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[Curious scott]

Ok as a once married man I loved seeing stockings but I was guilty of never telling my wife that so she never wore them for me. Everytime I’ve seen her since our divorce she’s constantly wearing them…..,

So my question, are stockings really becoming a sign you date a black man is it a thing I’m curious, in here so many pics the women wear stockings, interracial porn, in public, in toons & drawings it’s so obvious. Yet just nowhere near as common for ladies not dating black, none interracial porn rarely featured a lady in stockings. I’m intrigued is it a thing????

Maybe I’m paranoid thinking it’s a thing?

[Brcr1234]

I don't think it has a meaning, it's more just a trend that's coming back I think. Tbh they aren't super comfortable lol so it's a trend that might not last long lol.

[wabill]

I don’t think they have any meaning in relation to being a signal to black guys.

You don’t specify what you mean by stockings?.
There’s tights, also known as pantyhose, then there are proper or traditional stockings, which need a suspender or garter belt to hold them up, also stay ups etc.
My partner wears stay up or traditional frequently, to work, whenever we go out etc.

She finds them comfortable, if the correct size stockings and suspenders belt is worn. Stay ups are convenient and practical for everyday wearing.

I enjoy seeing a woman wear them, they are generally recognised as feminine and classy.
I’ve never seen a James Bond girl in anything but stockings.

The newer pantyhose ( tights) can be hot and uncomfortable to wear, also they tend to be cheap and nasty and don’t wear well.
My partner never wears tights after she was introduced to stockings.

[CumandGetit4U]

I personally love the way they feel on my body and look. What I love more than anything is the look on his face when I’m putting them on. Hot!!!?
I love when he rips them off. Now that’s hot.
Also love thigh high stockings and garters.

[Blonde Kayla]

Stockings in the uk are stockings either fully fashioned or hold up’s. We don’t say pantyhose we just say tights. I like to think I know a thing or 2 about stockings even tho I’m late to the game.

I was married 20 years and I only wore stockings once, on my wedding day. My husband never seem bothered or intrested or turned on, never mentioned it again and so never got another pair or wore them till going on my first date with my now boyfriend who asked me to wear them. So once in 39 years. And the next 9 years I’m hardly out of them, there’s barely a week goes by I don’t already wear them a few times a week.

Do I think it’s a “black guy” thing? I kinda do, I think it’s just a clothing accessory that’s more common with a woman dating a black guy & specifically a white woman. My experience & friend’s experiences are similar. You just don’t hardly see women wearing stockings if they ain’t dating a black guy & a friend of mine told me once her husband asked her to stop wearing stockings because people would think she was single or with a black man. Now that’s his opinion but it does seem as tho he isn’t alone.

It could be a bunch of things or black men more comfortable in saying what they want us to wear, is it us generally dressing more sexy for our men? Or is it just something of nothing?? Personally I love wearing them, I quite like knowing the attention I get, I love how turned on my boyfriend gets knowing I’m wearing them. I also find them very comfortable and feminine too. What I do know is had I not left my husband I still would only have worn them once!!!

[anthonyd423]

I love seeing a woman in stockings. I never knew it to be a symbol of interracial relationships. I did kind of think of it as a hotwife/swinger thing at one point.

[Curious scott]

It’s nice to see a couple of ladies giving there opinions, one lady kinda down playing it. Look on her bio, 2 pics of her in stockings looking stunning! The other lady is borderline a stocking & lingerie catalogue for how to dress for a black guy!

Honestly Is it an unwritten/spoken rule and I’ve touched upon it! I’ve asked several mates and most say similar “wife doesn’t wear them”, “not my thing”, etc……. Ask a black guy at work he goes of on a tangent…….. “fuck yeah, she better wear them”, “if she ain’t wearing them it better be because we’re going swimming”, “cause it’s a black guy thing, not wearing them for you are they?”

I guess I’m after that hallelujah moment where a woman actually say yep that’s correct & here’s why. I’m thinking stockings are on the list:-

Anklets
Necklace chokers
Platform heels
Leather dresses/skirts
Wet look leggings
PVC/vinyl outfits
Toe rings
STOCKINGS!!!

[TG18]

Not exclusive to black me. Men of all races like them, and some don't. I personally really enjoy when women wear some type of hosiery.

[Blonde Kayla]

You’ve assembled quite the list of things you associate with women dating black men. I always thought toe rings were worn by women who live by the beach and wear sea shell necklaces or beads on her wrist????

I like an anklet don’t like anklets with symbols on them tho just plane jewellery is pretty, necklace chokers really depends on if it suits you, fat girls don’t bother. Leggings are for girls who go to the gym or can’t be bothered to shave her legs. Tho I do quite like pvc or wet look leggings. But I always prefer a skirt or dress when out and about.

Platform heels…… I always thought these were for strippers or black mens trophys but I do think they’ve grown in popularity among younger ladies or women like myself who are vertically challenged and love the extra height.

Now stockings obviously ain’t just exclusively to women dating black, nobody is being questioned in the lingerie shop if your with a black man or else no sale. Infact I’d say most women wear white stockings on your wedding day. And I’d really argue only self confident ladies with a high sex relationship are buying sexy lingerie. Shy timid fat women ain’t buying stocking sets. That’s the truth.

Now my absolute honest opinion is yes I do think way more women wear stockings dating black men, I think we wear them more for nights when we’re dressing up for our men too, I think it’s a mix of black men liking us in them and us feeling sexy in them. My boyfriend has made no secrets how much he wants me wearing them especially out together, I’m not shy and enjoy teasing I’ll happily show a garter strap or my stocking tops. This is something i never would have dreamed of doing for my ex husband & it’s something I’ve never seen a woman doing in an all white relationship. I don’t expect everyone to agree but I’d argue by saying just do the eye test and look at what you see among couples………!

[Curious scott]

You know what I’ve read the comments seen who posted them and my cock is rock hard seeing how stunning you ladies dress……… truthfully I’m ok with knowing you dress like this to show/prove your a black man’s trophy! There’s something hot you admitting it too, it’s almost a slap in the face knowing it’s not a big deal to you guys either.

Keep doing it! It’s not for my benefit & I’m ok with it tho.