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[stardate]

I was unaware of my wife’s past before we met. We didn’t get married until our 30s and she is someone you wouldn’t expect to have slept around. But as time went on she told me about her past and has let me know I don’t size up to previous lovers. I’ve learned to accept she’s going to stray but she is discreet about it and doesn’t embarrass me at company functions etc.

[Pleasureseekhers]

Originally Posted by stardate

I was unaware of my wife’s past before we met. We didn’t get married until our 30s and she is someone you wouldn’t expect to have slept around. But as time went on she told me about her past and has let me know I don’t size up to previous lovers. I’ve learned to accept she’s going to stray but she is discreet about it and doesn’t embarrass me at company functions etc.

Wow… see I feel that’s really shitty in my perspective for your partner to just “dislike” your sexual abilities but I do understand about experiences and expectations. BUT I don’t like a woman to sneak around behind my back and me just being a pawn on the chess board. I prefer open communication and to tell me what your intentions are and that following through or whatever, and include me in some sort of fashion. I just hate doing and not telling. That’s shady shit to me and shows or appears that your other half isn’t important.