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[fun1inpa]

This upcoming Friday will be the first time we are having one of her playmates sleep over. Every time we have played it was always just sex, maybe a little bit of drinking and hanging out. I know he wants to sleep in bed with her, she's still undecided. He is coming from about two hours away and wants to enjoy some drinking without having to worry about driving drunk afterwards. Last time he visited, it was in a hotel room so he just stayed there but we offered to let him stay so he doesn't need to waste money on a room. He's a great guy and we are very comfortable with him, just wondering if others have the guy stay the nights and if so, does he sleep in the bed with her? We do have a spare room but not sure who will be using it yet.

[fxvalleycpl]

This is just us but that is a boundary we have in place. Nobody, man or woman gets between the sheets in the master bedroom with either of us. We have the possibility of the same scenario coming up. My wife's favorite guy might stay with us. We will probably be all fucked out so the topic of sleeping won't be a big deal.He will stay in the guest room, but I told the wife it would be hot if she went in there after I fell asleep. We'll see what happens.

[Mustang Alley]

Exactly as fxvalley said^ some things are better left alone. Guest room is just fine that way if there's any hard/hate feelings later on it won't be in/on the shared bed but just an extra room in the house. You can always burn that bed or board that room up lol.

If there's any doubt then she should just stay at the hotel over night with him. That's the best and easiest way!!! Then you can hate all you want on the hotel, don't advise burning that bed tho. lol

[fun1inpa]

Yeah maybe the spare room is the best idea. She can go in and come back to me anytime she is done. When we met him at the hotel, I stayed the first round but also left and gave them an hour of privacy. It was hot knowing they had alone time and she even surprised me with a short video they sent me. It's a hot idea for her to be sleeping next to him but maybe we will wait on that for another time. But who knows, there might not be much sleeping goin on at all. I'll let you know how the evening goes.

[stevn69]

Originally Posted by fun1inpa

Yeah maybe the spare room is the best idea. She can go in and come back to me anytime she is done. When we met him at the hotel, I stayed the first round but also left and gave them an hour of privacy. It was hot knowing they had alone time and she even surprised me with a short video they sent me. It's a hot idea for her to be sleeping next to him but maybe we will wait on that for another time. But who knows, there might not be much sleeping goin on at all. I'll let you know how the evening goes.

Interested in how things turned out. Thinking of myself here for when this could arise for us.

[CUCK WATCHER]

For us, our home is for family, it's a boundary we set from the get go. When my wife first got into doing it with other guys, we always went to a motel / hotel. We didn't do it very often, so, paying for a night was no big deal. Since then, things have changed a bit and she is a relationship with one guy. He's divorced and lives alone. When she does sleep over, it's a his place. I trust him and she's a big girl, so, I feel comfortable about her being with him.

[blackduke]

This is actually a great topic. If the couple and I are really close I love sleeping over. If we don't know each other that well then I don't. That's if they agree of course. The sleepover thing varies from couple to couple and whatever their decisions, I usually accept it. I usually go to their place but on the rare occasions that they come to my apartment (maybe because of kids) and they want to sleepover I usually say yes as long as we are comfortable with each other, of course. I use to know a couple back when I was in the service who only allow me to sleep over when the husband was out of town on business because the wife hated to sleep alone and we were close friends so there was no problem there. My main point is that it all depends on the comfort level.

[stinabelle]

Personally I love a man to sleep over in my bed with me I hate sleeping alone so its a benefit to me if they agree. However I also feel its a benefit in that if they sleep over I am avail at all times while they are here so it wont be just a fuck its more of a commitment in some ways.

[hooked100]

I never had anyone stay over at my place. I've stayed at a hotel or at his but our home is where the family is and this we keep separate.

[AceDePick]

I obviously depends on your relationship. My partner is comfortable with them sleepin on our bed. Generally, I have 2 guys staying overnight and there is no space for him. He goes and sleeps on the sofa or with our room-mate. Since there is no wedlock things are much easier, I think.