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[doggieismystyle]

It's interesting to note that when people note strength in a woman, the connotation is that she be domineering, controlling, dictatorial, materialistic, impatient, and just generally bitchy....? And on the flip side submissive is generally thought to mean meek, quiet, takes orders, is a push over, etc. Both extremes are misapplications of definitions applied to women (and men) according to societal gender identity bullshit.... Believe me, that when men (and women) refer to other men as "strong", bitchy is NOT a part of the equation.

With that being said, I date/fuck women from all races. I don't particularly care for women who are difficult irregardless of color. Yes I find that black women tend to be much more challenging than any other group. It's not all black women mind you. Just the beauty queens, and the wanna be beauty queens. They want this, they want that, they want, want, want.... What does one get in return? A fucked up attitude, a dirty house, and empty pots at dinner time. It's a catch 22 for me as I am only attracted to black American princesses and not the plain Jane types. Knowing this about myself I generally steer clear of black women when it comes to relationships. It's like pouring gasoline on a volcano...

[perkypumpkinssss]

Originally Posted by ThickNiggaDick

I guess it all depends on how she manifests the "strong". I mean, I like a woman who understands that she can be both strong and a lady at the same time. She understands that being strong isn't about a battle of wills all the time. She's not the type who thinks it's a challenge to try to out fuck the man LOL! She stands proudly with her head held high as she waits for her man to open the door for her.

I dated this red headed white chick once, and she was telling me about how she had a flat tire one time. It was before we met. Anyway, this guy stopped to help her change the tire, and she told him she didn't need any help. Then she said she got offended when he kind of stood there for a minute to watch her and see how she was gonna do. I mean really? Come on. She was offended by that ? I wish somebody had stopped to help me the last time I had to change a tire. Got all dirty in my nice business suit and hurt my back and shit

Anyway, I ended up dumping her ass after seeing her for a little while. You see, in her never ending desire to show her strength and independence as a woman . . . she forgot to remember that to attract most men (especially "strong" men) . . . you need to be . . . a lady. She would be over at my place, and then when she would get ready to leave, I would ask her to call me when she got home so I would know that she arrived safe and sound. And her reply? "I'm a big girl. I think I can get home safe all right," (while rolling eyes).

No shit!? Of course she was a "big girl", but she was totally missing the point! When a guy asks something of that from a girl, he's telling her that he CARES something about her . . . that he LIKES her . . . and wants HER to KNOW that he wants her to be free of any harm. But in her quest to be "strong and independent", she was blind to understanding and picking up on this kind of "man talk". Maybe that's why the guy before me dumped her too . . . and announced he was gonna get engaged to be married to somebody else! Said she was devastated. Obviously didn't learn shit.

A lot of women think they understand men. But, they don't understand jack shit about men. Not at all. I got tired of her "feminism". That's the way she described herself by the way when we had falling out and I stopped calling her. She "admitted" to being a "feminist". Well, I suppose strength and feminism come in tandem. But, you don't have to be a feminist in order to possess personal strength as a woman. I don't mind a strong woman. Just as long as she remembers to . . . be a lady too . . . which means knowing how to interact with, attract, and KEEP the opposite sex in her life.

I try to focus on the person... doesn't matter to me what gender they are,, where they are from and all that. It's the person that matters to me and what they are all about and how we connect. And you are sooo right... a person will be treated in the manner that they act so if you want to be with someone then I make sure to act in a way that makes them want me too. anyway.. just sayin.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by dbiggs

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BTW... Luv ya Mustang!!!

Awww thanks luv. Muah 💋 thanks for making me smile today.

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TND~ ha I would have called you to come change my tire, then prob fucked you in the back seat to say THANKS for showing me that you care. Oops or isn't that lady like? Lol.

Hun, there's no pin pointing me. I'm just a medley of sorts. All good tho. oh and love the fact that you asked her to call you. Relationship or not, I love an attentive caring man. Don't mean being at my beck and call. (I think you understand what i'm saying) It's the simple things that matter to me. 😊

[Mustang Alley]

Surprised at the different angle this thread has taken. The OP's original post had strong undertones of that blk man superiority BS (that certain non blk members over dose on) along with praising white women by putting down blk women.

Kinda makes one ponder?????

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by Mustang Alley

TND~ ha I would have called you to come change my tire, then prob fucked you in the back seat to say THANKS for showing me that you care. Oops or isn't that lady like? Lol.

A lady in the STREET . . . but a FREAK in the . . . TRUCK BED! Hahahaha ! By the way, I don't change tires anymore. I call AAA LOL!

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by ThickNiggaDick

A lady in the STREET . . . but a FREAK in the . . . TRUCK BED! Hahahaha ! By the way, I don't change tires anymore. I call AAA LOL!

Damn. Guess that means that I'm fcking the tow truck guy. Lol.

[Ultrarock]

I have been with both , I prefer black women but am going to marry a white woman who I love. If you need a big white cock hit me up. I have been banned by some weak pussy so rockman170 at live dot com lets fuck

[coolbreeze74]

hello whtgrlangel, it's nice to see some women still stand by their man, it's not black vs white here are some facts that i see as a black man i went to mostly white college i was on the swim team not basketball or football was not tall enough for that .the black women that we had on campus we're always angry thought their shit don't stink or thought they all we're african goddess . the black guys on campus none swim team seem to think they were gods which was funny most couldn,t spell thier names and acted like ass clowns, pants sagging, no good grammar .these was the ones black and white women would entertain all the time because they thought they were all going to the nfl or nba . when it came to graduate those guys was not stage it went like this white men 91%, white women 93% ,asians men 92%, asians women96% , black women 89% black men none swim team 16% black men swim team 100% why because there was only 5 of us out 55 white team mates. i got degree in poly-sci with minor in russian i live in russa for 5 years speank russian, english and spanish and the reason i am successful i a came from a two parent household .black and white women have the same problem they"re picking the same types of guys ,uneducated , in and out jail , can,t spell, always blaming the white man , slavery , and out of wedlock births.first when you got a good man don,t dress him up as a fool, second when you got a fool don,t dress him up as a man. the second one is and always will be the problem.

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newhongbg01

[EasyRider1040]

There are at least two major problems in terms of discussing differences between white women and black women. The first is that you can't use a descriptive word or phrase that could also not be applied to any woman or women in the groups being compared. The second is that we're talking about personal subjective preferences, not objective standards. If you're a black man and you prefer to be intimate with non-black women that does not mean there is anything objectively wrong with black women no matter how many bad relationships you have had with black women. We can't really claim there is something essential about white women not possessed by other women. We can, however, talk about what we find sexually exciting and erotic. If, for example, a marked contrast in skin color between you and your sexual partner is what floats your boat then it is what it is. That's my two cents. Peace.