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Originally Posted by Jacko1
New to the thread and session. I have read thru the thread and also the PDF. Thank you and have put it to work.
Woke up at 2 am to my partner snoring and began whispering to her. I spent the better part of 20 minutes using the technique on the quieter side of her breathing. All suggestions of BBC and her desire to have it.
How long should my sessions run? Any useful techniques that have worked well? Should I suggest the same things or change it up?
Keep you posted on our progress.
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Hi Jacko1,
I think 20 mins is good to start with and doing this several times a week and in such a way that hopefully you'll see enough small changes to spur you onto bigger better and longer sessions. Enjoy!
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Originally Posted by tnblackstallion
Thanks! My wife is definitely in the "conservative knots" category. A couple of times she joked about girl/girl, but every time I try to broach the subject myself even in a joking way she acts disgusted and says that's just not her thing. (The joke was that someone thought she and a friend at a party were a couple. She thought that was really funny. But there have been lesbians who really did come on to her and she turned them down flat).
My trouble is she is a REAL light sleeper. The first night I tried this she kept waking up and saying 'What are you saying?" Then I tried gently touching her ass to see if she was awake. She woke up. The next day she was like "Why are you touching my ass while I'm asleep". I've found if I whisper really quietly she doesn't wake up, but I wonder if she hears anything? Anyway, if I have any positive results I'll let yall know.
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Tnblackstallion.
Yeah light sleeping is a issue BUT as long as your voice can get in uninterrupted through her ears without other sounds or blankets / sheets in the way the unconscious is great at picking it up.
Its a pity she doesn't feel the need to take sleeping tablets on occasion to take the edge off her light sleeping because that really helps go loud and forceful.
Her becoming accustomed to hearing her husbands voice at night might make her remain more easily asleep over a week. BUT I can't deny this is definitely a issue.
A T.V left on in the room with you varying volume could help give you back ground noise excuses to such a issue and perhaps accustom her too to extra night noises? I think the principles of vary test and refine and redefine.
Really value your unique input considering your taking the principle and reapplying it to a different situation and perspective.
Wishing you all the best LW luck - which means its also my time to get up to bed and interestingly shes taken her night sedation tonight..... which means I get to go in heavy and deep.