Since we are still so new at this, and quite shy, what is the best way- if any- to attract a black man's attention? We don't do the club/bar scene but are fairly active outdoors. Ladies, what works for you? Men, what gets your attention? Is there some sort of 'signal'? lol I live in a college city. How would I go about approaching them when out in the park or on the bike trail? I realize saying "hello, how are you?" might be the thing to do, but I can't even do that. How do I make it known to them I am 'looking'? I've tried to think of naughty things to playfully say or ask to let them know I was interested, but I was unsure if that wold be crossing a line. Is there a way for me to say "I want to fuck" with out crossing a line??
