[steveininlandempire]

I must say that I rank the encounter as rather fun since the couple was cool and at least I got my release...if only by myself! I was a little nervous myself the first time and certainly a couple is giving up more than I'm giving up since my wife is not a part of the lifestyle and would slam me if she knew I was:-). As mentioned, I want the woman to be comfortable and if she isn't, I would mentally not want to go through with it in spite of physically desiring to do so. I've also learn not to reserve a super expensive room (which I haven't) since you don't really know what's going to happen. I have no regrets regarding the meeting. Now if this were to happen the next 10 times in a row I would probably terminate my membership with the site. Love your post, lots of wisdom in it.