White women dropping the N-Bomb
 

So I (black guy) have been playing with couples for almost a year now and and had my first encounter of the wife I was chatting with calling me a n*****. Her husband said she was excited to meet up and she apparently says that to all the guys she's with. I get that it's taboo and makes it hot for some white women, but it took me way off guard and made me rethink a few things.

So I guess my main questions are:

White women: Do you say it with your bulls/bfs? If so why?

Black guys: you cool with it?

Genuinely curious about how popular this level of "raceplay" is.

I do not.... Becky :p

I think it's very disrespectful demeaning and wrong. I never use the word if i can help it. I've taught my kids not too as well. I wasn't raised that way. Just my 2 cents nut it's also derogatory degrading . Just like I don't like being called a bitch or slut during sex which includes chocking slapping my face or roughness. Just isn't me.

For me as a man it's just a huge turnoff. None of my friends and family use it. I'm always attracted to white women who are cognizant and deeply conscious of the struggle for open interracial relationships over the centuries. We're blessed beyond words to be living during a time when Black Men and White Women can be intimate with each other legally, freely and honestly without being killed in the "N" word's name [in most places]. Again, that's my perspective.

I never use that word, ever.

Never have

I like
 

I like it when pretty white women are comfortable saying "nigga" and "nigger" during sex. I like it even more when they publicly state that this should not be said, but then they are secretly saying it with me behind the scenes ;) Last month, I was butt fucking an attractive blonde in her "pinky" as she put it, when she yelled out how much she liked my "nigger dick" thrust deep up in her white asshole. This made me nut like a moose LOL! So yes, in the right time and place . . . I like it :) Like-minded women and couples can feel free to contact me. And, I can travel some within reason. Just be for real.

In the heat of the moment.....
 

Wife has definitely used it when she is REALLY in to the sex and it fits, usually when orgasms are occurring, or pre-orgasm when asked what she wants , or what she is....everyone can figure out specifically what that is.

The most intense and sexual time I witnessed it was her second BBC experience with a guy she had gotten to know over the phone before they met and had prearranged a situation whereby she was going to insert her diaphragm (all the birth control she uses) DURING their encounter, versus before he showed up......reason being diaphragms can cause severe cramping if left in for long periods of time and during rigorous sex, which had happened to her.

LONG story, but he convinced her to let him put his cock inside her without her diaphragm to "see what it felt like", and the resulting intense sexual feeling led to her/them losing control as his orgasm became imminent and she encouraged him, in her out of control OMG orgasming state, to cum in her even tho unprotected from a pregnancy and made a number of unexpected comments during her MASSIVE orgasm regarding the N word (which I had NEVER heard her use prior and she gave me hell when I did) and where she wanted his cum, its national origin, and the race of the baby she also desired in full bore street language!!

It was an amazing experience......and extended from a Friday evening meeting to an all weekend arrangement that involved kicking me and our son out to a hotel and them staying in bed virtually all weekend. Couple showers and some hastily prepared foor were the only reasons they spent any time ot of bed.

CW

99% of the time, no but the 1% I did was intense.
I was fucking her mind slowly.
She was a good girl but I wanted HER to hear herself confess aloud a slow progression of confessions, each phrase came with a firm spank of her ass and tug of her hair.
Imagine the nicest church wive/soccer mom/good girl saying

I think about black cock
I want black cock
I need black cock
I crave black cock
I fuck black cock
I suck black cock
I make black cocks cum
I love being fucked by black cock
I take n-cock!

...I am intense with my dirty talk, loud kissing and name calling for that hot few minutes of sex and/or lust,,,then we're BACK TO NORMAL PEOPLE TALK. I guess I am saying, I don't get political with it or take it seriously BECAUSE I TALK DIRTY ALL THE TIME.

Not for me.

I have been called racial names during sex from a white guy, it turned me on. Its during sex, I take nothing literally. Just like being called slut, whore, etc. during sex. Some people take some things to seriously and literally.

Being called names
 

I regularly get called slut or whore and occasionally white bitch during sex. I luv it. Makes the sex more intense....Becky :p

Call Me White Bitch!
 

Good points from HotHo45 and Becky! I know plenty of the exact same people who state they would not say "nigga" get off on other types of "bad words" being used during sex! Unless they have a policy of engaging in only "politically correct sex" LOL :) I've had so, so many white women ask me to call them "bitch" during sex that I always say I'm gonna make a movie out of it . . . Call Me White Bitch!!!

Now, I'm not going to go as far as to say that "nigga" and "nigger" are just a couple of words. Clearly they are not. Otherwise, we wouldn't be having this conversation. But neither are words like bitch, ho, whore, slut, etc. And I know damn well from direct experience that words like those and others get used all the time! So, pick your poison. Or, just stick with politically correct sex with the lights off in the missionary position only . . . and DEFINITELY nooooooo butt fucking ever . . BOOOOOORRRRRRIIIIING :p!!!

that's a weird take, but ok
 

I don't know how you got me seeing it as "just a word" from this post. I made it pretty clear that this made me uncomfortable, enough for me to come on here and post about it.

Her husband told me she said it with all the guys she had been with so that made me think that more guys are ok with it than I first thought.

