
07-28-2020, 10:50 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 16
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Had a Scare Once
My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for a while and have kids together. I use an iud for birth control and normally go bareback with my lovers. One guy I was seeing a few times a week for a couple of months and he always came in me a couple times a night. At the time, my husband was very busy with work and the two of us only had sex maybe once or twice a week tops. Needless to say I was fucking my boyfriend much more than my husband. Fast forward a couple of months and I had gone almost 6 weeks without having my period (abnormal cycles are the usual with an iud). It wasn't until I started to feel morning sickness symptoms that I thought maybe my birth control failed and I was pregnant.
I told hubby and we had the most intense, passionate sex ever. But after the glow wore off we started to discuss the logistic of if I was really carrying my lover's child. We went through all the scenarios: Do we say we adopted? No, we have too many friend's and family that would see me pregnant. Do we say she went to the sperm bank? No, why would we do that if hubby already successfully impregnated me before. We ended up figuring we would have to own up to it. Of course we would say it was the result of a one time threesome or something, so I didn't look like a total slut, but there are a few of my friends that would know the truth. To be honest that was a huge turn on for both hubby and I and we fucked like rabbits for the next two weeks. I ended up going to the gyno to be sure one way or the other and turns out I wasn't pregnant. Which to many people's point on here is a good thing, but if it were to happen, I am glad to know that at least we have talked about it and are in agreement how we would handle the situation.
For all the people saying that the child would be an outcast, I disagree. I do have friends with biracial children and they do fine. Sure they have the same challenges as any POC, but they aren't ostracized like people are saying on this post. If I were to ever have a child from a man other than my husband, I know for a fact the child would still be raised in a very loving, and stable home.
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