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[Pleasureseekhers]

Do most white wives/partners prefer to be in a relationship with a white man that supports your desires and love for interracial sex willingly lovingly and in a supportive/encouraging manor?

Do you prefer a fully open relationship or a one way open on the woman’s side?

On the female side, do you respect or appreciate your significant other’s openness and acceptance in living this lifestyle and his “participation” in the act or would you hope or like to find someone that would be into this lifestyle as such?

I myself have found it a battle personally. I as the man in the relationship was never in my earlier life open to this until after a couple relationships of sneaking partners, I decided for awhile relationships were not worth it and became a whore lol… 🤷🏼*♂️😏. I met a young woman through a social app, and we talked for several months and she called me one day and she said she has something to ask me and hopes I won’t judge. She said she wants a relationship with a white man but loves having sex with black men… my silence scared her as I was fighting a major rush of sexual emotions and I told her that I find that very erotic and exciting. From that point on it became a major turn on to me even though we never got together. To this day it’s been a major part of my sexual desires and I’m not the one that be getting it. I have had a couple relationships since and it ends up a topic, however most deny they would but I have had one where she acted on it but even though she said she loves it she has never again ventured.
I myself have been very advocated to a significant other that loves the ability to enjoy this lifestyle without feeling judged. I feel myself that sex is one thing and love is another and why should I hinder her from enjoying her sexuality with another man? I find it gratifying for her to be able to allow her that ability and TRUST as much as the gratification of who she is surrendering herself to. It’s kind of like I have a flower, a beautiful flower that I admire and cherish but what good is it if nobody else can enjoy it!
I will say I myself am not into the deep cuckold or degradation type situations. I believe in pure pleasure, trust and respect in the lifestyle for all parties involved. Communication and respect of each others concerns and feelings is a big requirement and in a way part of what makes it exciting and pleasurable to me as much as maybe her. I don’t ask too much but personally my main likings and guidelines I ask are as follows:

1 communication
2 respect of concerns and feelings
3 be “safe”
4 include “me” wether there in moment or when you come home etc..
5 have a passionate and good time
6 no condoms
7 fully natural and filled deep
8 possibly send me a pic if not present or I get the front row seat
9 let me clean you up between sessions or bring it on home to me
10 you submit to me after and allow me to do my part while you tell me details or your feelings about the act and passionate love making.

I would like to hear other women, couples, men feedback on this topic and see what others feel or like. Hope to hear from you all!