Asian Wife with Questions about Black
 

I am an Asian woman very slim and most men think I am very sexy. I am married to a wonderful man who is white. Our sex is great. When it comes to size, my husband always wishes he was bigger. But for me, he is big already. He told me a while ago that he would be turned on to watch me to have sex with another man.

At first I was shocked and wondered why he felt that way. He especially wants to see me with black men. He said it is so naughty that it would turn him on so much. I love to make him happy but I'm not sure if I am ready to go that far yet.

I have chatted to many guys here and everytime I go in the chat room I have several black men who are all telling me how they all want to fuck me. I was chatting with a guy last night who on the web cam was jacking off and he has 12"! I have never seen a dick that big before! I was so shocked, but very truned on and curious to know how it would be..

I also chatted with a white man here who said he loves to watch his girlfriends fuck black men too. But he siad that every time the girls do it, he can no longer satisfy the girl and they leave him. I never want to leave my husband or cheat on him, but I want to make him happy. I am also becomming turned on by black men and their very large dicks. I want to try one out but don't want to make my husband feel like he won't make me happy anymore.

I am confused, should I tell my husband lets do it and satisfy both our our fantasies but could ruen our love life. Or should I ignore it and just be happy with him???

Advice please. Plus my pics are on the link.

Tell me what you think..

I just wanted to add an image to show you guys what you are working with..

Do it!
 

First let me say that you are one fine as Asian lady. You are so lucky and don't even realize it. Remember he asked you! If he's not concerned about the issue that you mentioned given his previous experience then why should you. Sex is a very important part of any relationship but there is so much more. There were probably other issues that facilitated the break ups. Believe me if his other women were so shallow and/or stupid that they would leave a good man who would welcome her fucking other guys. Then it's their lost. What woman or man for that matter would pass on the ideal deal whereas you get to have a meaningful relationship with some one who is so open minded that they could love you and be capable of sharing you too. I say keep the spark alive in yourself and him too by getting your black cock baby. I really hope that I made sense. If so drop me a line.

Lot to think about
 

There is a lot to think about before you go forward. That being said I voted for you to say it's a fantasy. You brought up a couple of points that you two need to address. First is that you both have now expressed a desire to do it. Thats cool but you also say you are afraid he wont be able to satisfy you after being with a black man. Well all of us aren't these 12" Mandingo dick having guys. if you are truly worried find a brotha that is similar in size to your husband and try that out first and if you both are good with it work your way up the scale. Now lastly you ask if you should do it and risk your love life. The answer to that can really only come from the two of you sitting down and talking this out. If your marriage is sound and this is something the two of you want to try you should be ok. This site and many others are a prime example of couples of have done it and like it. True the other side is not to many people post the negative affects. Good luck to you two and please update us on how it goes or don't go.

you should talk to him and see what he says,, you are very sexy,, why not ask?

So far
 

What I'm reading is that I should take more time to talk it over to be sure. But my pole is stating everyone wants me to just bring some black men into my bed and just enjoy. :p
Trust me, I really want to experience it. Most people try to have lots of sex before marriage so it is out of your system. I never did, so I am curious. If I cross the line, can I ever just go back to being a normal wife? What about swingers? They seem to enjoy it. I need more advice. If you think I should just let them men in and enjoy it, tell me why. Give me a good reason to just go crazy...

I think it's good advice from both bigblack and Badman. With the support of my husband I'm hoping my first experiance will go as bigblack believes yours will.

Cum on
 

Come on, give me some feed back and tell me why... I wanna know if I should say Yes honey lets go find one or no honey...

met a guy
 

Well, I have also been chatting on other websites like my rude account. Check my profile for the link. He lives in LA and he said he is 10 1/2". I believe it because I have seen enough of his pictures and he wants to hook up with me. I will be near there later this year so I told him I'm going to think about it. I will be his first Asian girl too so if I did it, this would be a first for everybody. But 10.5, and it is so big around too! It will hurt but I'm sure feel good at the same time. Part of me wants to tell my husband and say ok, but other side said wait. Still not sure what to do yet.
I attached his pic... OMG!

So what happend? I'm in the same boat as you. Thinking about having my 1st BBC!

