
12-31-2011, 07:49 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2011
Posts: 10
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Originally Posted by tnewton04
Questions to the group:
To those couples out there who have had success at this, how did you go about finding the guy?
Did you interview prior? Or just go for it.
Are you requiring testing beforehand?
How many meetings do you have before getting hot & heavy?
Does anyone here have a ongoing thing with a guy - or are they one hit get togethers?
Maybe there better web sites out there for really making a connection? Can anyone suggest other sites??
Are the successful people just not selective about who they meet with? ( obviously there are different levels of comfort for different people. )
We're just getting so damn tired of fakers, wannbes and pic hunters. And from this thread, it seems like this is a common problem.
Literally thinking about giving up.
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We've been doing this for a while. It takes persistence, intuition, & common sense. There are alotta BS'ers, posers, fakes, but all of the advice & techniques found in this thread will reveal them before you head out for the meet. We generally get some background info. Also, we request test results often, depending on the background info we get & our gut feeling.
Everyone we invite, we keep on a list with notes, & do have repeat playdates with many.
And we are very selective & seek out mostly professionals. However, we will consider someone from the "hood" {so to speak} with a recent std test results printout. I only do bareback, as condoms irritate me.
Don't give up, Fight a good fight, & something will happen for you! It'll be worth it 
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