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Old 12-15-2014, 03:54 AM
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Originally Posted by mywayintermsofsex View Post
Unfortunately, i am not really sure about the situation you describe.

As notrub42 said, "we all have pasts".

So, is it something she did before you first met or your relationship got serious? Or is she going on with it still?

Also, is the picture you saw something you can get past, or is it too much for you to handle (even if it was some activity of her past, before you)?

If this is too tough for you to handle there are bad chances your relationship will ever turn out fine. Otherwise it is, like you said, something from her past, and there are chances for you to deal with it.

IMO the question is, did she purposely hide this away from you (that would raise doubt in her trustworth), or is it something she wanted to tell you at some point, but was not quite sure how to go about it?

How did you come across this link? Did she leave her notebook or mobile with that page open, so that you could easily find and access it? Maybe it was her intent that you find it because she had no other idea how to tell you.

And what was your (first) reaction? You didn`t say anything about this. Did you approach her about it (talk to her or get mad at her)?

Anyhow, adult entertainment is not immoral and doesn`t say anything about a person`s social or intellectual abilities! So this does not automatically mean in her private life she will have a bad influence on anyone.

BTW, IMHO it is a bad idea to choose a partner just because she will make a good parent for your child. First, your relationship with her shall be meaningful and you should have the feeling that there is a conjoint future possible with her. This provided, if your daughter gets along well with her, it`s even better.

Think about what seems best for the three of you both with your brain and with your heart.
Good luck with your dicision!

With this woman, she's a bbw, and she is a feeder, and she asked if I would be ok with her putting a little more weight on, which I told her that would be fine, as long as it doesn't begin to jeopardize her health.

I clicked on her profile page, which is on another site, and came across the link, and saw her in a video giving some dude dome.

She lives in florida, and i'm in Canada, but we've been talking for quite a long time, and we were both into each other, and I was into her brains, before her sexy phat booty, ( Just for the record )

She intentionally did not tell me about the video, and if i'm going to be with a woman, and put a ring on her finger, entrust my daughters well being, safety with this woman, doesn't that make me just as bad as the father of a young lady?
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