We have been married ten years the first 5 I was a cheater....

First of all, I would NEVER ask my husband for his approval. It is a personnal decision that I alone make. It being alright has little to do with it-cheating just happens

Just came across this thread and find the comments most interesting. Everyone has very valid points which expose the complexities surrounding infidelity. The simple fact underlying this issue is that not most of us cannot escape the desires (mental, physical, emotional) to be with other people whether, we're married or not. We are all attracted to others in various ways and often that attraction leads to thoughts that lead to desires that then lead to action.

The risks that so many of you have eluded to typically are a huge part of why people cheat, so I believe the risks become overwhelmed by those desires. When you find yourself craving something so much that it overtakes you in every way, you will find ways to have it...or temptation will provide a way for you to have it. It's the law of attraction and it works perfectly.

As emotional beings we can always find justification for what we want...even in the face of great damage, to ourselves and those around us.

Is it worth the risks? Only those who ponder the decision this decision can answer this question.

Can't stop her
 

I have realized that if I don't get involved, she will get her "fix" without me! To her, good looking black men are like candy, and to watch her suck and play with a hard black dick.
you would think that it tasted like candy! The noises that she makes when she was him to cum makes me hard too!

I have trouble with erections, and that is why we started experimenting, and I had no idea
that her desires were so strong. She really works hard at keeping her figure and appearances
in top shape to attract the men that she likes now. She has always been a little heavy in the but, but it is well round shaped, and now she knows that black men like that, so it makes her feel more attractive.

We have been to a few bars in town, and she has told me about a few men that she might
like to be with, but I think that it is a bad idea to do this in our own town.

I guess the question is would you want to be cheated on and to remember what you do in the dark always comes to light.:)

the will sa yes wen she se the size ov is cock wen she is drunk she will fuck all night

in my deep personal opinion
happen to me
I toll hubby that he didn't fuck or touch me enough
for months
I toll him that I will look for someone to finish the job
I ADVISED HIM
many times
then I'll start fucking around
he saw one video on my cell
fucking a BIG 12" cock
he was so furious
he left home for a week
and he came back asking for forgiveness
he took ALL the he guilt
now we still together ( married)
he fuck me more
but I still enjoying BBC
off course I'm super extra care full not to be caught on the acct
and we are happy Luke that
he don't ask I don't tell
xoxoxoxo
riparian !!!!!!

your a bad girl

Rhetorical question
 

You should honestly reconsider your priorities and question who and why your married your partner before you cheat...

Cheat or non cheat
 

If it's with another white guy, yeah then it's cheat, but with a Black guy it's ok because a BBC should have the right to any white (married?) pussy