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View Poll Results: FOR couples: Do you have a live-in lover?
Yes, the wife/gf has a live-in black lover. 18 31.03%
Yes, we both have a live-in black lover. 0 0%
Yes, the husband/bf has a live-in black lover. 1 1.72%
Yes, we have a live-in lover but s/he is not black. 1 1.72%
No, but the wife/gf has one or more black lover(s) other than the partner. 18 31.03%
No, but we both have one or more black lover(s) other than the partner. 4 6.90%
No, but the husband/bf has one or more black lover(s) other than the partner. 2 3.45%
No, but wife/gf, husband/bf or both have one or more lover(s) on the side who is/are not black. 5 8.62%
Nope, none of us has any lovers other than the partner. 9 15.52%
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Old 09-26-2014, 08:50 PM
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Notice your tag lines mentions poly but yet you use the term "lover" in question and poll. So my question to you is why does the blk man have to be a just a lover, why can't he be an equal within the whole relationship?

I actually love poly relationships.

Think you're hit on something Mustang that could lead to an interesting post. Especially if a woman has two lovers, maybe one of them she's married to. How does everyone set the ground rules and what is expected from everyone.
Hopefully you'll add something about your situation as well. Looking forward this.
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Old 09-30-2014, 07:58 AM
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Think you're hit on something Mustang that could lead to an interesting post. Especially if a woman has two lovers, maybe one of them she's married to. How does everyone set the ground rules and what is expected from everyone.
Hopefully you'll add something about your situation as well. Looking forward this.


As much as I would love to share, really don't want my RT getting all twisted with others fantasies.. Butttttt you can ask me all about it next skype visit we have.

Maybe I can share my beliefs just not my personal experiences.


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Old 10-01-2014, 12:27 AM
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Mustang Alley, you are quite correct. First my wife only had three miscarriages over the years and it was her boss "Pete" a white man that also lived with us for about 2 years that was the boss that she also lost a baby with. I got he and Heywood mixed up, because they both had lived with us and she had become pregnant by both of them and in both instances a test was requested because there was a question of fatherhood and in all three instances the man involved wanted to know and they each paid any costs that were incurred. And just for the record the third was my boss, he had been married twice and had three girls with those two women and was very disappointed that this one was a boy.

Sometimes I'm not as careful as I need to be when I'm remembering these events that occurred in our marriage. Her diary/journal is full of her life experiences with me and the other men that she enjoyed. I will try to be more accurate in the future when I post about our "shared" wife lifestyle. I actually appreciate the fact that you are closely checking what I post about, I only want to tell things accurately when I relate these events. GTR
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