My thing when it comes to older white women interested in establishing a interracial relation with a black man is to make it as pleasurable as possible. Release all her hangups, inhibitions, insecurities. I make her want to tell her friends, daughters and church usher board. And its not just the sex I blow their minds with.
We dance, we shower, we massage and rub down in great smelling oils. We have fun, so much so her friends get curious about them looking into interracial possibilities. That's what I do, and I'm good at it. Cause I love white women and I love being that pleasant memory they often think about. :-) P
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