[frenchy59]

So the wife has been a little frustrated with my sexual performance lately and has expressed this to me fairly often. While we are both physically active and in pretty good shape physically, I am 55 years of age, 12 years older than my wife. My wife is a great looking woman, and I often notice that other men seem to find her very sexy and confident. She acknowledges their attention, and frequently enjoys meeting and talking to other men, even in my presence. I don’t mind though, as it is usually kept within limits, plus I enjoy the fact that other men desire my wife. Just as long as that is all they do, is admire and desire.
The main problem seems to now be that I suffer from mild erectile problems, sometimes losing my erection during sex, not being able to quickly recover after cumming, to perform for more sex, and my stamina seems to lacking as y hardness is not what it once was. At 43, Liz really is into long sessions of sex, wanting it 2 or even 3 times per evening, more than I can handle. It seems to be getting to the point where it is starting to affect our relationship. Overall I will say I am a very good provider and our marriage in all other ways is extremely secure. But lately I have noticed an increased activity between my wife and other men, more flirting, some touching and evening a few dinners and lunches with other men. These are the things I see and know about, and I am at this point, believing they are all just harmless meetings. Of more concern has been my seeing my wife being more friendly than usual with several black men, with whom we come into contact through our profession. We own a sales consulting business, often working together with the same clients. Also since we are both from the deep south, we have always been polite and proper with back people, same as others, but have refrained from being too friendly as our community and social circle would find that inappropriate. Also out of respect for my feelings and background, my wife has never crossed certain lines and kept interaction with black men very brief or short. Now Liz is even commenting and saying things about how nice looking certain black men are, or how well they are dressed. All of this is a very noticeable change in her ways and habits.
As we live in the country side on a large property, I often hunt deer close to home. A few weeks ago I put a game camera close to some woods adjacent to our driveway, trying to get some still pictures and video of the deer crossing thru this area. After the first week, I noticed in the edge of several pictures a strange car using our long driveway. I did not think too much about it other than it was unusual as we do not get many visitors. However the next week when I checked again, there was 2 more pictures with the same car. The pictures were vague and not real clear, so I moved the camera closer to get better pictures for identification purposes. I alone have been traveling a lot lately to work with a customer 400 miles away, often being gone for 2 and 3 days at a time. I was wondering if our property was being checked for a possible robbery or break in at some point, so better pictures would surely come in handy. I meant to ask Liz if she knew who it might be, but it slipped my mind and I forgot about it. But then on the third week when I checked the SD Card, the car was back again, and this time I could see a black man was driving the car. Also by the time and date stamp, I too realized he was not driving out for several hours, after driving in. As I thought further on this unusual behavior, I concluded he was showing up only when I was out of town on overnight trips.
I am now faced with the decision as to whether or not to relocate the camera, possibly 2 or 3, in strategic locations to close to my front door, maybe even inside the house. I know the reality of probably what my wife has been doing, and I think I want to know for sure. It does makes somewhat angry that she would cheat on me, but I confess I sort of like the idea of her getting what she wants.
More later, let’s see where this goes.
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