[Blonde Kayla]

You’ve assembled quite the list of things you associate with women dating black men. I always thought toe rings were worn by women who live by the beach and wear sea shell necklaces or beads on her wrist????

I like an anklet don’t like anklets with symbols on them tho just plane jewellery is pretty, necklace chokers really depends on if it suits you, fat girls don’t bother. Leggings are for girls who go to the gym or can’t be bothered to shave her legs. Tho I do quite like pvc or wet look leggings. But I always prefer a skirt or dress when out and about.

Platform heels…… I always thought these were for strippers or black mens trophys but I do think they’ve grown in popularity among younger ladies or women like myself who are vertically challenged and love the extra height.

Now stockings obviously ain’t just exclusively to women dating black, nobody is being questioned in the lingerie shop if your with a black man or else no sale. Infact I’d say most women wear white stockings on your wedding day. And I’d really argue only self confident ladies with a high sex relationship are buying sexy lingerie. Shy timid fat women ain’t buying stocking sets. That’s the truth.

Now my absolute honest opinion is yes I do think way more women wear stockings dating black men, I think we wear them more for nights when we’re dressing up for our men too, I think it’s a mix of black men liking us in them and us feeling sexy in them. My boyfriend has made no secrets how much he wants me wearing them especially out together, I’m not shy and enjoy teasing I’ll happily show a garter strap or my stocking tops. This is something i never would have dreamed of doing for my ex husband & it’s something I’ve never seen a woman doing in an all white relationship. I don’t expect everyone to agree but I’d argue by saying just do the eye test and look at what you see among couples………!