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[TallBlondeWrestlingFan]

Not for me.

[HotHo45]

I have been called racial names during sex from a white guy, it turned me on. Its during sex, I take nothing literally. Just like being called slut, whore, etc. during sex. Some people take some things to seriously and literally.

[florida hubby]

Originally Posted by HotHo45

I have been called racial names during sex from a white guy, it turned me on. Its during sex, I take nothing literally. Just like being called slut, whore, etc. during sex. Some people take some things to seriously and literally.

I regularly get called slut or whore and occasionally white bitch during sex. I luv it. Makes the sex more intense....Becky

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by florida hubby

I regularly get called slut or whore and occasionally white bitch during sex. I luv it. Makes the sex more intense....Becky

Good points from HotHo45 and Becky! I know plenty of the exact same people who state they would not say "nigga" get off on other types of "bad words" being used during sex! Unless they have a policy of engaging in only "politically correct sex" LOL I've had so, so many white women ask me to call them "bitch" during sex that I always say I'm gonna make a movie out of it . . . Call Me White Bitch!!!

Now, I'm not going to go as far as to say that "nigga" and "nigger" are just a couple of words. Clearly they are not. Otherwise, we wouldn't be having this conversation. But neither are words like bitch, ho, whore, slut, etc. And I know damn well from direct experience that words like those and others get used all the time! So, pick your poison. Or, just stick with politically correct sex with the lights off in the missionary position only . . . and DEFINITELY nooooooo butt fucking ever . . BOOOOOORRRRRRIIIIING !!!

[Lonelybull]

Originally Posted by navywifezzz

What is there to rethink?
Are you of the mindset that it’s just a word
Because it is not.
If you’re cool with being called a racial slur
then it says something about both of you.
There’s no amount of
decent, adequate, good, fantastic sex to make me
disrespect someone with a term meant to destroy the psyche
of another person
I don’t have to walk a day in your shoes to know
that it is something you should never do or consider
I am baffled and dumbfounded that this would be uttered
under the guise of just role playing or having sex
Nope not today
I know too many great men to ever say this to them
I know their journey
But this is just me desiring to treat people the same

I don't know how you got me seeing it as "just a word" from this post. I made it pretty clear that this made me uncomfortable, enough for me to come on here and post about it.

Her husband told me she said it with all the guys she had been with so that made me think that more guys are ok with it than I first thought.

[Megan92]

It all depends on the person I am with and what type of sex we’re having. I have been with several black men that loved me using it during sex talk.

[speed_trixie]

Well put. I guess the taboo aspect for some makes it exciting. For me it's not really about the taboo, and saying something disrespectful or ignorant... it's just a turn off.

[hotkitty4u2]

Originally Posted by speed_trixie

Well put. I guess the taboo aspect for some makes it exciting. For me it's not really about the taboo, and saying something disrespectful or ignorant... it's just a turn off.

Agreed, very disrespectful. A lot of things are said in the presence of passion but this should not even cross the mind.

[sheluvedthadick]

I'm ok with it in a situation where one is comfortable with the woman. I've asked my exes to say it in the middle of sex because its taboo and it does enhance the arousal but once again, only if all parties are comfy with it. But if someone ever just said it to me out the blue, we'd have an issue.

[wicked7]

Originally Posted by Lonelybull

So I (black guy) have been playing with couples for almost a year now and and had my first encounter of the wife I was chatting with calling me a n*****. Her husband said she was excited to meet up and she apparently says that to all the guys she's with. I get that it's taboo and makes it hot for some white women, but it took me way off guard and made me rethink a few things.

So I guess my main questions are:

White women: Do you say it with your bulls/bfs? If so why?

Black guys: you cool with it?

Genuinely curious about how popular this level of "raceplay" is.

In my opinion using that "Taboo Word" makes the white women using it feel more naughty, hence, more excited.