[jodired]

I have not yet met up with anyone from ILI (hopefully that will happen soon!) but I have hooked up with quite a few Men (and their friends!) that I met in Chatropolis, a different chat room, that has interracial-specific rooms. I've been going there for several years and have met quite a few Black Men. There have been some disappointments, sure. A few times white men were pretending to be Black and I didn't find out till we met up at the motel...and they still expected me to fuck them! About a half dozen times I have been "stood up" (got to the site and no one showed up, and to be honest I have had to "stand up" the Men on a few occasions (something family or work-related happened at the last minute and I had no way/time to contact the Men I was meeting). But all in all its been a great way to get the sex I want & need.

My best advice is: ask for phone contact, ask for pictures that show specific things (like holding up that day's newspaper or something). And just keep trying; even if you strike out a few times, you'll still get soem hits. *s*