Should I spend the weekend with my bull?
 

Up until now I have only met up with a bull for an evening and then come home to hubby later on.

Now my most regular bull wants me to spend the entire weekend with him. He wants us to go away on the Friday night to a hotel to meet up with a group of his old college friends and return late Sunday.

He intends to introduce me as his regular girlfriend but he wants me to keep my wedding rings on and if anyone asks I am to explain that my hubby is a cuckold and is at home with the kids.

Part of me feels hugely turned on by the idea, the other part thinks that this would change the situation from just being about sex.

This would be a big step for me and I'm not sure if I should go with it,however hubby seems to quite likes the idea.

Has anyone else done anything similar and if so how did it work out?

xxHelen

Go with your gut feeling. Your going to be fucked silly for hours. If hubby is encouraging and you feel safe with your bull, spread um wide and enjoy...:D

Sure
 

My motto has always been "life is too short to say no"....go for it.

I have no doubt that it would be 48 hour fucking session and it wouldn't surprise me if he didn't have an idea that some of his friends might join in. That part is what turns me & hubby on.

However the issue is that it would be very public. Up to now we have been very discrete and no one knows about our life style - I don't publish pictures where I can be identified.

This would be an open public statement to people who I don't know.

xxHelen

Yes, do it Helen! Then let me know how it went!! x

Live your life
 

Helen,

Of course there are possibilities being so open with your bull like that. Some could be very uncomfortable. But you do have a say in what happens while with him, and it could be that you can spread a bit of a white lie rather than the whole truth. Save what could be said for the bedroom with your husband. So go and enjoy the experience and have fun while being cautious. Living is about the moments that take your breath away and you sure sound like you & husband really want you to have the experience. Stay alert in public to protect you and your family, but at the same time enjoy it for what it is. It is possible to do both. Hope that helps...and good luck either way.

The real question is: Do you want to be gangbanged all weekend, yes or no? Dont do it you don't want this, if you do then go for it and enjoy.

Do you really think that this is the motivation behind the suggestion?

Clearly I would be naive if I didn’t think that there would be plenty of sex during the weekend and maybe he would want someone else to take part but is it solely for a GB?


Someone else has offered the idea that my bull wants the affirmation of his peers that he is a strong bull to be able to take a white wife away from her hubby for a whole weekend. That he wants to show me off as a trophy to all his friends and let them know that he can do this.

xxHelen

Thank you dreamer you have helped me put some perspective on the situation.

xxHelen

It's a couples weekend
 

I forgot to mention that this weekend is for couples and that my bulls college friends will be there with their wives/ gfs.

I'm sure that some will be single but most will have partners.

I would think its one of two things. Either he is intending to share you, or intending to show your obedience to him by having you service him in front of them, which is why he want you to wear your ring. Either way it is a risk that the friends may take advantage of something you would like to occur which is being in the service of your Black Bull versus something you do not want to occur which is internet photos.

If you decide to do it I would recommend waiting until the time has come and you’re all together in a room. Then tell all the men to take there pants off and put them in a garbage bag, and then putting the bag in a closet in the room, then put a chair in front of the closet door, and tell them all the fun stops when that door opens, or go through all their pants with your hands (trust me they won’t object) and take all their camera phones, bags, etc and again put them in a garbage bag in a closet before the fun begins.

If you tell anyone before hand it can lead to someone trying to sneak a camera in and that not the point of the fun you want to have.

Thanks cuckold_swm

If this is intended as a group session making sure there are no cameras about is a high priority.

But I'm not sure that he is that devious. We have a pretty strong bond of trust between us as we have been seeing each other for over a year. I don't think he would spring something like a group session without sounding me out first.

xxHelen

Its not the Bull I'm thinking you are worried about being devious it is the new people who are the concern so I'm only trying to give you ideas to relax what I think is your concern.

If your Bull intends to have you tell people you are married, that your husband is a cuckold, and to where you wedding ring, then I would think the situation is still about sex, and sexual natures. You will be displayed as the white woman who does what her Black Bull commands, your marriage which you are to tell people about is second compared to your service to him and his sexual needs. As such he may want to give his friends a demonstration of your service, such as having you wearing only lingerie in front of them, oral service in front of them, or more of a group sexual encounter.

