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[Bobbyadams21]

We are interested in discussing the possibility of meeting up with someone but don't know where to begin. Nobody seems to respond on here and we don't know how to go about it. Obviously we want tobe safe about it. How did you first find someone to start with?

[foxyriley]

We have met a few people from here but by and large we meet people through adult friend finder or lifestyle lounge. LL also has lots of takeovers and swing clubs can be fun and not to overwelming. LL has a real seal feature which is nice, it basically means someone from the site met you and you look like your pics, but AFF has a better selection of single males but they can be pricy, hope that helps

[jodired]

I have not yet met up with anyone from ILI (hopefully that will happen soon!) but I have hooked up with quite a few Men (and their friends!) that I met in Chatropolis, a different chat room, that has interracial-specific rooms. I've been going there for several years and have met quite a few Black Men. There have been some disappointments, sure. A few times white men were pretending to be Black and I didn't find out till we met up at the motel...and they still expected me to fuck them! About a half dozen times I have been "stood up" (got to the site and no one showed up, and to be honest I have had to "stand up" the Men on a few occasions (something family or work-related happened at the last minute and I had no way/time to contact the Men I was meeting). But all in all its been a great way to get the sex I want & need.

My best advice is: ask for phone contact, ask for pictures that show specific things (like holding up that day's newspaper or something). And just keep trying; even if you strike out a few times, you'll still get soem hits. *s*

[JOHNFLOW1]

We have met a few guys from AFF. Believe it or not the last guy we met and have continue to see was from craigslist. We've been seeing him for over a year now. But be very careful who you pick on that site. No matter what we alwasys met at a bar for drinks. We talk and see how it go's. We never do anything that night. After we meet, we thank them for coming and we will let them know the next day, if we want to meet again. If we do we exchange numbers!

We have not met anyone from this site yet. We actyually been a member since 2008. But i let our account cancel and i couldn't get it back.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by jodired

My best advice is: ask for phone contact, ask for pictures that show specific things (like holding up that day's newspaper or something). And just keep trying; even if you strike out a few times, you'll still get soem hits. *s*

LMAO!!!! How did they feel when they showed up and you are not Janet Mason????

Oh and I find it strange that you are a self proclaimed bbc slut and will sleep with any bbc.. I find it hard to believe that you haven't met anyone off ILI..

Cam is the way to go! Anyone can fake a picture.. (again LMAO) So Jodi I see you are bi, Ya wanna cam sometime? Drop over in chat sometime and lets cam....

[Mustang Alley]

Bumping for Jodi,

Does your no reply stand for a NO? Come on don't be shy come meet me on cam some night...

[rockhead_64]

My wife had her first black cock when she was 48. We lived in a small town - less than 10,000 people - and we relocated to large city - 100,000 people - because my wife was offered the opportunity to have her own business as an insurance agent for a large national company.

One of the first persons we met when we visited the new city where her agency was going to be located was a 62 year old black man named Warren who was to be her future landlord for her new office. My wife was wearing a red dress that kind of wrapped across the front with a tie belt aound the waist. The length fell a couple inches above her knees - she is 5'9". She was also wearing black stockings with a black garter belt, black panties, and black heels. Needless to say, Warren was extremely impressed when he first laid eyes on my wife!

My wife does not wear pantyhose, does not even own a pair. She works in a professional setting and dresses appropriately. Luckily for me, she loves to wear dresses and skirts to work. She does not wear them everyday, I would say on average about three times a week. She always wears stockings when she wears a dress or skirt to work, no bare legs.

When we lived in the small town, I lost my lucrative job at the town's largest employer because the company downsized. I received a generous severance payout. At the time our three children were 16,11,and 6. So, I became the prototypical Mr. Mom, I learned to become a very good cook, volunteered at the kids schools, coached them at sports while my wife worked for her uncle as his office manager for his insurance agency.

I am still a stay at home dad, so I have a lot of free time. I love to spy on my wife! She loves to get coffee at the same Starbucks every morning. After I drop the kids off at school, I tell my wife I will be going to the grocery store or some other place and then find a place to park in an adjacent parking lot so I can see the Starbucks. Every time my wife arrives and gets out of her van with a dress or skirt on, there is a flurry of activity of guys getting out of their cars and striking up a conversation with her as they head inside, and the same guys follow her out and watch her get into her van hoping for an upskirt!

I help my wife out in her office whenever she is shorthanded because someone on her staff is sick, on vacation, at training, etc... I sit at a front desk and have contact with people when they come in the door. On numerous occasions, guys both black and white, will be right behind my wife when she comes back from wherever she was. They want a quote on insurance and want to talk to the lady who just came in - she always has a dress or skirt on when this happens.

I am currently coaching my youngest son's basketball team and we have two black kids on the team. We had a scrimmage with another team between Christmas and New Year's at six in the evening, usually our games are on Saturday mornings. My wife came to the scrimmage right from her office and she was wearing a black sweater dress with black opaque stay up stockings and knee high heeled boots, the dress fell a couple inches above her knees. The dads for the black kids were fit to be tied! As well as most of the white dads and moms in attendance! Quite a difference from seeing my wife on Saturday mornings wearing jeans and tennis shoes!

My whole point in this long winded post is that I think there are numerous opportunities for a white woman to find a black man. I think how a woman dresses is the most important part of this equation and I don't mean dressing as a slut and going to a club. Many women would never consider going out someplace dressed with everything hanging out. If you dress in a professional manner - dresses, skirts, hosiery, heels, boots - you can go to any reputable place - Walmart, Barnes & Noble, Panera, Best Buy - and attract a lot of attention. My wife is no beauty queen - I cannot post a picture of her face on this sight for obvious reasons - but her hair is probably her most striking feature above her shoulders and she wears glasses that look very sexy! She has a very outgoing personality, talks to anybody. She is very submissive for a business owner. She never set out to have a black cock, it just happened when we moved and it snowballed very fast. Good luck!

[Bigtt05]

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