I agree i wish more people understood the value of open communication with their loved one. We looked at it as, we are different people still with different wants and desires and to think that just because we are married that we have to like the same things or give up something that we enjoy. Life is short and we want to enjoy it and being open with your loved one about your fantasies and desires... that's just key to it.
My husband told me one time that he would never stop me from exploring and enjoying things. He said it would be wrong of him to say I can't enjoy it because he's not into it or it's not his thing. He enjoys working on cars and playing games, I don't, but i'm not going to stop him from doing what he enjoys.
Anyways sorry for the long winded speach and thank you for your reply and understanding
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