Personally I would find all of what you are planning very erotic.

Yes, a very open public statement, so, it sounds to me like you really want to but you are afraid someone will recognize you, and that could cause a problem, am I right?

So you need to determine how "likely" is your being known by one of the attendee's? If there is absolutely no one that would kknow you then go for it, if there is a chance that your old "Aunt Martha" might be there, then perhaps you should go and stay in the room!

Of course if you go we expect a full report in detail, with pictures. lol

Be prepared for all the other girls and wives to be asking you about BBC when you're in the loo!

OMG that is such a huge turn on. The thought that he might want me to 'perform' in some way in front of his friends is awesome, but really scary. Not sure I could be that public though.

xxHelen

Hello notact

Yes you are right I suppose - Hubby & I really like the idea of me spending more than a few hours with my bull. Being available to him all weekend, waking up next to him in the morning and going out around town is very appealing.

The suggestion that there might be something else involved is intriguing too.

But we must be mindful of the family and the idea that I might be spotted and the information coming back home is the part that makes me hesitant.

That said the proposed weekend is going to be in the north of England several hundred miles away from where I live to the south of London, so the chance of being recognised is reduced quite a lot.

Not sure if the other girlfriends or wives would be interested - the other danger is that they might not approve and make the weekend unpleasant.

And yes I will let you know if I go - I guessed that you would want all the details, just like hubby does!

xxHelen

I can completely understand the fear of someone you know finding out. I would think the wedding ring being worn is the starter for the subject, someone will ask if you two are married or how long you have been married for and that’s when you will have to confess that you are married to someone else but are here for the pleasure of your Black Bull.

Again you can always choose to say that subject is for discussion in closed quarters and then welcome a select group of your and your Bull’s choosing back to your room. Once in your room you will feel more comfortable about the group as you have selected them and will also feel more comfortable confessing and/or submitting to your Black Bull in front of them if that’s what your Bull intends.

Any other ladies out there?
 

Are there any other ladies out there who have been in my position and can offer some advice?

The weekend is in early March so I need to make a decision soon.

Thanks

xxHelen

go for it!
 

I think that you should go for it. You and your hubby are ready and would like it. Your boyfriend has known you for a year and would not want to jeopardize this. It will go on your term: he may want to see you do things but he will not force you but protect you. It will be up to you if you like any people and for you to indicate it to your boyfriend and he will help you make it happen....it will be great and you might regret for not doing it. you trust your boyfriend so let him know before that you are doing this for him, that there could be much more for him in the future but that you expect him to protect you. have fun.....and let us know how it goes....

Weekends away are fun
 

I have spent weekends away with my bulls before. I have had a blast, its very refreshing to go away with them...something different. One I went to his high school reunion with him and was introduced to his friends there. As always make sure you are safe.

Andrea

hi Helen Mandy here i think you should go for it make it clear that you wont do anything your uncumfortable with. but otherwise just have a blast with your sexy bull .ive done it in the past myself as we had the kids it was nt easy to do it at home.so i would look forward to my nights away .have fun

Hi Andrea

Thanks for this - it's always nice to hear from someone who has actually done it, especially as your trip to the reunion sounds very similar to my proposed weekend venture.

xxHelen

There is some very sound logic here,

You are right both hubby and I really would like this to happen, but we just wanted to think it all through first before we went rushing in.

As we haven't taken our cuckolding this far before we were worried that we might not see the pitfalls but just be blinded by the excitement of the prospect.

xxHelen

Thanks Mandy

It's reassuring to know that others with children have successfully combined family and the life style.

xxHelen

As a white man I think the public aspect is an even bigger turn on. You'll be in a different location, people won't know you, & the perception of you as a public slut for black cock will make you even hotter. These people will never see you again, but for that weekend you can be out in the open about your lifestyle, I think it'd be a good thing.

let me know how it goes and i realy hope it all goes the way you want it to all the best

Hello cuckboy

This is certainly part of what turns my hubby on to the idea.

He likes the thought of (his perceived) public humiliation that he will suffer of other people knowing that his wife is at the beck and call of her BBC bull rather than him.

