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[bradw_scorpio]

My wife is 42yo, blonde hair, blue eyes, and a little "thick". She's 5'11", 220lbs, 38c tits and a big ass. In college, she was about 140lbs, played some college b-ball, and she dated and fucked some black men.

I, on the other hand, have had much more drastic weight gain and my libido is shot. I have been unable to satisfy her with my dick in over a year. She has to rely on toys, or my fingers and mouth. Lately, she has been so disgusted with me she won't even let me touch her. I'm working on the weight, but it is a slow process and I don't want to wait another year to satisfy her.

Is she open to swinging? Maybe. She has threatened me about going outside the marriage if I don't turn things around. We did actually have a mfm 3-some when we were dating, but before we got engaged. When we last talked about that event, some time ago, she shrugged her shoulders and said she wasn't interested in doing anything like that again as we are now married.

I have two motives for getting her to go black again. One, to give her something to satisfy her. Two, to see it for myself as I think the idea of her having ever had black lovers is very hot.

We enjoy Chicago and I would love to take her there for a weekend, take her to a quiet bar, and "happen" to have her meet and be seduced by a black man (or two...or three). If nothing else, it may result in us having dialogue over the prospect of her "going black again" if she doesn't outright do it that weekend.

If handled right, I could easily see us making the 90 minute drive to Chicago very frequently.

Any thoughts or suggestions from anyone more experienced in this? And yes, I am a coward in that I won't directly broach this subject with her nor will I tell her of my interest in ir relationships. That is why I really need to get this out and in front of her, but it needs a subtle hand.

Thanks.

[jessicasubcd]

As a real life submissive cuckold I think you are dreaming if you think you can do this without talking about your feelings and desires. You have to be a bit bold. Watch interracial porn together. Suck her pussy its the only thing you have to offer anymore obviously. Get her a black dildo. Go to a swingers meet. Get her to open an account here. Do something. Hoping and wishing silently while driving to the big city will not likely get you very far.

[cuckbobby1]

My wife explained to me her needs adn desires and she confessed of recent experience with black co-worker. She wants to see him again.
We both know I am worthless in the bedroom... So I have encouraged her to see him again. She said she will, when she wants to.

[jbopen]

We started the same way. Today I am her cuck and slut. Both admire the BBC...

[MauiChief]

Have her naked in bed with you as you both watch a HOT Interracial Video. We both know she's be wet. Bring it up at that moment.

[bradw_scorpio]

Originally Posted by jessicasubcd

As a real life submissive cuckold I think you are dreaming if you think you can do this without talking about your feelings and desires. You have to be a bit bold. Watch interracial porn together. Suck her pussy its the only thing you have to offer anymore obviously. Get her a black dildo. Go to a swingers meet. Get her to open an account here. Do something. Hoping and wishing silently while driving to the big city will not likely get you very far.

Thanks for the advice. I took a few steps forward yesterday. I brought up the fact that with our son graduating next month, we will soon have an empty nest and asked what she thought that was going to mean for our relationship.

She responded, rather bluntly, that it means she will have some freedom to go outside our marriage to find sex if i'm still not able to perform. I told her that I am working on my weight and making some progress, but may not be ready in the next few months. I asked her if that would make a difference in her mind. She told me that she loves me, but she's not attracted to me the way I am and she wants me to support her needs.

I told her I would and that maybe we should take a trip to Chicago in early June. She thought that sounded like a good place to start.

So I think that sounds like the open door I need. Any one interested in meeting us/her?

[foxyriley]

If your thinking about trying anything I would recommend couples choice on the south side of chicago, it's a swing club, fun pressure free place. Saturday nights is couples only friday nights have different themes, BBW, single males (always BBC in that crowd) etc.. Just check their website to see what the fri theme is

[bradw_scorpio]

Originally Posted by foxyriley

If your thinking about trying anything I would recommend couples choice on the south side of chicago, it's a swing club, fun pressure free place. Saturday nights is couples only friday nights have different themes, BBW, single males (always BBC in that crowd) etc.. Just check their website to see what the fri theme is

Thanks! I'll do that!