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| Ask my husband if he was serious? |
   
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64 | 28.44% |
| Bring it up again, and take the "joke" a little further? |
  
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52 | 23.11% |
| Next arguement, tell him I'm going to fuck a black guy to see what he says? |
  
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42 | 18.67% |
| Just have sex with my co-worker without tellin my husband |
  
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93 | 41.33% |
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Have no regrets! |
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07-14-2022, 03:54 PM
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Have no regrets!
I would watch porn with him and have some interracial sex in it and see how his body reacts. Sometimes we don't want to admit what turns us on.
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07-16-2022, 10:01 PM
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Preferably some other guy's wife! Thank- you!
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07-17-2022, 04:13 AM
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I agree with the adult video that includes interracial sex. Usually those with amateurs or non professional actors are really good to watch. If he does not respond, then perhaps have a secret affair with someone you trust that will be discrete and safe. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
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08-12-2022, 01:53 PM
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08-12-2022, 02:04 PM
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You need to decide it loosing what you have is worth it. Only you can make this decision, nobody else. As an older person, I can tell you that sex isn't the only thing in a relationship. Now at your age it IS a HELL of alot more important than it will be later in life. How are you with dealing with guilt? Seriously, can you compartmentalize and deal with it? If not, then you need to have a sit down with him and talk about including others into the relationship. Are you ok with him having another woman on the side?
You guys need to talk about all this. My impression of things is that he really isn't into this, so be prepared to break up. I"m not saying don't have the talk, there is nothing worse than being in a relationship that isn't fulfilling for both of you, in the end both of you will be happier with someone else. But the best way forward is honesty, because maybe you can deal with the guilt, and maybe he will never find out. Neither of those is a given, and the consequences of both are worse than just getting things out into the open. As someone else posted above, test the waters first with some IR porn first. See how he reacts, that'll tell you some things. Think about all of this, and his reaction to the IR Porn, and then talk. Go forward from there. Unsolicited Old Man Advice. Good luck and keep us posted!
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08-05-2022, 07:33 PM
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Be honest with him. you don't want to ruin your marriage and he may surprise you with his attitude towards it
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08-08-2022, 05:40 AM
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I have tried... by hinting. But it's so hard to actually come out and tell him I want to fuck a black guy. We are pretty repressed in the bedroom. And I don't want this to cause us to split up if he is totally against it... I just want more. (more inches, more thickness, more rough, more submissive, more guys at once) (and more Black in me! LOL!) Sigh! Being on here has just made me want it more
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Don't bother telling him |
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08-08-2022, 12:08 PM
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Don't bother telling him
Don't tell. Go ahead and fuck a black guy (I volunteer). If you decide its a one-time thing (which you won't) then you go back to your current life and no one has to know. Of course, the almost assured scenario after you experience what you've been missing is that you will confront him and lay down the law to him. He will either accept your new lifestyle or you will move on. Regardless of what he decides, it's a win/win for you.
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08-10-2022, 06:51 AM
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wow- the way you put that... To be honest- the though of having a black BF on the side, who is happy with that arrangement makes me kind of wet. To have leverage with my husband, so that if he finds out, he knows I have another man, and it's like... let me have this on the side and we can stay married, or if you don't, I'm leaving... I don't want to get re-married if I leave him. I would be able to see anyone I wanted after that. mmmm Threatening to leave him for my black lover unless he allows me to continue to have my fun on the side... with my black fuckbuddy... fuck that sounds so empowering!
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08-10-2022, 06:52 AM
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Threatening to leave him for my black lover unless he allows me to continue to have my fun on the side... with my black fuckbuddy...
fuck that sounds so empowering![/QUOTE] big step though- so you think I should have my Black side thing first before making any demands of my Husband?
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