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[CorneliaRO]

Are black men more straightforward when it comes to flirting ? I think a couple of my students that I work with at my uni are making passes at me, saying nice things, asking if I want to drink a cup of coffee with them. Are they just being nice or have ulterior motives ?

[tracyjane47]

In my experience, they are. Which is a good thing, I think. They tend to be more dominant and self assured. I'm sure they have ulterior motives. Go for it and enjoy it.

[jimmielee]

Originally Posted by CorneliaRO

Are black men more straightforward when it comes to flirting ? I think a couple of my students that I work with at my uni are making passes at me, saying nice things, asking if I want to drink a cup of coffee with them. Are they just being nice or have ulterior motives ?

I think they are more these days, seeing more mixed couples and know white women are at least curious about what it would be like with a black man..I think it is a good thing.
My wife was a mental health counselor before she retired, she says her black clients asked her out much more than her white. She was always flattered.

[kayneedsbbc]

Originally Posted by CorneliaRO

Are black men more straightforward when it comes to flirting ? I think a couple of my students that I work with at my uni are making passes at me, saying nice things, asking if I want to drink a cup of coffee with them. Are they just being nice or have ulterior motives ?

I think they are more confident and persistent when it comes to flirting. And yes they have ulterior motive that you need to discover.

[spoiler]

They are certainly more assertive and confident, which works in their favour.

[jimmielee]

Originally Posted by spoiler

They are certainly more assertive and confident, which works in their favour.

I agree, totally.

[roxanna105]

yes they definitely are which is fine by me