you. Fair is fair.

Come on man, tell us how you really feel about all this!!!

There are too many fakes
 

This married couple plays together. I have given her the freedom to play by herself, but she is not interested in doing so. We were best friends before getting married and have been together for 10 years.

She has told more guys than I have to get lost, because they act stupid and think getting down is will be like the cuckold porn videos. Yea right. I especially like it when the guys say that they are bisexual and when they are called on it they back down.

The only guys that we occasionally see are the bisexuals or couples. Straight single guys are really not worth the hassle. Once my wife put on her strap-on and told a guy to suck my dick while she fucked him. The mother fucker bolted out the door and unfriended us later that night.

Marital dynamics
 

I married an older man and as time went on he slowed in the sex department. He suffered from ED. Our sex life was once or twice a month. I was 49 and still wanting a full sex life; a coworker who was living with her black boyfriend and would hint to me that the sex was the best she had EVER known. I of course became curious and they took me to a club. I was nervous,but danced with several men. I just could not relax enough to follow through with the reason i was there. we went again and I met a man who i felt at ease with. He didinot rush me and i warmed up to tje thought of me going with him. The more we danced and talked it became not a question of if i would ,but when? My friends needed to leave ,so He told them he would see me home. I did not reply,but knew i was going to be with him. We went to a motel and i was scared as we undressed and i saw how large he was compared with my husband. I wanted to leave ,but was afraid he would become mad and possibly hurt me. I complied with his request to give him oral. I rarely did this for hubby an /never allowed him to empty into my mouth. however as I was doing it to the man I somehow enjoyed it. Maybe it was the thought of crossing the line with another man or just the thought of it being a Black men. Either way i seemed to get into giving him pleasure with my mouth and i felt him push at me and he came in me. I was into a state of disbelief as i swallowed it. We rested and then he layed me on my back, i knew this was it. I was going to cheat . He entered me slowly and I was surprised that it didn't hurt . He allowed me to accept it and we began that in and out stroking. I was beyond

furst time
 

I had never been so excited sexually after a few strokes. I was into place i had never been before ,or even knew exsisted. We spent 3 hours together and i was sure i wanted more of this. We began meeting on Saturdays for the next 3 yrs. My husband and i continued having sex occasionaly ,but I felt bad knowing that I was cheating on him. i finally told my husband what was going on. He was surprised and saddened. i told him that it was ONLY SEX, nothing more . Bob seemed to understand that ,knowing his condition and our age difference. I assured him that our marriage was strong and Would never leave him. Bob accepted this and gave his blessing to adventure. He aked if he could be there sometime with us. He watched us many times after that and sometimes he became erect and we had sex after i finished . Our marriage became stronger I believe ,as we grew together as a couple . He knowing i was happy and fullfilled in a womanly way, He knowing that he was confident in our trust together.

We sit somewhere in the middle of this.
We have been together for 5 plus years, both divorced and second time around.
Told her when we first met I had thing for 3 ways, especially with black guys.
She had passing interest in black guys having dated one guy once.
For us it’s just simple fun, we meet a nice guy she likes, get to know him and then let it progress from there. We tend to have only one guy we see on an occasional basis. We enjoy a social aspect as well so it’s not just about using him.
We do this as a couple , that’s the deal, no slinking off to have daytime meets, or private text conversations. We are very also clear on this with anyone we meet.
We had one guy text her at work one day wanting to know if she was free for lunch and some play time. He was dropped straight away.
We do this together, it’s for fun as a couple.

If she strayed and did it alone, even if she told me, that would not be cool.
Same applies to me. If I want an extra girl , the option is there for us to have an extra girl join us.