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[linkme4real]

I was just think and wondering if any of the wonderful ladies here have ever end up falling in love with their black lover , even though the initial plan was to be just fuck buddy?

[BlkmanSweden]

Originally Posted by linkme4real

I was just think and wondering if any of the wonderful ladies here have ever end up falling in love with their black lover , even though the initial plan was to be just fuck buddy?

you wont get a reply on this one, i did a thread like this a few months ago...not one reply and thread got deleted also. They don't want to hear this kind of stuff!

[SpectreFox]

There was a thread similar to this a long time ago, but I can't find it anywhere. I remember one member saying his wife fell in love with her lover and he found it exciting. He said the lover ended up breaking her heart and he had to console her.

More stories would be kind of interesting to hear.

[Ronnie 22]

I have never "fallen in love" with a black lover. But on occasion loved the fucking so much I had to kiss him hard and kissed his cock before he left me to hubby's amusement. Usually I went for following up sex but it wasn't love.

[taj737]

my wife has.... she is a totally different woman around one of her bbc bulls......

she admits that she has fallen in love with him... but in a different way... as he can barely support himself .. let alone another person....

In life he is a looser... but does make good love to my wife and for that we have him....

[SteelRat39]

There is no such thing as romantic love. It's just a chemical reaction in the brain. No different than eating chocolate. Then again, eating chocolate can be habit forming.

[cmeinfl1]

Originally Posted by SteelRat39

There is no such thing as romantic love. It's just a chemical reaction in the brain. No different than eating chocolate. Then again, eating chocolate can be habit forming.

Hey Steelrat... I'm sorry to see that you think there is no such thing as a romantic love between a white woman and her black lover.. After knowing personally a number of white women who have fallen in love with their black lovers, I'm surprised there haven't been any others here that don't admit it.. Although it might have been just sex at the beginning, it didn't take long for me to figure out that I started to have feelings for my black lover and the more we saw each other, the stronger these feelings developed. I was married when it all began, but not trying to make excuses, but my then husband was cheating on me long before I ever thought about dating a black guy.. but once I had my first black experience, I knew right away it was a life-changing experience for me and not long after, divorced my husband. That was more than 20 years ago and my black lover and I are still together,.. ln fact, my black lover and I are living together and have been for a number of years now. It might also interest you to know that my best girlfriend is involved in a relationship with a black guy very similar to mine and I know of a number of other girls who have followed this same path also.. So believe it or not, it's not just for the sex or "chemical reaction to the brain" as you called it.

[andi38]

Originally Posted by SteelRat39

There is no such thing as romantic love. It's just a chemical reaction in the brain. No different than eating chocolate. Then again, eating chocolate can be habit forming.

Apologies to have to differ, but....

"just" a chemical reaction in the brain?

What emotion or analytical thought or dream that changes the world isn't the result of "just" a chemical reaction in the brain. Chemical reactions in the brain are as real as it gets!

[JandGinSD]

It might not have been in the plans, but this is an omnipresent possibility throughout the lifestyle - swinging, hotwifery, cuckoldry, open marriages, ... Every new friend or lover is a unique indivudal and the social dynamics can go in many directions among the participants within such ensembles. The question really comes down to whether one's wife is capable of a polyamorous arrangement or can only tolerate serial monogamy (like the woman who marries, divorces, marries, divorces, ...). Some women can treat their lovers' love like the love they have for their children. A second ches and the first born's love from his or her mother is indiminshed. Similarly, there is not a scarcity of love when it comes to her penetrative lovers. The new bull can become a focus of tremndous sincere love while the husband loses no stature or affection in the process. How rare this is really is the consequence of our social paradigm. The sharing and independence, when rationalized and brought to fruition is extremely personally liberating. Jealousy is the consequence of playing an ownership claim on a spouse rather than making him or her a life companion, boosting what satisfies his or her life too as part of one's own. But too many others cannot grasp compersion and are overcome by social order and guilt or jealousy. It comes down to hwho all three in the situation are as individuals.

[ozjules4u]

Originally Posted by linkme4real

I was just think and wondering if any of the wonderful ladies here have ever end up falling in love with their black lover , even though the initial plan was to be just fuck buddy?

Every time !!