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[blk4azn]

Originally Posted by beth1977

I have been approached by black men at malls, etc. However they just say things like "What a cute butt," etc. It would be nice to just be approached with a compliment and asked to have a cup of coffe or the like. I have not been with a black man yet, but I am certainly in the market, but not for a gangsta type at all.
Beth

I'm not really into White women, but I respect this post.

[blkoral77]

Well, women seem to be in charge...don't grab anyone unless u plan to go to jail. Women make themselves hard to get sometimes, and guys interpret this as not interested...

[susu56]

Originally Posted by blk4azn

I'm not really into White women, but I respect this post.

If you aren't into white women, why are you on this site?

[okchic68]

I went and got a Queen of Spade Tattoo so there would be no Question as to whether or not I was Interested!

If a White woman is interested in you and wants you to Fuck her, she will let you know!

[Adultfun]

Originally Posted by okchic68

I went and got a Queen of Spade Tattoo so there would be no Question as to whether or not I was Interested!

If a White woman is interested in you and wants you to Fuck her, she will let you know!

Very nice tattoo,,, but where is it located?? can you show us a not so close up of it??

[Blkbeast12]

Blue Ice,

If you are looking for outward, "obvious to the world" signs of a woman interested
in having sex with you, it's not going to happen (aside from some of the "marks" and hints" already mentioned in this subject thread). You are going to have to MAKE CONTACT with someone you see in the store, at the mall, at a movie theater, etc. Hell, you can even make eye-contact across a crowded room and smile at your intended interest; if she smiles back, there's your invite to approach and speak. Now, if the first sentence out of your mouth is "I want to f8ck you," nine times out of ten, you are going to get rejected...even if they are initially attracted to you physically. Adhere to the following rules, and I PROMISE YOU, your success rate will increase dramatically:

1) Be COURTEOUS...speak to her like you would want a man to speak to your mother, sister, or a woman that is important to you. "Excuse Me," and "May I have a moment of your time" are two of the BEST ways to get a woman's attention and interest in speaking with you. If she stops to engage you in conversation, tell her that you wanted her to know that she caught your attention, and you had to let her know how attractive she is. Her reaction to THAT ONE STATEMENT will give you a pretty definitive indicator as to whether or not she would be at all interested in "getting together" with you.

2) Be PATIENT... ask her to meet you for lunch somewhere or for drinks after work. During that "first rendezvous," ask her about the "best romantic experience she has ever had." She may tell you about the love of her life, or a one-time date, but either way, you now have her thinking about intimacy. If she tells you about some guy that "rocked her world" in the bedroom, then YOU ARE IN THERE.

3) Make CONTACT; during your interaction, touch her shoulders, her hands/fingers, or place your hand at the small of her back (at the WAISTLINE). You can even do this during the first contact, if you lean in and whisper in her ear when speaking with her.
If she doesn't FLINCH from that contact, that is always a VERY GOOD sign. If she starts to reciprocate the "casual touching," that is another good indicator, that your chances are good for "more touching" to occur.

3) Be WELL GROOMED with EXCELLENT HYGIENE. - Despite the "thug appeal" fad, very few women interested or curious about being with a black man will turn down a brotha that is clean cut, well dressed and smells "So Fresh and So Clean." REMEMBER not to OVER DO IT with the cologne or body spray...

4) Be CONFIDENT. This one, you've got to figure out on your own...for me, it was putting on 20lbs of muscle during my senior year in high school. You don't have to be a "muscle guy" to draw attention from the ladies (although it definitely helps!), but do your best to be in the best shape you can. Plus, being physically fit or athletically inclined will ALWAYS improve your Sexual Endurance and Stamina. All in all, just realize what your own strengths are and play those up.

Now go get yours...

[Lightcaster]

Pay attention to what Blkbeast12 is saying those are all good points. The 'symbols' that we wear are not always the easiest to spot...even after you spot them what he is saying are good things to do.

