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[linkme4real]

As far as I'm concern when you want to meet a married woman the husband involvement and participation is important to some extend ,
In most cases the women that I met I normally asked to communicate with the hubby, I mean if you want to fuck a man's wife show some respect to him.
This has turn out to be very rewarding to me in many ways .
I was met a woman from this site and after many emails and phone calls , I then asked about her hubby ,
After I talked to the hubby , he arranged the day,time and venue where we will meet , and about 30 minutes after our meeting I went to the restroom when I came back, the hubby told me that the wife says she like me as a person but wouldn't want to take it further sexually, he was full of regret cos he said that he really wanted me to be with her .
Two weeks , after I had forgotten about them , I received a called from hubby that he has succeeded in convincing the wife to take it further with me .
I fucked her anytime, anywhere for one year !

[kenthestud]

...I'd like to share my perspective.

I've been in the lifestyle for almost 14 years. For about 7 of those, my relationship has been open with my wife and I. Here's the deal we have. She's not worried about me that she wants to act as a filter for people I play with. However when it comes to people she plays with, we both participate in choosing the people she wants to play with though she really leads the process and I just provide input. Once he's in, I may watch them go at it. Most of the time she does what she wants. Currently she has a "boyfriend" who we're both comfortable with so they do their own thing.

Now my experience when it comes to couples, 95% of the time, the husband acts as a filter or participates. I fully expect that as it's a couples activity most of the time as they both get turned on by doing something like this. If the husband is present (and even if he's not), it's like porn for him. It's rare that a woman reaches out to me without the husband being present or involved. If hubby wants to spend his time chatting with me about my experiences or what I would do to his wife (or "wife") then I'm out. If I can't talk to her after trading more than three or four e-mails, I'm done.

Hope that helps.

[keepit100SouthFL]

Offers and demands? When you see yourself as the prize you don't see it that way so it's all subjective, I know some guys will bend and jump thru hoops to get some sex from couples acting as gatekeepers (act this way, dress this way, be this body type, must be well hung, etc. Ppl have their preferences of course but will throw others under the bus while expecting certain things) but that's on those black single males. It'll end up being a stalemate in most convos if the vibe and respect level is off on both sides so I usually decline. It overwhelmingly doesn't work out: they want you to act a certain way, they wanna see your dick, they don't want YOU to be pushy but It's okay for them to be and other issues. From certain ppls perspective usually the single guy = bad guy in those encounters. Add black to it and well....

[keepit100SouthFL]

I do see some others guys get it after reading past replies so I see I am not alone and it isn't a perception issue.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by keepit100SouthFL

It overwhelmingly doesn't work out: they want you to act a certain way, they wanna see your dick, they don't want YOU to be pushy but It's okay for them to be and other issues. From certain ppls perspective usually the single guy = bad guy in those encounters. Add black to it and well....

You make some valid points. One time years ago I met with this couple, and the husband was like he was directing a f'in movie or something . . . do this, do that, this way, then that . . . fuck that. Occasionally you will get a couple that wants to call all the shots. They figure they can because they got the pussy. Had one tell me I had to agree to being videoed or no pussy . . . yeah, well like Miss Alley said I'm not "thirsty" . . . wasn't thirsty then and ain't thirsty now, so I told the husband what he could do with his demands. Put 'um in the same place where he could put that camcorder Single guys in the lifestyle are somebody too.

[keepit100SouthFL]

Originally Posted by ThickNiggaDick

You make some valid points. One time years ago I met with this couple, and the husband was like he was directing a f'in movie or something . . . do this, do that, this way, then that . . . fuck that. Occasionally you will get a couple that wants to call all the shots. They figure they can because they got the pussy. Had one tell me I had to agree to being videoed or no pussy . . . yeah, well like Miss Alley said I'm not "thirsty" . . . wasn't thirsty then and ain't thirsty now, so I told the husband what he could do with his demands. Put 'um in the same place where he could put that camcorder Single guys in the lifestyle are somebody too.

Right. So that's where the disconnect is usually, but of course what one (black) guy won't do another one of course will and they're like the trained seal doing whatever for some white girl sex and acceptance. I'm of course not saying all couples/men in couples swinging are like that towards singles but way too many are and I'm def not the one. Even though you're the black guy you bowing down to their/his demands makes you a bitch no matter how much of a fake dom thug tough guy act you put up. Cooperation gotta be there or it's adios early.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by keepit100SouthFL

Right. So that's where the disconnect is usually, but of course what one (black) guy won't do another one of course will and they're like the trained seal doing whatever for some white girl sex and acceptance.

And that my friend is what we call some thirsty ass bruthas. Like black men in a Barbie Cummings porno flick . . . nuthin' but "props" to a white girl!

Note: For you white folk who don't know, "thirsty" = desperate.

[BlkmanSweden]

Originally Posted by ThickNiggaDick

And that my friend is what we call some thirsty ass bruthas. Like black men in a Barbie Cummings porno flick . . . nuthin' but "props" to a white girl!

Note: For you white folk who don't know, "thirsty" = desperate.

Kind of reminds me of that film called 'Ghost Ship' where that white woman ghost led the black dude to his death

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by BlkmanSweden

Kind of reminds me of that film called 'Ghost Ship' where that white woman ghost led the black dude to his death

But I recall yelling and screaming at the guy. DON'T do it. DON'T fall for the lies but of course he didn't listen. Lol. I mean really!?!?! Haha BlkSwed, never actually thought about him being thirsty. Smh. That was extreme thirsty. Death by thirsty. Lol.


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Smooches 💋 for our TND as always love your informative post. Informative and forceful (such a turn on) Nope not blowing smoke up your ass. .lol. tis the truth.

[BlkmanSweden]

Originally Posted by keepit100SouthFL

Offers and demands? When you see yourself as the prize you don't see it that way so it's all subjective, I know some guys will bend and jump thru hoops to get some sex from couples acting as gatekeepers (act this way, dress this way, be this body type, must be well hung, etc. Ppl have their preferences of course but will throw others under the bus while expecting certain things) but that's on those black single males. It'll end up being a stalemate in most convos if the vibe and respect level is off on both sides so I usually decline. It overwhelmingly doesn't work out: they want you to act a certain way, they wanna see your dick, they don't want YOU to be pushy but It's okay for them to be and other issues. From certain ppls perspective usually the single guy = bad guy in those encounters. Add black to it and well....

This happened to a black guy, a cuck let him shag his wife few times until he fell for her and then the cuck came into the picture and wanted a piece of the blackguy and if he can't get the blackguy he aint letting him sex his wife so he had to concede and let the cuck do the business on him, he is under the cucks control now