Talk, talk, and talk is the first thing you need to do. Once you and your husband are in agreement then talk and set the rules and what is and isn"t ok, also have a safe word meaning stop this now, a word like red or anything except stop or no. Now once in agreement and secure in your relationship then you can go for it and enjoy to the max. Size, dont worry about that as for being able to please your man or him you, a baby can come from within and with excerise you return to normal the same is true for this also, only worry about the size if you or your husband is not able to stand you taking a really big cock. My first black cock was 11 inches and soda can thick, yes it did hurt but felt wonderful at the same time, yes he/it stretched my pussy but my husband and I loved it all and continue to enjoy the life style today. Talk, agree and enjoy. hope you have lots of fun just as we are doing.

Well as I said, I'm curious but still trying to decide to go thru wtih it. :p
But a cock like that would feel real good I'm sure.

Thank you.. It does sound like fun but we will talk tal ktalk about it. Maybe it's still just a fantasy but maybe someday I'll go thru with it. I'd like to see what all the hype is about. Also to satisfy my husband too. But I know I'm just really old fashioned and I love my husband. so I think that is what is holding me back...

Go for it girl! I did and I had the best time ever. It will enhance your relationship with your man.
The size does take getting used to but it is worth the effort!
Two of my girlfriends also went black, those guys love us asian chicks!

I can understand the doubt. But I also think that it is good to start at some moment. Somewhere must be a begin. I am working on it to get my girl ready for it :) Hope you enjoy a bbc soon :)

If you feel it is too risky going ahead with it, you would be better off not doing. Why take such a big risk if you are in a very happy relationship already?

P.s. 10-12 inch is too big anyway

My husband thinks you really want this and that you are ready, he says your husband wants thiis to happen or he would'nt have ask you to do this. he says to go for it enjoy and to let your man enjoy watching, that you all will love it, and for the best time you will need a caring HUNG bull. Go for it girl, ALL the way.

do it, not do it
 

I am hearing both sides. Girls tell me that they tried it and loved it. Can't get enough, others say don't risk it. Guys tell me to find one and enjoy it and others say maybe it's too big anyway. When I decide, I'll just make up my mind and thats that.

If I decide to do it, I'll just find one that let him have me any way he wants and enjoy it as much as possible, if I like it I'll probably make it a regular thing. But if I decide not to do it, then that's it. I'll just continue to use toys with my husband doing what he wants to me.

My biggest problem is, there must be some akwardness with the other guy(s) afterwards. what if you meet one of them on the streets and you are with your friends who know nothing of your personal wild side? Imagine you run into one of these guys who just had sex with you and he said hi and asked if you want to hook up again? (Or said you give the greatest blow jobs, or something crazy like that? Then your girlfriends walk up? How embarrassing. You either have to lie to them and then they think you are cheating on your husband, or you have to tell all your friends that your husband lets you bring other men into the bed for sex. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!:confused:

In Holland we say: "Fear is a bad advisor". ;)

you havnt lived until you had black cock!
 

I made it clear to my white husband that i love him but also love big long fat juicy black cocks!Black guys are better lovers their cocks are bigger and look so sexey and their cum tastes better!

try
 

I have heard that too. I think I'm going to try it. I just don't know who yet.. How do I choose? Just pick a guy off the street or through a website talk to soemone for a while first?

Do what he wants
 

Take him at his word. He wants to see it, it will excite him, you will enjoy it. There is a risk in any sexual adventure that you will hurt your marriage, so there is a risk. But if you have never tried these fun sexual adventures, and he wants to see it and fantasizes about it, I think it worth the risk and in fact may make your marriage more exciting. One caution: Make sure you understand his wishes as exactly as possible, and keep him involved. Perhaps you could have him suck the cocks to make them ready for you to use. I think it is always best to involve both husband and wife in any activities to avoid jealousies.

It's a big move, but if you really want to do it come up with a plan with your husband and make sure YOU enjoy the ride.

Of course I'm going to enjoy the ride. Maybe my husband can join us and do my butt at the same time... That's would be fun. I'm still not sure when I want to do it but I'll surprise him I think..

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Any updates??

