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I hooked up with a guy once who lived in another state. I was on vacation and we ended up fucking and then exchanging numbers. We texted a lot, mostly sexting at first, but the messaging kept getting more personal and we really got to know each other. We ended up skyping each other quit a bit too and I really looked forward to talking to him. Went on a trip to see him, just a long weekend and the sex was amazing, but just hanging out with him was really great too. Needless to say, I was falling for him. Hubby suspected and we had a few discussions about it. I knew I would never leave my husband, but I also knew I wanted to spend more time with this guy. Turns out, the guy had to be in Mexico for an extended period of time. He asked me if I wanted to come down and stay with him for a couple of weeks. The timing was actually perfect for my husband and I and he a little reluctantly agreed that I could go.

Plans were made, plane tickets purchased, etc. One night I was talking to my lover on the phone and he got really upset at me over something very trivial, so much so, I can't even remember what it was. However, the fact that we had such a big fight was a big wake up call for me. Arguments are part of relationships, and I understand that, but this lead me to realize that I didn't want another "relationship", besides what I had with hubby. Basically, the glamour and honeymoon phase with this guy abruptly ended. I cancelled all my plans and the trip and stopped talking to him. It was sad and I would get emotional over it every once in a while, but I also realized that it was just puppy love.

Over the years I have had only a small handful of guys I see more than a few times. As soon as one starts to get to familiar, it is a sign to end it. One husband is enough to deal with, I don't need two or more.

TL/DR - Fell in love once, wasn't worth it, now just in it for the good dick.