What does it for me is being paraded as my bulls "trophy". The trouble is I do find him difficult to resist when he tells me that he is willing to see me.

xxHelen

Thanks

I will let you all know if I go ahead.

xxHelen

I think you and your hubby will enjoy the public aspect of this and make it a regular event.

I agree with cuckboy, your husband being a cuckold is just one step in the journey, once you've taken it you look up to the next step, something new, something bolder, the higher the step the more excitement is attached to it. The ? for you two is are you ready for the next step? This journey can be the most exciting event you've ever taken. I know it will....go for it.

Thinking
 

I got to thinking about your question yesterday, came up with two ideas.

First, since you have a concern about running into someone you know there, you could change your hair color, wear a headscarf and big sun glasses, that would allow you to check out the other faces, once comfortable, off with the glasses and scarf, add BBC and have fun!

Second, have hubby travel with you but seperately(adjoining room maybe?), then you could appear as either one's woman as the occasion dictates. If there are no problems on the trip, the only ones who know he was even there are the three of you.

Chuck

of course he wants to show you off as his white trophy, as he should, he wants his friends to knwo that his littel white girl is married but loves lack cock and he wants all his frioends to know you love HIS black cock

Thanks wht4blk

You are right of course this is the next step and does up the anti some what. The prospect is very exciting for both of us, there is no doubt of that.

xxHelen

Yet more good advice from you - thanks.

The dark glasses are definately a viable idea, not sure about the change of hair colour though.

The slight problem with having hubby there is that we don't have anyone to look after the kids.

xxHelen

I'm just trying to get you properly shagged(I think you call it) all week end. My advice is at a price! I want a pair of those (BBC) cum stained panties when your week end is over. (Told ya'll I was a pervert) lol

Decision made!
 

Ok

My bull (J) phoned up last night to find out whether I was going to go with him for the weekend or not.

He spoke to hubby for about 10 minutes. All I could hear was hubby saying "I understand", "yes of course", absolutely" and phrases like that. Then the call ended.

Hubby told me that my lover wasn't very pleased that we had taken so long to come to a decision and had reminded him that it was he who was helping hubby out by taking good care of his wife's needs in the bedroom dept. He also said that hubby should remember who owned my pussy now.

Hubby said that there was no question that I should go and I needed to ring J back to tell him I would be coming.

I rang J back and he has given me some very specific instructions before we go:


1. Not to have sex or masturbate from now until the weekend
2. To wear my wedding rings
3. To tell anyone who asks that my cuckold hubby is at home with the kids and knows I am with my black lover
4. To wear skirts or dresses but no jeans or trousers
5. To wear stockings or hold ups at all times
6. To remember that I belong to J for the duration

Thanks to all those who have helped with advice, I can't believe how excited we both are at the prospect.

For those interested I go on 5-7th March.

xxHelen

Yes-yes-yes
 

Hi Helen,,,,Lori here out in wondeful Arizona.....I am a 43 year old married white women who was given the opportunity of a lifetime to become the full time mistress to my BBC lover. I have been in the relationship for 5 years, and 3 years ago I agreed to become a mistress at the urging of my loving husband.

My BBC lover used to live 30 miles from me, and while he lived close, he would take me when he wanted, and on many occasions he would spend the entire night.

Now my BBC lover has moved across the country due to his business,,,,and to make sure he is happy, I am happy, and my husband is happy I now travel once a month to be with my BBC lover. I catch a plane on a Friday morning, and mid afternoon I am in the bed of my BBC lover. We get the opportunity to spend the entire weekend, and sometimes long weekends, together doing what we do best,,,,loving and enjoying each other.

Of course by the time I get back on the plane for the flight home by pussy is so sore I can hardly stand the long flight home. Once home, my husband knows he will not be getting any pussy for at least a week, but he does such a good job sucking and licking my swollen pussy back to health.

SO....you do what will make you, your bull, and your husband happy, and be sure to let us know how it works out for you....all the best.....Lori

Yes you should. You know you care about your bull enough to want to please him. I have in the past, and have always came home to hubby. I get the size and sexual prowess I need from my bulls and the security I need from my hubby.

Leave husband at home, I have been in this situation several times (as a Dominant who likes cuckolding submissive females) and from what I have read, the dynamics of the situation will work perfectly with him at home thinking of whats happening and getting very hot about it too!.