Not yet
 

Glad to know someone is still curious about my adventure. :p I have decided to try it, but not sure when or who yet. I'm not sure if I should do a Valentines suprise or some other special day suprise. Maybe just bring a guy home one day and tell my hubby that I have brought a man home to fuck me... I'm still taking suggestions of who, when and how? Also when I do it, how far should I go? Should I keep somethings sexually off limets or just let him do me anyway he wants? Still don't know...

Do It!
 

My wife (of 8 years) and I started out much like you two. After talking about it for about two years we finally did it and it was defintely a positive experience. As I had imagined I loved watching my wife fuck a black guy..and my wife enjoyed making me happy. It has brought us closer together and improved our already great sex life. My wife proved to me how much she loves me...and got a good fuck while doing it. It was a win win for both of us. That is why I recommend doing it.

How many times?
 

Sounds fine and fun... Did you do it once or has this become a regular thing? Tell me more.. or just send me a message so we can chat more.

Fun
 

If you decide to do it, you will have lots of fun. I have enjoyed many black men and I can say that the very large black dicks are wonderful.. But be sure your husband is willing to really let you do it. If things may go bad in your marriage then dont. But if you do, you are going to LOVE IT!!!!

pole
 

I voted for you to go all the way since you obviously are headed in that direction in the first place....I would also include hubby for both of your pleasure and to keep your marriage sound...no sense in living a lie when you can live the truth and hubby seems to want it as much if not more than you. I would, however, be cautious enough to either have the Bull take a blood test or use condoms...no sense in being stupid and exposing you , your husband and every other future lover to a disease...I know there are lots of people on here that frown on condoms but what the hell, it's your future....and your life. I am sure you and hubby will make the correct decision and go on to a happy and sex charged life together. Good Luck.

It was fun. We've only done it once...but that was only two weeks ago. I definitely want to do it again but don't want to push my wife too hard. This experience was more for me than for her. I was hoping she'd love it and want to do it again again and again, but I think it's too early to tell where we'll go from here.

It worked for us
 

It is a big step and you need to think very carefully before you act. Like others have said here the key is to constantly talk with your hubby all the time and every step of the way.

My hubby had the fantasy of seeing me with a black man for years before we acted on it. I had to be very sure that this was what he really wanted and what I wanted too.

Like you, I had no sexual experience before being married and so there was a curiosity about what it would be like with someone else. My hubby had had gfs before and had a better idea of what he liked/ wanted sexually.

Eventually we went into the lifestyle, but I was very careful initially that we played it along the lines of his fantasy. Once I had been with a couple of bulls I was able to exert more of my fantasy/ requirements into proceedings.

But be warned once you have tried cuckolding it does change the dynamics of the relationship. In our case it has had a very positive effect and I genuinely feel that we are closer, but we had a very strong marriage in the first place.

Also don't fool yourself or let hubby fool himself that you can stop anytime - it is addictive!

Having said all that, for me, it was/ is the best thing that I could have done. I think that I would have always regretted not exploring that side of my sexuality and maybe the frustration might have damaged my marriage at some point in the future.

As regards size - it just makes it different, personally I don't really compare as each man has his own 'style' when making love. The big ones can be a bit uncomfortable at first but they are a unique experience that shouldn't be missed.

xxHelen

Thank you. Sounds about right.

Very good advice. thank you.

It's time for a update!

I can't really offer much advise only my position. I was Blacked in high school and the image has never left my mind. It was the only time I felt the true power of cock in every way. It didn't happen but I swear I would have felt his sperms slamming into my egg had I been of time.
I have seem many black cocks in pics and I always feel worshipful toward them in every way esspecially the twotoned cocks. They look even more animalistic

Have you ever seen the Spike Lee film "Summer of Sam"? The boyfriend talks his girl into swinging and then goes crazy with jealousy. That is a risk. It is also a risk that you will lose respect for a husband that allows himself to be belittled by having someone else fuck his wife.

Having said that it could be an enhancing experience for both of you. I would suggest that if you do it, it is with someone who lives far away, doesn't know your real name and doesn't know where you live. That might help prevent jealousy after the fact. I would also suggest that your husband stays with you, and maybe hold his hand, during the act. That too might help.

Do you have a strong, trusting marriage?