Andrea

[johnthedm]

Originally Posted by Blkbeast12

Blue Ice,

If you are looking for outward, "obvious to the world" signs of a woman interested
in having sex with you, it's not going to happen (aside from some of the "marks" and hints" already mentioned in this subject thread). You are going to have to MAKE CONTACT with someone you see in the store, at the mall, at a movie theater, etc. Hell, you can even make eye-contact across a crowded room and smile at your intended interest; if she smiles back, there's your invite to approach and speak. Now, if the first sentence out of your mouth is "I want to f8ck you," nine times out of ten, you are going to get rejected...even if they are initially attracted to you physically. Adhere to the following rules, and I PROMISE YOU, your success rate will increase dramatically:

1) Be COURTEOUS...speak to her like you would want a man to speak to your mother, sister, or a woman that is important to you. "Excuse Me," and "May I have a moment of your time" are two of the BEST ways to get a woman's attention and interest in speaking with you. If she stops to engage you in conversation, tell her that you wanted her to know that she caught your attention, and you had to let her know how attractive she is. Her reaction to THAT ONE STATEMENT will give you a pretty definitive indicator as to whether or not she would be at all interested in "getting together" with you.

2) Be PATIENT... ask her to meet you for lunch somewhere or for drinks after work. During that "first rendezvous," ask her about the "best romantic experience she has ever had." She may tell you about the love of her life, or a one-time date, but either way, you now have her thinking about intimacy. If she tells you about some guy that "rocked her world" in the bedroom, then YOU ARE IN THERE.

3) Make CONTACT; during your interaction, touch her shoulders, her hands/fingers, or place your hand at the small of her back (at the WAISTLINE). You can even do this during the first contact, if you lean in and whisper in her ear when speaking with her.
If she doesn't FLINCH from that contact, that is always a VERY GOOD sign. If she starts to reciprocate the "casual touching," that is another good indicator, that your chances are good for "more touching" to occur.

3) Be WELL GROOMED with EXCELLENT HYGIENE. - Despite the "thug appeal" fad, very few women interested or curious about being with a black man will turn down a brotha that is clean cut, well dressed and smells "So Fresh and So Clean." REMEMBER not to OVER DO IT with the cologne or body spray...

4) Be CONFIDENT. This one, you've got to figure out on your own...for me, it was putting on 20lbs of muscle during my senior year in high school. You don't have to be a "muscle guy" to draw attention from the ladies (although it definitely helps!), but do your best to be in the best shape you can. Plus, being physically fit or athletically inclined will ALWAYS improve your Sexual Endurance and Stamina. All in all, just realize what your own strengths are and play those up.

Now go get yours...

Bravo Beast! I'm sure the, "young one", will have many adventures to share here, using your advice!
Johnthedm

[jgardner18]

i'm sure this is an older post as i've seen it come up plenty of times. i don't know...i'm thinking if you don't know that a women...in this case white one is interested in you, then you probably shouldn't be playing the game. they give all sorts of signs. i'm usually told by a friend of the white woman, or herself that she thinks i'm attractive or so on. plus haven't you ever heard the phrase once you go black. white women that have been with a black guy have a different swag to them. they walk different. they are more observant...meaning they look around more and are more aware of their surroundings. they are not all isolated in their own world like most white women. they are flirty and will talk first. most of the time by the time you get over to talk to them they ask you what took so long, that they were trying to get your attention from awhile ago. i'm from a little younger generation, but i've been with older white women, and the deal is the same. you have to be open minded too. if they think you have attitude, you have to have to sense of humor to run with it. compliment the shit out of them too...they can't get enough of that. you have to love women though in general to pull this off. you have to think every possible aspect of a woman is sexy from her toes to her fingertips. you have to mean what you say. it's like a job, if you don't like the work you're doing you're going to hate going to work. if you do something you like, then it doesn't seem like work. it's your passion. make it your passion. i love women, so if i see a woman with pretty feet, she is going to know it somewhere along the way. i have friends that will walk up to a complete stranger and tell her she has pretty feet. i'm more layed back and wait for them to give a sign. i save the flattery for the bedroom. if she has pretty feet, they are getting sucked. if her ass is pretty, my face is buried in her asshole. if her pussy is pretty, i'm taking 20 minutes alone kissing it, stroking it, licking it, petting it with my dick. you gotta love what you do bro. also meet people through people. put yourself out there. get to be familiar with music, and shops where there is a mixture of people. diversity is key. these aren't just things to get white women, these are things to be a well rounded black individual. i agree a bit with what malcolm x was saying further down in the post, but it doesn't have to be to that degree. just think about bettering yourself as a person, and see yourself as someone that can make a difference. integrate yourself with things that are going to make you more well rounded as an individual and the rest will fall into place.

[logan2012]

all i can say marissaalex is that he had good taste in women, your very sexy.