~~Speaking of Validating~~

CaliBlk4U · #1 (**permalink**) 12-21-2012, 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ACnoname

My wife and I would be interested in visiting a non sausage majority party or a meet in greet, but privacy is major. There is no How to book so to speak so caution takes priority.

Ok, I get that privacy is important to you (and many of the rest of us as well), but I will never understand why you can't even put your home state in your profile... Ok fine, maybe you can convince me that you can't list your city -- especially if it's a very small town, whatever. But not even having your state listed is a big fat red flag to many of us. That seems [to me] to go WAY beyond simple privacy concerns.

CaliBlk4U · #2 (**permalink**) 12-27-2012, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by CaliBlk4U

Ok, I get that privacy is important to you (and many of the rest of us as well), but I will never understand why you can't even put your home state in your profile... Ok fine, maybe you can convince me that you can't list your city -- especially if it's a very small town, whatever. But not even having your state listed is a big fat red flag to many of us. That seems [to me] to go WAY beyond simple privacy concerns.

Ok, I've just been informed (by a sexy little birdie, who will remain nameless) that you can't only list your home state in your profile without also entering your city... Not that you can't use a near by town instead? Anyway, I guess some of us just have to get used to flying blind. Unfortunately the system seems to favor the fakes and those who just want to play games with the black men around here. Do I sound jaded?