It all depends on the person I am with and what type of sex we’re having. I have been with several black men that loved me using it during sex talk.

Well put. I guess the taboo aspect for some makes it exciting. For me it's not really about the taboo, and saying something disrespectful or ignorant... it's just a turn off.

Agreed, very disrespectful. A lot of things are said in the presence of passion but this should not even cross the mind.

I'm ok with it in a situation where one is comfortable with the woman. I've asked my exes to say it in the middle of sex because its taboo and it does enhance the arousal but once again, only if all parties are comfy with it. But if someone ever just said it to me out the blue, we'd have an issue.

In my opinion using that "Taboo Word" makes the white women using it feel more naughty, hence, more excited.

Depends
 

I can see how race play could be a turn on and I've never tried it so I don't have first hand knowledge but I feel as if personally I wouldn't like it and haven't requested it. Only black people. An say it in my opinion.

Disrespectful
 

No i don’t use that word. It’s just disrespectful :(
The spice of taboo is strong enough :)

Becky is an expert at harvesting african sperm, so it wouln't suprise me if her mouth is full and she is just too busy to say much of anything.

But the reward for that is she as access to as many dicks as she likes, and' we're very lucky to get our chance to put them inside of her!

But as for me, I don't care because if she's getting excited she might say anything.

But if she says it before she's even naked, i don't like that.

It’s very impolite to talk with your mouth full....Becky :p

1 instance of being called the N-Bomb
 

I've had 1 instance of when I was called the N-Bomb. It was with a couple in Georgia while I was on an R&R trip. Needless to say, I never talked to them again. I think language, no matter how freaky should be more creative than crude.

The moment I run into a situation like that, I completely disassociate myself from it altogether. I can naturally come up with a whole lot more ways to talk about sex with a hot white wife, than being crude.

No matter how erotic it may sound. That would be like me calling another man's white wife a bitch while we're having sex. Even though he knows of how naughty the language can get, I'm not crossing that bridge at all. It would be a complete turn-off for me. No matter how hot his wife is, and no matter how great the sex is.

Race play is something that I’m interested in, but I don’t think that I could bring myself to actually saying the word.

lets do it bby mmmhm! :D :p

I will do it only if the guy is totally comfortable with it, usually they tell me that they want me to say it or in a certain way. I do find it to be extremely arousing though and it does get intense. I have used the word on some guys that haven’t asked me to say it and some fuck me harder while also saying racist things towards me. Obviously I don’t mean it but just in the heat of the moment it can get very stimulated.

I do not say it, even when asked. That's just a line I'm not willing to cross.

I Don’t use and never will. It is too much direspectful for my lover.

Omg that’s hot!!! I’d love to hear more about her wonderful weekend. We can swap stories

I was 17 and I had a bull ask me to say it during sex and I wouldn’t at first. He kept persisting until finally I told him to destroy my white Pussy with his huge n****r cock and it was like a switch. It turned what was already rough sex into an animalistic assault on my white pussy. I have no idea how many times I came in a row but it was a lot. I had never been fucked like that before and I even squirted for the first time that night. During sex the next day my boyfriend accused me of cheating saying that my pussy felt used and loose. I ended up confessing a couple years later after we opened our relationship. While not a deal breaker, I always look for guys into it and they go to the top of the list.

Definitely NO! I’d probably pull my cock out of that broad and bounce.

Never thought so but....
 

I never in my life would have uttered that word. Being from the South and actually being raised right, that word was absolute filth. But my bull told me to say it while he was taking me hard in the ass for the first time. He asked if I liked that N dick in my ass. I said yes daddy. And then he told me he wanted to hear me say it. I don't know what came over me but I just screamed, "I love your big N dick in my ass, Daddy. I love my N Daddy!" And I came like never before. He was spanking me and I was in total ecstasy that I said that without any inhibition. He only asks for that on occasion, but he always loves it when he can make me say the unutterable word. I was trained my whole life not to say that and he undid that training by the 2nd fuck session.

As a White male slut I don't say it but this bull ray was also doing another white male bitch that did it just to piss ray off and get smacked around. sometimes I'd catch some and my girlfriend said she didn't mind but 3 months after I left my ex girlfriend beat his drunk ass with an un opened soda

I’ve never seen my ex’s say the “n” word. but the bull made them specifically use the word “black” when referring to him, or his cock.

I made the mistake of telling a "friend"my fantasy
 

I told guy, I thought was a good friend about my fantasy of sex with a black man (or several) and I was shocked at his reaction. He called me "A Dammed N......... Lover" and hasn't spoken to me since. I was stunned. I thought me was a a good guy. Maybe I should have "Nigga Lover" tattooed one word above each nipple! But, Would that get me beat up? What do you think.I do not know any black men at this time (but I hope to).

Words on Boobs
 

Thinking it over--I think that "Black" "Only" might be better above each nipple--tattooed in black in, Inch high letters. Printing or script?

No
 

I grew up realizing that the n word was degrading, and should never be used. I had one guy who wanted me to use it and I told him if he ever wanted to be with me again stop asking me to use that awful word

Yes all the time. Especially when i orgasm and when my bull cums deep inside me