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[longtoes1]

I was wondering if the wives that have gone black get emotionally attached to their lovers or keep it on a strictly sexual level ?

[maryihi]

While emotions are involved of course we are trying this more for the physical activity. Married and secure for so long will never jeopardize what we have.

[Rodh]

Although I love and enjoy my guys when they are with me...I know that t h ey are not looking for anything but fucking and I respect that. That's really all that I need and we are all fine with this arrangement!

[florida hubby]

Strictly sexual although I do consider the ones I have had as long term fuck buddies to be very close friends....Becky

[gatorrdw]

My wife told me that she loved the 2 men that had lived with us and my boss in a different way than she loved me. She was terribly upset when my boss passed away and told me that she really missed Pete (her boss that lived with us) and again when Heywood (The black man that lived with us). At each of these intervals she would tell me that she wasn't sure that she wanted any other men in her life - just me. But a little time would pass and usually someone would ask her to dance at a nightclub or a party or someone she worked with would relight the flame and she had to have them. A lot of the men she got involved with were just for her own sexual pleasure and she had little or no emotional attachment. GTR

[richierich29407]

My wife and I play for fun only. She has never gotten emotionally attached with any of the playmates. She love it that I let her explore her desires.

[Mickle]

My wife had fallen for one of her boyfriends a few years ago, he was a three time a week guy, taking her out to parties, sharing her with his friend, she thought it was the real thing, she asked him if she could move in with him !
He laughed at her and said" you are a slut , only good for fucking thats it" she was heartbroken, crying solidly for a few days off and on. She realised that he was right. She has been happier with her new B/Fs since.

[blondeforreal_2]

Originally Posted by longtoes1

I was wondering if the wives that have gone black get emotionally attached to their lovers or keep it on a strictly sexual level ?

for me I admit to an emotional attachment-actually I was falling in love I think-even though I knew it couldnt be

[Freya24432]

In general, I think women tend to get more emotionally attached to a lover than men but every women is different. I cheat on my husband and he cheats on me so I guess we have an open marriage with a don't tell and don't ask policy. Over the years I have had a number of lovers and currently have two that I see on a regular basis. For me it is just about the sex. I am not in love with either but I do consider them to be good friends and fun companions.

[kenthestud]

I had one woman get really attached to me to the point where I had to cut it off as it was really, really uncomfortable. It was clearly no longer about sex.