Does she really want BBC ?
 

Me and the wife have been together f

She's wanting it; don't push too hard, too fast
 

@mike0802, Your wife is definitely wanting to feel a bbc in her. You just have to be patient. Keep going with the fantasy talk, toy, & pics from your friend. Have him over for dinner. Enjoy some wine. See how it goes.

Look for what it’s worth & I don’t know your girls likes, dislikes, habits or persuasions! But from my experience if someone wants something they do it! Right? And speaking from my own personal experience that’s just what my wife did...... and before I even knew it, it was too late!

You can push and hint! But ultimately it’s her choice, fuck-all you do is gonna sway the situation. You’d maybe have more chance trying reverse psychology, telling her please don’t cheat, don’t fuck a black man..... just a thought!

Its hard to believe all the drama you are injecting into this supposed scenario. But if by chance its true you should have little problem converting her. Ive turned dozens of ww on to black men. And shes a easy case.

Shes probably been "on board" longer than you think hahaha.

I certainly wish you well but I hope you understand that once this happens you lose all control. If this gets to a point where you think it's getting out of control and you want her to stop, don't be surprised if she tells you that she won't stop. You're going to hear from a lot of men who are going to congratulate you and tell you how lucky you are. But they won't be there to help you pick up the pieces if things get out of control.

I'm not trying to rain on your parade. But I can tell you from experience that it doesn't always end well. My now ex-wife left me to be with her lover.

Good luck.

Who decided it supposed to be a one time thing? It's her body and if she decides she wants it to be an all the time thing you really won't have a say in the matter.

First off don't listen to people who tell you this will end badly for you. I know plenty of couples who've gone this route and they say it's the best thing they've ever done really helps the marriage adds some excitement and energy to it . So a great way to keep your marriage interesting. Trust me your wife knows the difference between love and sex. You'll be fine.

Now as for the next step. Bring over some black men . If you don't know any or any you would be OK with fucking your wife . Then go to web sites and look for one. Bring him home set the mood nice dinner, some wine, nice music. And let nature take its course. Does she want you there you think or would she better if you were gone . Maybe make some excuse to go someplace . Work or something. Or you could go out and "accidentally" meet someone and again let nature take its course.

She does want it you does have to make easy for her to get.

Youre giving good advice. My hotwife setup went great for years. So great in fact I can say it was almost worth it. But my wife also left with her lover. He had moved in and when he moved out my wife AND daughter went with him. Now hes banging both of them and word is hes pimping them to his friends . I miss them dearly.
So yes theres always that worry. Anybody that tells guys otherwise are just bullshitters.

Just because it didn't work out for you two doesn't mean it 's bad for everyone. Sounds like Mike here has a good marriage so it will go well for him and his wife.


Yeah get a nice hotel room some place meet him in the lobby . If the hotel has a bar and restaurant have dinner and drinks and then head up to the room. You going to watch or leave them alone.

Good and bad you know this guy you have a certain comfort level I guess but that can add challenges . You see him everyday. Whats your relationship with him.

See sounds like you know what you're doing. Pay no attention to these guys who tell you that its going to end badly for you. Their marriages were probably bad to begin with.

You don't want to see this guy every day. It gets weird right. A little deception with your wife is acceptable. I mean its for her own good in the long run. And does it make much of a difference. The guy knows you been telling your wife you used to work together . Just give him a good story so he'll be able to play along right.

So you have a date set up already or you still in the talking stages.

Wife experience
 

My wife and I talked for 5 years about it then one time on a business trip she was really horny and called we talked it through and she said this black guy was flirting and hitting on her. She said I think he wants to fuck me and I told him I’m married... she was telling me she was attracted to him and was really horny too. I asked her what she wanted I told her to be honest she said I think I’d like to fuck him... I surprised her when I said go for it then and enjoy it and she deserves a good time... she was shocked and happy and nervous. Asked me if I was serious and sure I said yes and I love you... she said I don’t want you mad if I do it and I said I want you to have fun and go get it. She did and loved it! She asked before they did if I had any stipulations I told her she takes him bare. She asked if she should make him pull out I told her no unless she wanted him to and she said NO! I said have fun and call me after. I got a couple pics of the after and listened to her she went back for another round... when she came back she was glowing so sexy and we had to hide and we made hot love a lot through two weeks. It’s was amazing and she wants to do it again, but wants me there.

Another satisfied customer .

So when was this anyway . She get that guys contact information . Should get together with him. Sounds like she left the phone on so you could hear them.

A lot of women come back from these felling a lot sexier and your own sex life will be better because of it.

No she didn’t want his contact info... this was 3 years ago and she is overdue for another good time... we will probably talk about it tonight too! It’s hard to find non pushy and rude guys as that turns her off. But yes she was so hot looking when she came back... we were like horny rabbits. It has strengthened our marriage and sex life but we are both craving that spark again

Three Years . Damn I'd say she is way over due. Say you both are. How did things go with her you getting her ready. You know sometimes you have to kind of force the issue. Take her out , accidentally run into this guy and let nature take its course.

