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[steveininlandempire]

After a series of emails, finally met this one couple at a Target store in South Orange County in the snack area. Let me say that the wife was one of the top 20 most attractive women I have ever met and I knew I had hit the jackpot. I'm not bi but even the guy would be considered handsome by most. We actually talked for about 90 minutes but barely touch on the area of intimacy. Really nice couple, quite educated and accomplished so I was thanking the Greek God of love for this encounter. I did notice that the wife was somewhat shy but I couldn't really ascertain just how much.

Fast forwarding to the following weekend(which was actually last Saturday, Feb 4th), we met as agreed upon at a hotel in Redondo Beach or about 50 miles from their home. Really a nice hotel close to the beach and we split the charge of $150. Admittedly, I've been with some outstanding looking women in my life but one thing they all had in common was the sexy element and I find this common throughout this site where I find sexy qualities in women of all ages, sizes, appearances and I'm not saying that to be politically correct, I really mean it. Anyway, they were already in the room and the husband met me in the lobby holding fake paperwork as if we were having a business meeting (good disguise). We walked to the room and his wife was sitting in a chair watching some show on the Food Channel. She stood up and we hugged like childhood friends and folks, I immediately starting getting erect but the couple didn't know since I didn't indicate what was happening verbally, visually or physically.

So we started talking and she had this worried look so I immediately asked if something was wrong and the husband apologized right away and at that point, I knew nothing was going to happen but certainly wanted to know their present state and how and why did things change within the past week and they simply told me that she was fired up and ready from a distance to go through this but embarking on the actual act was scary, filled with uncertainty and she wandered what it would do to their marriage. In earlier days they had dealt with feelings of jealousy (neither husband nor wife would have trouble picking up willing sex partners). Both were very apologetic for wasting my time and offered to pay for the entire room. I'm not trying to sound like Richie Cunningham from Happy Days or Tim Tebow for you younger members but I told them that we had agreed to split the cost of the room and although I'm not rolling in dough, $75 was no big deal but most importantly, I don't want to have sex with anyone who is stressed or uncertain and that has been my lifetime method of operation. I appreciated their honesty and I reminded them that even my profile mentions that I recognize a woman' s right to say no at any point so no one owed me anything. But of course, I did mention that if they changed their mind in the future to please let me know

This couple joined this site within the last 2 years and they have no pictures nor identifying info listed so I say that to help protect their identity. They also mentioned that they had considered meeting a guy last year but I was the first person that they have ever met from the site and that they had communicated online with several guys based out of state. At any rate, we actually had lunch afterwards at a Mexican restaurant and chatted for a couple of hours and there was no uncomfortable moments involved. So after what turned out to be a positive day, we said goodbye and took off. Now realizing we didn't have each other cell numbers and knowing they couldn't call me a few minutes or little while later and say they're changed their minds, I was still horny as hell and stopped at a grocery store and asked to use the bathroom. I then pleasured myself with the thought of this hot woman in my mind, deep dimples, long haired brunette with thick flowing hair, beautiful piercing blue eyes, nice cheekbones, outstanding rear end, perky chest, overall gym trainer shape, etc. and I must have shot jizz with the force of a water cannon. This was much needed relief! I got back in my car and drove home and later workout at the gym. It really turned out to be a nice day in spite of not having sex with this world class babe. Cool couple and we have agreed to at least meet from time to time for a quick lunch and possibly more.

[rosiegirl42cs]

I haven't had the misfortune of meeting at a hotel and having the people get cold feet at the last minute, but, as we prefer to host, have had no-shows. What is almost as unfortunate are the men who think it will be cool to be with a wife with the husband present, but are actually very uncomfortable with the reality; they don't relax enough to have a good time and I end up being polite rather than fulfilled.

By contrast we've had some wonderful erotic encounters with experienced people. Everybody has to start somewhere with the lifestyle, but it can be a tremendous letdown when someone talks a good game yet does not walk the walk.

I commend you on your good nature in dealing with this situation. We're all people, of course, not robots, but wannabe lifestylers should consider the disappointment their reluctance causes for those of us who take our pleasure seriously!

[steveininlandempire]

I must say that I rank the encounter as rather fun since the couple was cool and at least I got my release...if only by myself! I was a little nervous myself the first time and certainly a couple is giving up more than I'm giving up since my wife is not a part of the lifestyle and would slam me if she knew I was:-). As mentioned, I want the woman to be comfortable and if she isn't, I would mentally not want to go through with it in spite of physically desiring to do so. I've also learn not to reserve a super expensive room (which I haven't) since you don't really know what's going to happen. I have no regrets regarding the meeting. Now if this were to happen the next 10 times in a row I would probably terminate my membership with the site. Love your post, lots of wisdom in it.

[dashinglad2010]

I concur and have had experience with the subject matter here. Just recently, I had this coluple colme in from out-of-town. They seemed to be a young couple who obviously were new to this world of the BBC lifestyle. I corresponded with the hubby a week in advance about the entire sett up and even sent cock pics to his wife. All was going well when they arrived in town as I was able to talk to his hot-looking wife on the phone. I couldn't wait to meet them at the hotel. Well, their first night contacting me locally ended up beikng cancelled for family matters on their end. Nonetheless, we rescheduled for the following night. When I got off work that evening, the hubby called me to remind me of everything we talked about concerning this arrangement. And he told me what his wife was wearing too, not to mention, that she would she sitting on the couch in the lobby all by herself. Well, when I arrived in the hotel lobby such was not the case. It just so happened they were sitting together talking to each other as if he were givjing her last minute instructions. THAT was a sign right there that something was up. So I introduced myself to them and hubby leaves to go elsewhere. So I'm talking to this chick who is blazing hot; however, as she asked me questions about my history in the lifestyle it was glaringly obvious that she was intimidated and overwhelmed by me. During the conversation, she crossed her legs as if she tried to seem confident. She asked me whether if I could tell if she was tense and nervous. I responded by saying "yes you are because you're clutching your left leg with both hands and look kind of awed." As the conversation continued it was becoming more evident that she was talked into doing this arrangement and wasn't prepared at all for it. I kept my composure and remained polite, but I just wanted to leave because the whole occassion was a big waste of time. I left the hotel and went hung out with some hot-looking females I knew at the local bar. The whole experience was one big, sad joke to say the least.

When doing these kinds of arrangements, it's always important for the couple to fully understand and realize what they are heading into. Having that clear, concise understanding of the lifestyle will lead to BBC jackpots all over the place. If not, well they leave a lot of pissed-off brothers behind. Not good. Especially if you're on this site.