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[the12meat]

Originally Posted by WifeNstockings

Thanks so much for your great response...
This seems to be what I am afraid of. It sounds to me like he either does not feel "worthy" to have intercourse with her anymore because he knows that he can't satisfy her like you can and that his blowjobs that he gets are sort of "pity sex". If that works for them, that's fine with me. But I'm afraid our relationship might get the same way. Like in a way I might be thinking "Okay, let's get this over with" while I would be waiting for the really good sex with my black lover.

Yea, I see where your concern lies. Unfortunately I didn't know them before the affair started so I'm not sure to what degree their sexual relationship is different now. All I know is what I am told by her, and to be honest, I'm not sure how much of it is fluffed to try to cater to my ego.

I guess if you truly love your husband and he does truly satisfy you sexually as well AND you allow him to participate in the activities, by being present, being the facilitator or whatever role he is interested in then I don't see why your new found pleasure and craving of black men should change what you two share at home. It most likely will be a different experience but probably not one that will make you want to change what's happening at home. Of course I am a man talking and we tend to change gears like that naturally. Just my opinion.

[cuckoldx]

I"m not sure where to start. My wife started out as a virgin before dating me and very religious. Our sex life was wonderful and fulfiling. Nonetheless, I had fantasies of her being with other men. It started with touching by her uncle. Then she gave the neighbor guy a wake-up bj.

There was the girl's trip to vegas where her friends and her went clubbing and went home with different guys every night. It's the religious quiet milfs that really make vegas fun.

Then her best friend was killed in a car accident and she got mad at god and got wild. I encouraged her and when she was helping the family get back on their feet, she started sleeping with our friend of 16 years. My wife 'always' connects sex and falling / being in love.. so she fell for this guy. This meant that he didn't want her to tell me the stories. This was betrayal. He treated her badly and she stopped it and came back to me emotionally.

Next, we went to vegas as a couple and visited a swinger club. We talked for a couple of hours... I thought we were on our way out the door. Then she ask me if it was ok for her to dance with this handsome black man that had been watching her. I was shocked, and very happy to say yes. they danced for a while. then the three of us went to a private room. it was beautiful for me to see my wife taken and subdued by a strong black man. Unfortunately, the room had time limits.. so we took him back to our hotel for more fun. It was a one-nighter and one of my fondest memories.

When we got home.... my wife started letting the neighbor have sex with her. She would bring me home the creampie...and i LOVE sloppy seconds... but he started seducing her. He also started to dominate her. He moved out and left his wife. I moved out, but i still see her almost every day. Now he is the primary relationship, and i'm the hot sex on the side. the roles have changed. She is now cucking him.

So...beside a long history, your questions about relationship.... LOVE, TRUST and COMMUNICATION will determine how your relationship goes. When I felt her wanting to be with her bf... that created the gap between us that he was trying to create. Now she realizes that she would rather be with me. I have to wait and see if her desire to be with me will over power her submissive nature.

If you have more questions...send me a message...thanks for the real questions.

Ditto on the size is good for sex, but love (emphasizing emotional connection) is a different experience.

One other note: large cocks are rare... everybody has a personal preference. Nina Hartley (porn star extrodinare) declared in a documentry that she favorite is a thick 8 inches. Of the two black men my wife has enjoyed, both were smaller than me...and i'm a little above average.

[Jimz]

wifenstockings,

I would be interested to know how you are dealing with this and if you are considering having sex with a black man to have a first hand experience. I tried to view your profile and it's private, it would be good to have your profile filled and open so people can understand more about you.

I've read your posts and it looks to me both you and your husband are curious to try it. I believe if your marriage has strong foundations not only it will survive but your relationship with be enhanced with new and unique feelings. It doesn't matter if after going black you won't enjoy sex so much with your husband. I think that's normal. Most of the women who go black if they were totally sexually satisfied by their husbands they wouldn't do it in the first place. You should find greater pleasure with your lover otherwise why do it?

Don't forget the emotional contact you have with him and how many non sexual things bond you together. Even if you know he will not satisfy you sexually like a black man you would eagerly make love to your husband because you love him and he loves you. I believe watching you with a black man will bring you closer and will let all fantasies and secrets out in the open, if you have any. Experiencing "better" sex with another man will make you able to guide your non confident husband for more pleasurebale sex between you two.

[MFMCouple]

I am divorced but I can tell you what my ex-wife told me while we were married. She had always been sexually promiscuous and I had always been a little submissive and attracted to those types of women. Though she said our sex was great (and it was) after I brought it up I told her I could tell she wanted more cock. She said she would take it if it was there but wouldn't cheat on me. So, after several months of discussion, we both realized it wasn't one particular person she was attracted to per se, it was just that she ultimately she had a need to fuck random yet hung bigger more handsome males and before me, she did it in secret. After realizing and bringing that to light, we agreed it may be pleasurable to try out setting her up with hung fit males to fuck her when she was horney and see how it goes. We agreed on a type: fit, tall, hung and cocky but white at first. Right away it was like an epiphany for us both when we looked into each others eyes while she was getting fucked. Immediately, we realized what she needed and eventually moved on to black men to service her, though not exclusively. When we would discuss our sessions, afterwards, she realized she always wanted big cock to slide out of her pussy and to cum inside her to satisfy her need to get bred by good looking hung studds. Toward the end of our marriage, we were getting close to bringing out her need to get bred by hung black or white studds that would be her full time lovers with me helping prepare and take care of the baby. I admitted how much I enjoyed facilitating and assisting her fill her pussy's need for cock and she admitted how much she appreciated me helping her get fucked and wanting her lovers baby at her tit. It would have been nice to have a live in but unfortunately, due to other circumstances the marriage fell apart.

Being single now, I do seek out similar minded women and enjoy watching my g/f's fuck black studds in front of me.

[irfunseeker]

Originally Posted by the12meat

Yea, I see where your concern lies. Unfortunately I didn't know them before the affair started so I'm not sure to what degree their sexual relationship is different now. All I know is what I am told by her, and to be honest, I'm not sure how much of it is fluffed to try to cater to my ego.

I guess if you truly love your husband and he does truly satisfy you sexually as well AND you allow him to participate in the activities, by being present, being the facilitator or whatever role he is interested in then I don't see why your new found pleasure and craving of black men should change what you two share at home. It most likely will be a different experience but probably not one that will make you want to change what's happening at home. Of course I am a man talking and we tend to change gears like that naturally. Just my opinion.

The fulfillment of fantasy is a very human desire. My experience has been that fulfilling my fantasy helps in all my affairs.

Now my wife has her own fantasy. It is a cuckquean. She wants to watch me make love to a beautiful woman. You think fulfilling the IR fantasy is a challenge try finding a straight woman who is into fucking husbands in front of their wives.