Maybe watch some good IR porn before you do just to get her primed .

Well she has gone several years and she is still with you . So probably not. You should think of this as adding something to your marriage and sex life. Think you will both find it interesting, exciting.

I have done this with married white couples and I recently met up with them after several years. The husband told me that watching his wife with black men was the hottest thing they ever did together. Still married . She does go out on dates, and sometimes she brings them home or they go meet up with a bull some place but they have a great sex life because of it.

So don't worry about what others say here. It will be good for both of you

Have not but not a closed thing depending on the mood and all!

She was away on a business trip when it took place. She was really horny and our conversations got the best of her going. We are talking about it but I can’t force her she has to be ready. We bring it up during our sexy time here and there and it gets things warmed up.

Yes!!!! Very much a 95% chance at least. My wife said it was some of the hottest but the fire it lit in our relationship and sex life was the best part

That's good I kinda want her to become addicted and wanting it more

Even if that means less for you ?

So why do you want her hooked on getting black cock.

Think you can control her ? . Might be the bbc be owning her then Man IN NJ has a point .

Once a ww gets with the right bm the ww control is lost. Thats a given. Just keeping the relationship at home afloat is all most ww can hope for. Been there done that. And watched dozens of cases first hand. Except when the chemistry dont gel or the finances hold her back the ww is gone. If not in mind she will be gone physically.

My husband thought that he could handle it and control me. He couldn’t. Especially after he found out how many of the locals I was fucking on a regular basis....Becky:p

Yeh I don't mind if I get less and I think we will be able to handle things just fine , yes I would like for her to want more after she gets it first time but who knows she may do it once and be done she already said it would be a one time thing but I'm hoping it goes diffrent but if it is one time thing that's fine to thanks for all yalls input this has been great

Yeah I think 6 (SIX) MONTHS is plenty time for a woman to have a ONE night stand with a black man hahahaha. This is ridiculous bullshit. And thats not even counting the YEARS leading up to it hahahaha. Id hate to know I was the token bm waiting for this white damsel in distress hahahaha.
Talk about dramatic amounts of free air time. Ol mike has had it. But good luck to his fantasy anyway. Only he can tell us how many times hes jo during this thought process, This is really too funny. LOL!

Yeh for sure I'll let yall know how it goes for sure!

Yeah you do that. But please hurry. At the rate youre moving arthritis is gonna pull her from combat duty before you toss her to the lions! Hahaha.

Lol no rush here it's been this long so no need to rush now lol but I'll let yall know how it agrees I preciate the feed back

Something like that either happens pretty quick or it doesn't happen at all.

Oh yeh is happening we just setting it up we got 3 young kids run 2 businesses and sports so it's not a overnight set up but it'll be in next few weeks

You forgot to tell us wifey is unaware hahaha. If a ww has any slight curiosity or desire to have sex with a bm she goes for it. I call bs on this and consider it a closed book.
BTW there is a special section for fantasy stories. I STRONGLY suggest you quit wasting our time and post this crazy bs there. Please!!!!!!!!,,,,,,,,,,,,

Lol it's all good you can think what you want but I know what I got going on and I'm not fake or anything like that I've been on this forum for a few years and haven't never bullshitted on here

Pure fantasy nothing more!

so dude you want your wife to get addicted to bbc with three kids . who going to watch them while she is dealing with her addiction. if she gets truly hooked and with the right brother forget about her. but hey go ahead love to see what happens here. hope you don't mind being a single dad of three.

I never thought that it would happen but my wife is totally turned on by BBC. She loved watching BBC porn and gets so wet and turned on by seeing woman take a huge black cock and coming hard. I never expected it but definitely brings out the naughty side. She tells me not to show her "bad porn" which is white guys with average dicks. She mentions how small they look compared to BBC. My next step is getting her a BBC toy to fuck her deep (deeper than I can go) and see her cum hard.

You need to realize that once you let the "cat out of the bag" that there is no going back. Once she sees or feels a huge BBC she is never going to forget it and will not look at your cock the same ever again.

Thats all she will do with your cock. Look at it :)

Yeh I think things will work out fine and if I have to be a single dad I'm cool with that that part don't worry me

At the rate youre moving youll be a single grandfather before she gets some bbc. Hey yeah you could pimp the grandma hahaha.

I’m a grandma and I still get pimped....Becky:p

But I bet you never sat back and listened to some little bitchboi whine about wanting you to go out with a black man and have fun. If a ww is interested in bbc she goes and gets if for herself. I know that for a fact. WW that live the life are a blessing. I wouldnt give .02 for a ww that needed me to beg her to fuck hahaha.
Have fun!