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[florida hubby]

Originally Posted by hooked100

I never had anyone stay over at my place. I've stayed at a hotel or at his but our home is where the family is and this we keep separate.

This was how I felt till the kids grew up and moved away. Now my luvers can stay or go whichever is best for them....Becky

[stevn69]

Originally Posted by stinabelle

Personally I love a man to sleep over in my bed with me I hate sleeping alone so its a benefit to me if they agree. However I also feel its a benefit in that if they sleep over I am avail at all times while they are here so it wont be just a fuck its more of a commitment in some ways.

Yes I can see how it can be more of a commitment and sounds like you are like my Kellie needing the emotional attachment with her lovers and not just a quick screw.

[stevn69]

Originally Posted by fun1inpa

Yeah maybe the spare room is the best idea. She can go in and come back to me anytime she is done. When we met him at the hotel, I stayed the first round but also left and gave them an hour of privacy. It was hot knowing they had alone time and she even surprised me with a short video they sent me. It's a hot idea for her to be sleeping next to him but maybe we will wait on that for another time. But who knows, there might not be much sleeping goin on at all. I'll let you know how the evening goes.

Interested in how things turned out. Thinking of myself here for when this could arise for us.

[CUCK WATCHER]

For us, our home is for family, it's a boundary we set from the get go. When my wife first got into doing it with other guys, we always went to a motel / hotel. We didn't do it very often, so, paying for a night was no big deal. Since then, things have changed a bit and she is a relationship with one guy. He's divorced and lives alone. When she does sleep over, it's a his place. I trust him and she's a big girl, so, I feel comfortable about her being with him.

[Mustang Alley]

Kudos to you for trusting her and him.

Originally Posted by CUCK WATCHER

For us, our home is for family, it's a boundary we set from the get go. When my wife first got into doing it with other guys, we always went to a motel / hotel. We didn't do it very often, so, paying for a night was no big deal. Since then, things have changed a bit and she is a relationship with one guy. He's divorced and lives alone. When she does sleep over, it's a his place. I trust him and she's a big girl, so, I feel comfortable about her being with him.

[MFMCouple]

For us if its someone we know or a regular, we insist she should be taken as often as possible in our marital bed.
Its the place most comfortable to her and myself and its also where we both agreed its the proper place for them to mate. Its not as warm and cozy in the guest room bed. its a guest room. We don't go in there often and if we are already comfortable enough inviting someone to stay to have sex with her for the weekend or a night, we should invite them into our bed.
It also adds to the kink because our bedroom warm, has pictures of family, its got our personal stuff, our bed is comfortable and inviting and we can all sleep together in the same bed since its larger than the guest room mattress. She prefers me to be close when her lover is there. Both my ex-wife and gf have a thing about me witnesses and seeing them mate and also being there to help serve/assist if needed during or afterwards. Starting a shower for them, wiping them down or just being near to hold and comfort her during/afterwards. The sleep over is an important and necessary step for everyone to get the cuckold desensitized to them mating frequently and openly whenever and wherever but also for the hotwife to get know and bond with her lover/bf so they become closer and more at ease with each other but also push boundaries and have fun. They both want to feel guilt free and happy not worrying about the cucks feelings/interfering if they want to have sex on the couch or kitchen and the sleep over is where that starts. My ex-wife realized after the first weekend stay how good it was for us both and how relieved she was that it was ok for her to be half naked the whole time and enjoy mating on the couch next to me at times, them both naked and being able to talk to each other and me during it. The sleep over is where the bull gets confidence to be more dominate and daring as well since he is in the door already, he may feel more comfortable coming over to visit too