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Originally Posted by WifeNstockings
Thanks so much for your great response...
This seems to be what I am afraid of. It sounds to me like he either does not feel "worthy" to have intercourse with her anymore because he knows that he can't satisfy her like you can and that his blowjobs that he gets are sort of "pity sex". If that works for them, that's fine with me. But I'm afraid our relationship might get the same way. Like in a way I might be thinking "Okay, let's get this over with" while I would be waiting for the really good sex with my black lover.
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Yea, I see where your concern lies. Unfortunately I didn't know them before the affair started so I'm not sure to what degree their sexual relationship is different now. All I know is what I am told by her, and to be honest, I'm not sure how much of it is fluffed to try to cater to my ego.
I guess if you truly love your husband and he does truly satisfy you sexually as well AND you allow him to participate in the activities, by being present, being the facilitator or whatever role he is interested in then I don't see why your new found pleasure and craving of black men should change what you two share at home. It most likely will be a different experience but probably not one that will make you want to change what's happening at home. Of course I am a man talking and we tend to change gears like that naturally. Just my opinion.