If you are like me, it took you a long time of being patient and encouraging her to bring her to this point. The first night for me and my wife was at the Red Rooster in Vegas. She was nervous and I re-assured her that we could leave when ever she wanted. I also let her pick out who she wanted to talk to, dance with, and eventually make love to.
She took the chance and went bareback. She actually didn't hesitate at all, because she really does love a cum filled pussy. She was nervous after that..and a few of her friends can't believe she took the chance of going bare. . . she doesn't bring that part of the story up unless ask or not afraid of being judged. (There was another time with a guy we had known for 16 years, she got herpes from him. . .'something to remember him by' what an asshole. But I digress...another story for another day).
Obviously she loves you and wants to please you. You want to please her and have her sexually please also. Communicate, take your time, make sure the chemistry is good. The last thing you want is for her to feel like she is degraded (unless that works for her).
This is your chance, don't blow it....and please share it with us....we are all voyeurs at heart.
